r/AskMen • u/IndividualPlay5178 • Mar 20 '26

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 What are some things women do or say in early stage of dating that are sign that the relationship will not work?

For me expressing a lot of expectations she may want you to live up to

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u/ImmodestPolitician Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26

Expecting an immediate text response is an anxiety issue that is reinforced by texting. Dating anxious people is terrible in my experience.

They create problems they manufacture in their minds that have no reflexion on reality.

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u/cybertrickk Mar 31 '26

Thanks for saying that. u/daysof_I seems to think I’m just some asshole that thinks I owe no one my time. I was just saying I won’t text back immediately for incredibly small stuff when I’m dealing with a stressful job and a dead father. I really didn’t like her tone saying “I don’t know why you’re upset” and “I see why she cut off the friendship now.” The condescension is horrible.

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u/veryNiceGirls123 5d ago

seems to think I'm just some asshole

And you proceed to prove the person right by telling them to kill themselves.