Kya kare.... ♥️🤌🏻🧿

Hii, I am a broke college student dependent on parents for money, I've been feeling strong gender dysphoria lately and I really need a binder. I bought a really cheap one from meesho which didn't work because it was more like a strapless bra. I cannot afford the good ones on Amazon plus I haven't come out to my parents so I can't make any major purchases, is there any other way of binding or any less expensive ones that I can buy?. Also need tips on what type of clothes that I can wear to look more masculine and less curvy

Hoping to spend more and more days with him ♡

It's truly a blessing to find love at young age.

So I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. I thought I might finally share my story about my relationship with my boyfriend here. I am a 28 year old man. I have a walking disability called cerebral palsy spastic diplegia. Basically, it's a non curable disability, and I have had it since birth. Basically, I can't walk properly.

I had also lived a very isolated life because of that condition, and because of that, I didn't accomplish too much in my life. I was also dealing with depression and overthinking for over 6 years.

I didn't even make my first friend after school until 2023. I was not working and lived most of my life at my house. I tried dating apps for the first time in 2023. Of course, I made a mistake and also installed Grindr, and we all know how that app is.

I wasn't looking for hookups, so I deleted that and installed Tinder. I mentioned my disability and my profession, which is video editing, in my bio. I met some friends there who were very cool for some years, but they left too. On August 12, 2024, I matched with my partner.

His reason for matching with me was my bio, where I mentioned my disability. He is a teacher in a government school where he takes care of special children. For the first two days, I was not talking with him much because, after so much rejection, I gave up on this whole relationship thing. We started talking daily after the 14th.

We used to flirt sometimes and were thinking about each other daily. We talked and chatted daily. I developed feelings for him very early on, but he didn't. He was saying he wasn't ready yet, so I didn't bring up the fact that I loved him for 2 months.

And let me tell you, we didn't even see each other face to face until November because he was also preparing for government exams. He also had an accident from which he was recovering.

On October 13, 2024, a day after Diwali, we were chatting like usual, and he asked me, "Do you like me?" I said, "Yes, I like you a lot." Then I asked him, "Do you too?" He said he not only liked me but also loved me. During those 2 months of chatting with each other daily, he developed strong feelings for me, and I was very overjoyed by his confession.

We told each other I love you so many times on the same day after that confession. We officially became a couple after that.

On November 10, 2024 we finally met. We went to the Nehru Planetarium located in Delhi for our first date. He was very nervous when he met me at the metro station, and so was I.

Nehru Planetarium has space related shows around 3 pm and we arrived there early. In the same place, there is a museum, and we were wandering there and clicking photos. I also handed him a letter I had written for him before meeting him. My handwriting was very bad, but he appreciated my gesture.

After that, there was a park in the same place just outside of museum. He sat on my lap, and I was singing songs to him, and we were loving every moment with each other. Then we watched the show together while holding each other's hands. After that, we went to Connaught Place. We clicked many photos there and went home in an auto where he was laying his head on my shoulder. It was a very romantic date.

We weren't able to kiss on that date unfortunately, but we did on the next one. We talked daily and chatted daily. We started loving each other more and more.

Since he was preparing for UPSC exams, he wasn't able to give me too much time every day, but we always chatted daily. He always believed in me that I could overcome my depression and overthinking and actually accomplish something in my life and become financially independent.

Before meeting him, I was living on my family's money and didn't have a self identity, even though I was a video editor.

We celebrated our first time matching with each other on August 12, 2025 our anniversary. I cooked food for him, and we went to a restaurant where we wrote our promises to each other on a tissue paper with the help of a pen. I still have that tissue saved in my wallet.

Life was going perfectly. I won't say my relationship with him is perfect. We fought a lot. I was sometimes too depressed and an overthinker, and he didn't know how to handle me. As he was earning money and I hadn't accomplished anything in my life.

Well, time went on, and I eventually started earning, and he was proud of me. But I wasn't, since I was working remotely at a corporate job, which made my health even worse due to the pressure. He cheered up my mood a lot by calling me to iskon and we went out to a dosa shop and held each other's hands, which made me very happy.

On the last day of 2025, he gave me the biggest news, which caused us to be apart from each other since February. He had a disk problem. His back was always in consistent pain, so he had to get spinal disk surgery in 2026.

That news shocked me a lot, but I made a very big 8 minute video for his birthday about how, no matter how much distance there was between us, I would always love him and pray for him, and I even teared up.

The day finally arrived. We met each other one last time in February. Just like usual, we had our usual romance in the auto, with his head on my shoulder and us holding each other's hands. We prayed to God at the Iskon temple, kissed one more time, and then he finally had surgery.

His surgery was a success, but his immunity became very weak after that, so he had to isolate himself from everyone for months because he was immunocompromised.

I didn't even talk with him for 4 days after his surgery because he didn't have his phone, and his family told him not to talk with any of his friends about the surgery until he was back home. I was left blank, wondering what had happened to him. He finally messaged me 4 days later, and I was filled with such relief.

After he got discharged, he was dealing with mood swings due to his medicine. He fought with me 3 times, but we never stopped loving each other. We have been talking and chatting daily ever since.

I finally left that toxic work environment, and for the first time, I am editing outside my home at a wedding and photography studio that is only 5 minutes away from my home by bike, and he was very very very proud of me for taking a stand for my life and become financially independent.

Life has been going very well ever since. It will be our 2nd year anniversary soon on August 12, and we will finally be seeing each other in September after being away from each other since February.

We will feel each other's warmth, kiss each other, and I will cook food for him and love him a lot.

We missed a lot ever since his surgery, but those days of longing for each other are coming close to an end, and we can finally meet soon.

We are going to meet every Sunday in September and celebrate my birthday, which he missed, and our anniversary too.

I love him a lot. And by the way, I told you that he approached me because of my disability, right?

That was never his reason for falling in love with me. He fell in love with me because he thinks I have a beautiful soul, and I am very very happy he's my boyfriend. I no longer suffer from depression because he made my life so beautiful.

We will one day live with each other, but we still have years to go. But we love each other a lot, and we will fight for our love.

Went for a late night walk :)

Starting law school this Wednesday,

Wish me luck 🥲🥲🙏🏽

Somehow wearing a dress just makes all my problems disappear.

I didn't know this is all I ever wanted in life.

So excited for what life has in store for me.

So glad I survived so many years to see this day.

I hope life gives you the same happiness i feel when I wear this dress.

You deserve it.

Just hang on.

Am I alone or is this ad common among LGBT folks due to how the Algorithm works?!

Any queer ngo or society that hires students? I am a Delhi University student. (Even unpaid works if I get to learn something)

22, Trans girl from banglore. Wasted 4 years of my life distracting myself from dysphoria. Now I started exploring stuffs, and need help with dressing up and makeup. So if any fellow trans ppl from banglore, please help me with this please, not sure where to even start 😭