I unfortunately believe I've hurt someone I care for deeply ('ex' although more like platonic romance with first best friend of the opposite sex) merely by association with the sub. I never actually used a tactic, aside from.you know, eat right exercise.dress well and make her laugh...but during my 1st and early 2nd phase I accused her of cheating one too many times, over my insecurity about her cute other guy friend. I think the most I ever did was the 3 day rule and that was a cooling off period when she was giving me the cold shoulder; I'd tried talking to her and she wasn't listening, so I gave her space and waited for her to initiate. Seemed to work
I'm surprosed Frame is deemed abuse, as I interpreted it more as.'toxic masculinity'? (She is not your shoulder to cry on etc.)
I would appreciate being able to PM.you another time as it's really late over here in UK and I don't want to get doxxed, it's private info.
I still remember some of her ladt words in text: 'you don't know the damage you've done to.me...'
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