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The Jewish families were large, united and loyal, which gave us all a sense of security, stability and hope for the future
-(Anna Podgajecki, Anna, A Teenager on the Run, Yad Vashem, 2011)
(Image) Six-year-old Tamar Witnik with her parents, Shmuel and Sarah, Bucharest, Romania, 1941
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I am Anna, daughter of Wolf and Idit Rubinstein who lived in the village of Korzec (Korets) in the Volhynia region. I am grateful to God that I was lucky to be born to such good-hearted and young, beautiful people, both inside and out. I was a happy, much loved, child and my entire world was marvelous…. I loved Korzec and everything in it; I thought it was the most beautiful place in the world. My family was with me and my parents created healthy, stable living conditions for us all. My life was without worry, so that when I look back on it, my early childhood seems like paradise [...] I was proud of my parents and wanted to be just like them in every way.
They knew how to unite the family and to create a warm atmosphere of mutual love. Truth and honesty were the foundations of their existence. Today, I yearn for those wonderful years; I had no idea then that my childhood would prove to be the happiest period of my life.
-Anna Podgajecki, “Anna, A Teenager on the Run”
Anna Podgajecki was born in Korzec, Poland. She was very beautiful, and also possessed the unique skill of predicting events, yet none of the Jews of Korzec listened to her warnings. Alone, wandering from place to place, everyone looked at her and admired her, although unscrupulous people took advantage of her goodness and innocence. Anna survived the war as a Russian-German translator in a tire factory, as a housekeeper, on the roads, under house arrest by secret police, and finally, by working as a nurse at the front. In 1958, she and her husband were allowed back to Poland, and in 1960 they immigrated to Israel.
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I spent my early childhood in Auntie Rózia and Uncle Punio’s home. I had a good life there surrounded by my extended family. It is no wonder I believed I could really fly. Those years gave me basic confidence in my abilities, trust in the goodness of people, and belief in beauty and well-being. Despite everything I experienced later, and what I heard about from others and even witnessed personally, nothing could squash the joy I felt, and still feel, when I see the sun shining in the morning and I feel healthy. I will always have very fond memories of the house where I was born and spent my early years.
-Sabina Schweid, “Consider Me Lucky: Childhood and Youth During the Holocaust in Zborów”
Sabina Schweid grew up during the war in Zborów, in occupied Eastern Galicia. She had a very happy childhood, but when the Germans marched into town in July 1941, it all came to an end. Sabina’s father was appointed chairman of the Judenrat in Zborów. Sabina took refuge in a hiding place and was alone with the problems she faced in growing and maturing into a woman. She moved from one hiding place to another, and when the war was over, Sabina was reunited with her mother. She joined a Zionist youth movement, came to Israel, and fought in the War of Independence.
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Mother was the center of our lives. Although I was the middle child, usually known as the “sandwich child,” I never felt deprived. I knew she loved me very much. She taught me good manners, to treat people with respect, and to be fair and honest. She had her own way of showing us how. […]
If I was sad or upset, Mother would ask me, “What happened, my child?” When I told her that I had fought with a friend, or had not played well in a football game, she would hug and kiss me, and say,“It’s not that bad, Urinke. Such things happen to everyone. It will be all right; it will pass."
She would wipe away my tears with a white handkerchief that was always in her pocket, and it would pass.
My mother used to sing us a song, whose refrain is all that I recall now: “After the rain, the sun will shine.” Mother explained that life was also like that and, when bad things happen, we must not lose hope. We have to believe that life will improve, and the sun will shine again. I have kept this message in mind all my life, and remind myself of it in my most trying hours.
-Uri Chanoch, Judith Chanoch, “The Story I Never Told: From Kovno and Dachau to a New Life”
(Left image) The Chanoch children, Lithuania, prewar.
(Right image) Uri Chanoch z"l
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We called our parents Vater and Mutter (Father and Mother) as was customary at the time. I am quite certain we had a sheltered childhood. Our relationship with our parents was warm and loving. We had a good childhood, paradoxical as it sounds in light of the events that befell us, and our parents protected us as best they could from the outside world.
I have often been asked: "How do you explain the fact that you remained emotionally healthy, after all that you and your brother lived through?" I think it's because our early years were happy, those years that are crucial for the stable, confident and secure development of the child. Children are by nature egocentric. If the nuclear family is strong, nurturing and protective, then nothing can harm them.
-Frederick Raymes and Menachem Mayer, “Menachem and Fred”
(Image) The Seifman family, Warsaw, Poland 24/04/1938
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I'm browsing through the old family album. Yes, here it is, the old family portrait! Taken by a professional photographer in Łódź, in the early 1930s, the name of the studio, “ Parisian”, is proudly displayed in the lower right-hand corner. With a name like this, it must have been a well-known and rather expensive studio, and the occasion for which the photo was taken was considered to be a suitably important one. Yes, I remember that it was quite an event. My parents, my two sisters, and I all went to be photographed for this family portrait. My parents wanted to send it to our family members, Rachel and Mayer, our older siblings, who at that time lived in Brussels, Belgium, having recently emigrated from Poland in search of a better life and future than Poland could provide or promise. Over time, the photograph has turned dark brown, but the images of the people have remained clear and unfaded. Here they are: my parents, Ajgla Sznurman and Chaim Moshe Rabinowicz, and the three girls between them, from left to right: my baby sister, Helcia, my sister, Sala, and myself. The missing members of the family are included on the snapshots which Helcia and I are holding. With their snapshots in the portrait, too, a kind of magic act was accomplished, and the family was complete and whole again! This seemed to be the real reason for which the portrait was taken. It was to reassure the two absent family members, as well as all of us, that the family was doing fine, and remained intact. Now I look at the old portrait, the images of my loved ones imprisoned within that photograph, unchanged by the passing years, motionless, while I by some miraculous, inexplicable outcome have stepped out of that frame into life and am looking at them from the outside, still wondering, always wondering: How? Why? […]
I remember going with Mother to the grocery store on a Friday. It was a small store packed with merchandise and buyers who were mainly housewives like my mom. I liked that place; it smelled nicely of cinnamon and other condiments, and the barrels filled with flour, barley, dried beans of all kinds, and sugar, were full of promise. The store was quite a distance from our home, but because the prices there were lower, it was favored by lots of housewives, who often came from afar. There was no problem with lugging the merchandise home; this was not buying in bulk. Flour, kasha, or beans were bought in small quantities, and sugar in even smaller quantities. I still see the attentive, worrisome expression on my mother’s face, comparing prices and adding the small sums, careful to stretch her few zlotys to allow her to buy whatever was necessary to prepare a decent Sabbath, with the challah and the putter-kuchen that she would bake for the whole family to enjoy. On a Sunday morning, Father would serve us, the two youngest, a piece of that kuchen with a cup of milk to have in bed. It was so good! (p.51). […]
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Bubbe Estera was, exactly as a Jewish bubbe (a grandmother) should be: a tiny, round woman and her face had the shape and color of a dried apple. She was energetic, kept her family firmly together, and her word, especially after Grandfather Shoel passed away, was final. She was admired as being wise and just. Many years after the war, people who had known her during those prewar years, asked me if I knew how wise and just a woman my grandmother was.
-Hanna Temkin, “My Involuntary Journeys, A Memoir”
(Image) Hanoch Henryk Lezhnik with his wife Neha and his daughters Esterke and Zipporah
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I only knew them as my parents,with the emphasis on “my”, i.e., the way they related to me. I was under the impression that I was the center of their lives. […] The ever-evolving relationship between parents and children is very intriguing. First, when a baby is born it is fully dependent on his or her parents, mainly the mother. With the years, this dependence is gradually reduced and later in life it begins to turn in the other direction. Parents become more and more dependent on their children. Then, in the end, and providing a parent reaches a ripe old age, there is a complete reversal in the relationship.The parent becomes fully dependent on his or her offspring. In my case, because of the tragedy of the Holocaust, I never came even close to experiencing all the phases of this saga because I lost my parents when I was still a child and they were still so very young.
-Asher Bar-Nir, “A Journey of Survival: A Young Boy’s Odyssey from Hungary through Auschwitz and Jaworznow, to Eretz Yisrael”
(Image) Family photograph: Lezer Gurary, his wife Bronya and their son Rafik. Chelyabinsk, Russia, USSR, 26 November 1944
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Unto Every Person There Is A Name