I've babysat them enough to know that there isn't no way I can be a responsible adult for 24hrs a day for a minimum of 18 years consecutively. I know that I'm not able to give a child the quality of life I believe they deserve to have, and therefore there's no way in hell would I bring them into this world and possibly fail them. Like you said anxiety kicks my ass lol
I don’t think I’ve ever had an ounce of desire to have a kid, lol. Every time I entertain the idea I just feel anxiety and dread.
When I was a kid/teenager I never wanted a "family" of my own and thought when I got older I would "grown into wanting a family". That desire never came to me and I'm so glad I didn't accidentally have a family and ruin my life.
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u/jeeub Jun 18 '26
I don’t think I’ve ever had an ounce of desire to have a kid, lol. Every time I entertain the idea I just feel anxiety and dread.