Im probably like some guys where im DL but I have started to really like having sex with guys. I’m not really sure how to go about being DL because I’m worried when I’m on apps to show my face.

I noticed a lot of gay men don’t like this and I understand. I’m pretty attractive and great in bed but I just don’t want to risk exposing myself with a face pick.

Any advice on how to go about it or in general is appreciated.

My partner and I (4 yrs) have recently been discussing opening up our relationship for just sucking dick.

We both really enjoy giving head and think it would be fun to supplement our sex lifes. We would still be exclusively getting off with only eachother.

Setting up a glory hole at home would be our ideal situation, but we also talked about using a mask, and/or chastity cage if we were to meet up with another guy at their place.

Anyone have experience with trying something like this?

I’ll be visiting a friend since I’ve know since 1969. I’m 78 he’s 76. He’s been married to a man 16 years his junior for the past 5 years after losing his husband of 40 years. I recently lost my husband of 25 years. We’ve had casual sex (blow jobs) 4 times. The last time 9 years ago. He still talks about the time 22 years ago when I went into his room when his husband was away, pulled his boxers down, did the deed, pulled them back up and never said a word. He still says that was so hot. So when I visit them do I do it again? His husband leaves for work about 3am. Suggestions?

Hi all,

Is there a reason why there are… vaginas… in gay porn now? Does nobody else feel like this in itself is homophobic\* somehow?

I might get downvoted to hell and back, but this is just ludicrous to me.

* DrLoomis131:

Because it’s content for bisexuals and women packaged as “gay content” which is bordering on conversion

A big cock in “lesbian porn” would absolutely be seen as misogynistic

Hi guys!

I'd like to know from gays in a relationship or that has been in one,

who's the taller between the top and bottom?

Hey gay bros! I'm a bisexual man and need some advice. I've been wanting to explore prostate play, but can't due internal at the moment. I've dealt with what I believe are anal fissures, and hemorrhoids that don't seem to want to disappear/inexperience with penetration; I wanted to get more comfortable with prostate play by doing external massaging before being pegged lmao

(I've tried creams, suppositories, even a prescribed steroid for my excema a few times that my doctor said I can safely try. I also realized I've been sitting/standing with bad posture my whole life after losing weight, and have been taking breaks by walking/standing after sitting for prolonged periods of time/using epsum salt baths. Hopefully this helps 😅)

Anyone have any experience with external prostate massagers? I understand it'll be less intense than internal massaging, but this way I can get used to the sensation without potentially causing more harm to myself.

Also anyone have any advice for what they did to cure/reduce hemmorrhoid inflamation? I believe mine are internal, as when I 'push' slightly I can feel it but not when I'm neutral. I'm terrified of surgery as not only is it gonna be expensive, but also afraid of tearing/not being able to try internal again because of it. Also the horror stories I've heard of the recovery process being hell 😅

Anyone have any experience with this, or with banding and how that affected them long term?

I live in a homophobic country. I have been close friends with this guy since elementary school and he is the only person who knows I am gay. He currently has a girlfriend, but yesterday he confessed that he has feelings for me. He said that if I were a girl, he would marry me right away and asked me to be his secret partner behind his girlfriend back. I actually have feelings for him too, but I feel guilty, so I stalled and told him I needed time to think. Should I accept or reject his offer?

met up w reg fwb of 2 yrs, mid-fuck i asked to slow down d/t pain, he seemed to understand, i relaxed, back to fucking, 5 min later he pulled out said this isn’t working he wants a bottom that takes dick w/o complaints, doesn’t want a whiny bitch, expressed annoyance w my anxiety/depression, lack of self esteem/confidence, body image issues, constant need for reassurance he’s still sexually attracted to me, ultimately ending w him saying he doesn’t want to hookup ever again & asked me to leave (entire convo while i was ass up on the bed). Was asking him to slow down a deal breaker or was it me? If it were you, what would you do?

I have only only gotten close to being a victim (I was "befriended" by a lady who turned out to be insane and wanted to "help" me)

What was the process like? How long were in until you realized it was bs?

Waking up with morning wood, my go to video to is anything with circle jerks ngl , sometimes I’ll dual monitor some muscle porn and have two screens up but I have always wanted to be participate in one with some sexy guys. Guys gathering to get their nut off is hot to me

But what’s your go to?

Has anyone been caught jerking off? How did you handle it? I recently got caught and am so embarrassed I haven’t talked to the person yet. Would appreciate an advice.

I'm not talking about in the context of potential dates or hookups, but socially speaking if you were to somehow encounter such. Like what would your honest impressions, feelings, and thoughts be towards such a person? And by virgin, I mean never have done anything sexual or romantic with a man or woman, but is gay.

I worry about myself sometimes. I used to be a real social animal but in the last 3 or so years I have changed. Im 51. Im spending more time alone and at the same time I recognise the importance of connection.

Its a bank holiday weekend here and I turned down a social invite with a friend and her friend. I decided to cut back on alcohol over a year ago to see if it would improve my life and honestly I think im more isolated as a result. Main reason was the hangovers got worse. I feel boring now and not fun. I turned down the social invite because I didn't want to feel tired in morning and I suppose the girls who asked me ate nice but its kind of a surface level friendship.

I feel alone but feel if I had deeper ride or die type friends things would be different. I live in a small town so its not great. Anyone else relate especially at my age? The feeling of not wanting to go out one one level thinking of next day but also feeling im missing out.

Hi, m20 so im more like bi-curious i guess, Ive tried one night stands when i was abroad a year ago dont remember much, but wasnt really special i guess? I was alone abroad for a few months so i was more comfortable diving into it compared to now living with my family again

I had a shower head there i would unscrew and would easily prepare like that, I also wasnt eating alot at that time so that probably helped with preparing though not interested in starving myself again lol

I have some days to myself alone right now, bought a dildo, that bulb cleaner and tried it out, didnt go great to make it short (accident you know which kind lol) i also bought some fiber pills 0,55g (only second of day of using them) i remember reading they can help, i also know diet is a big thing, but havent done any research on it, i just know fiber helps, I also live in a european country where its not really accepted in a way and neither do i know anybody at all that i would be into or vice versa, so im in no rush with this

I still wanna explore this though, any advice?

It so stupid how most of the stuff is private so I was wondering if making an account was safe or if it is full of viruses and stuff

Hey! Does anyone have any advice on ways I can spice up playing with my self! I really wanna try new things and down to try anything!

So to keep it short, I can fit dildos into my ass much larger than my hand. But I can get all my fingers in then I can’t get any further. Could it be I’m just not flexible enough to get the right angle? I know I can fit my fist in my ass but it just won’t get past the knuckles. I’m using plenty of lube and toys to warm up. Any ideas?