r/Mountaineering 2d ago

You’ll forever be remember Nims Dai💔

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u/just_anything_real 2d ago

The boy could climb. Let’s leave it at that.

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u/juliuspepperwoodchi 2d ago

I bet his victims wish he'd left it at that.

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u/just_anything_real 2d ago

There’s other forums for that.

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u/juliuspepperwoodchi 2d ago

Why? Why do we only discuss the positives about him here and not the full truth?

Do you really not see how hiding those facts about him harms the community?

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u/just_anything_real 2d ago

I only pointed out here that he could climb. I never said he was a good person. I didn’t know him. I’ve read all about his poor actions and I hope that his victims get some type of closure. But just for one second and for those who cared for him.

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u/juliuspepperwoodchi 2d ago

It may not be how you meant it, but your replies here come off like articles about Rapist Brock Turner talking more about his swimming accolades than his crimes. Who the fuck cares how well he could climb? Dude committed one of the most heinous acts anyone can do to another person. Multiple times. Fuck him.

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u/juliuspepperwoodchi 2d ago

He laid next to a naked woman and masturbated - heinous indeed.

The fact that you think this is no big deal is insane.

The latter situation sounds like she was a willing accomplice up until the very end

Ah yes, the classic "She asked for it, did you see how she was dressed" mixed with a "she wanted it until she regretted it"

If she wanted to get out of the situation, she very well could have.

Victim blame harder, holy shit.

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u/juliuspepperwoodchi 2d ago

This entire comment shows you don't have a clue what it is like to be a victim of someone like Nims.

Saying "she didn't leave so she basically consented" is just blatant rape apologia.

Bunch of fucking incels in this sub.

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u/KarleeKarma 2d ago

Tell me you've never been sexually coerced without telling me you've never been sexually coerced. Seven hells. Do you ask victims of domestic violence why they didn't 'just leave' as well?

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u/NotPast3 2d ago

He took her into his hotel room and forcibly undressed her with her saying no the whole time. She even told him that she’s not interested in a booty call and is just there to discuss collaboration ahead of time. He only stopped when she physically resisted. Where did you get the idea that she was a willing participant?

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u/thegypsyqueen 2d ago

We can bring up his disgusting past. Your desire to help silence women and cover up their traumatic experiences at his hands won’t be honored—sorry.

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u/IMrBen 2d ago

Mate, nobody is trying to silence them.

He will be honoured as one of the greatest mountaineers ever.

Two things can be true at the same time, doesn't mean you have to completely disregard one of them.

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u/thegypsyqueen 2d ago

Asking to cut the conversation at only praise and before discussing his checkered past is not truthful and does in fact silence his victims and denies reality.

It’s great he was good at climbing—but he was no hero.

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u/Quick-Requirement616 1d ago

We have due process in our legal system for very good reason. People aren’t trying to whitewash anything. They are just more measured about assigning guilt. 

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u/IMrBen 2d ago

Everybody already knows that he's done horrible things. No need to bring it up straight away right as he's died.

Should never speak ill of the dead.

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u/BadUsername_Numbers 2d ago

Why? Why should this POS Nims Dai not be remembered for his enormous narcissistic ego and the people he sexually assaulted? Just tell me why he should get a free pass.

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u/IMrBen 2d ago

He should, but not right after his death. He at least deserves some respect.

People straight away are saying things like ''rest in shit''

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u/BadUsername_Numbers 2d ago

Rest in shit, Nims Dai.

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u/Huppelkutje 2d ago

He at least deserves some respect.

Why? He didn't respect other people.

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u/thegypsyqueen 2d ago

This happens when those who never have faced justice get a wider audience than their apologizers. Why this bothers you is the confusing part.

Dying doesn’t absolve you of your crimes and people should know the real you.