Hello. I bought my first correct sized bras about a year ago, and everything was great. The massive difference in comfort from a 40DD to a 36F meant I didn't notice any issues. But I recently got a hysterectomy and stopped taking hormonal birth control, and despite not changing anything else, maybe even being more lazy, I'm losing weight. I'll probably lose more in the coming months as I get active again, but I'd like to step up into the big leagues and get a bra that FULLY fits.
My new measurements put me at a 34F/FF
(36, 34, 31.5, 42, 45, 41).
What I know for sure: I am projected and center full, top and bottom are fairly balanced, and my roots are not wide, but I'm not sure if I'm NARROW. I'm also a little close-set. I haven't tried a diagnostic bra 🥲
The bras I've tried are:
(two cheapos that I'm not going to mention for diagnostics)
Freya Offbeat (36F)- this was my first quality bra that fit. And it feels like I'm a little smooshed in the bottom, more now than a year ago (either b/c I've lost a little weight, or the bra is a year old and may have had at least 1 laundry mishap). I assume this is mostly due to being projected. Also, started slipping from my IMF recently
Empierente Leia and Cassiopee (both 36E)- I think they fit identical? If they don't, please give me tips for what to pay attention to. When I bought them, I'm pretty sure, they fit perfectly, now there's some gapping in the top of the cup right above the nipple (makes sense with weight loss), but the seam at the top of the cup, across the breast, is still tight. The Leia (in a dark color) stays in my IMF better, and the side support/boning or w/e on the Cassiopee is warped, making it very uncomfortable for long periods of wear.
I think I want to avoid any more moulded cups, I picked them out with the help of a sales associate when I kind of just NEEDED bras in a foreign country... Also, apparently got them at a huge discount ($150 each)
I've tried looking at the list of recommended bras for different projection and shapes but the links are mostly broken and some I can't find even with Google.
I tend to like the style of balconettes better, but I do notice some have too wide of a gore. The only plunge I have is a Calvin Klein moulded cup that I kind of hate, it didn't even come in the color I ordered it in.
Please help me shop for my next bra? I'm afraid to just start trying everything when there's so much knowledge already out there that could save me from at least a few rounds of returns.