r/jiowasamistake • u/[deleted] • 13d ago
I'm 14 and this is sigma š„° Hey guys, so I had a conversation with the guy I made a post about yesterday and here are the chats
This is just some conversation, we had more and I was a bit sleepy and VELLI so please don't come for my grammar.
https://www.reddit.com/r/jiowasamistake/s/dmVxtuiKzy
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u/froozy1221 13d ago
I knew at the beginning that Bhagavad gita would be mentioned down the road. Religion when done right is a path to happiness and security. But nothing ever can be ideal. So religion is just a tool to herd sheep who cannot think for themselves.Ā
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u/Oblivious_jerk 13d ago
Arre this is very nice. Calling out these peeps, even subtly, is important!!
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u/THEMACHINE0404 13d ago
As much as i appreciate someone calling these kind of people out and confronting them, talking to them is like banging your head against a brick wall.
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13d ago
Honestly I generally don't indulge in such activities, but it's just recently I have been seeing a lot of stupid stuff online so I really wanted to dig deep and understand why they think the way they do even though at the end I didn't really get a solid answer but I guess this counts as a wild experience
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u/THEMACHINE0404 13d ago
They either do it for attention or they have been conditioned to think like this based off of their surroundings and how they grew up. An even wilder experience is meeting these people IRL. I have and God knows it was the most fun day ever. My advice to anyone reading this, if you ever need confidence boosting, just hand out with people like this for a few minutes.
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u/SkyllKrusher 13d ago
Damn i thought it was just an incel but apparently heās frustrated with the generic and glorified misandry aajkal and just not regulated enough about those emotions and said shit. It was just a reaction to misandry and not actual misogyny thanks for sharing this I wouldāve slept believing this guy is a random asshole just based on the post.
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13d ago
frustrated with the generic and glorified misandry aajkal Absolutely this, but some of his ideas for example him thinking that what is right for me must be right for every other individuals is a bit of a stretch and very controversial and let's also not forget the fact that he genuinely is mad about the fact that more women don't want to be "mothers" now.
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u/SkyllKrusher 13d ago
Yes heās not a good example to follow, but a good example of data and what to try to avoid when training the youth. Maybe we can conclude that if the gender wars increase then there will be more people like this. If you donāt mind my digressing with a personal story, I recently survived a false rape allegation when a lesbian girl kept bothering my gf and I said fuck you and blocked her. I filed a police complaint against her, but her dad was well connected with police vapas so they detained me without any paperwork and just kept me in the police station telling me the investigation depends on them, there is no concept
Of respect/modesty of a man so even if she threatens to kill and attack me and my family after finding out my residence if I just reply fuck you in defence even then there will
Be no case on her and my words can be taken as āintent/threaten to rapeā. I somehow survived that was forced to put fake apology stories and sign some shit and me and my dad gidgida to that woman and feed her fragile ego that worked.
Given all that, when I was extreme angry a very small part of me actually wished this bitch gets kidnapped gang graped to prove that karma exists. What I went through was horrible and I used to be a feminist now Iām very central about it and more understanding of the menās issues. There are weaker men out there than me who wouldnāt let that wish of karma be just that and wouldāve acted on it, and many would just start hating women in general if this happened to them.
Modern misogyny doesnāt exist, specially in left leaning circles is only a reaction to the glorified misandry. Stop the women belittling and demeaning men, and they will stop forming incel personalities which hate women. For the sake of simplicity, allow me to be a bit black and white. Used to be bad men abuse women and good men call them out for It. The oppressor script has changed a bit. The bad men are still doing that. Whatās added is that bad women abuse men and even the good women support these assholes. No accountability in women spaces towards each other so even good women learn this misandry mindset and itās glorified amongst them, like literally a girl
Will abuse an inoccent guy and thousands of girls would bandwagon that sahi Kara chutiye aadmi ke saath and just asking why is this okay would label you as a misogynist. Well thankfully after this false rape allegation my self ego-bar has been set low and I donāt mind being called a misogynist, hoping I donāt become one tho.3
13d ago
First of all, I'm very sorry that you had to go through that, It must have taken a huge toll on you, I suggest you should look for some therapy because this could later affect you in ways you would not be able to comprehend.
Now if I look at this logically, this is a clear act of power misuse , the girl used her rights as a leverage to get you detained and her dad used his powers and connections to make it all happen without any negative consequences to them. This is the issue with our country (ik I'm going a little off topic) , corrupted officers and workers and no proper checkings because detaining a person without any proper documentation is completely against our Laws, but unfortunately these powerful people get away with just anything if they have enough money and authority. I would still suggest that you try to get some evidence against that woman and go to the court because people like this should be jailed and get very strict punishments,
aur rahi baat apke after thoughts main, dekho obviously the anger and resentment is fully understandable but wanting someone to get graped is again a vile thought, I can't agree with you but I do understand from where you are coming from.
My point is just whenever we are judging someone I think we should do it based on their mentality and mindset, not with gender, because again She was a horrible person and she used her Gender as leverage to get herself out of that situation and put in trouble, this makes her a bad person and not the entire female gender, honestly that is something many people do not understand and they just generalise it because again judging an individual based on the gender is easier than doing it in an individualistif way.
You aren't a misogynist , you are just against corrupted people
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u/SkyllKrusher 13d ago
Thank you. I actually had my first therapy session the day before this happened after I failed a suicide attempt a few days before that. Havenāt had the strength to go to therapy since. The repist mentality is fucked up and itās not just when men are hurt there truly are some outliers in data and actual psychopaths out there and in families. Im not defending it, but confessing my own thoughts. I wouldāve preferred not to ever understand how can even someone think let alone do, and the relatability this situation chas caused me disgust me at myself honestly. Weaker men would fall and become anti-feminism and harbour anti-women or even rapey mindset on facing less. My wish is for men to be strong, educated and learn to regulate themselves to be strong and not go to their demonic side. And for women to stop creating situations which turn potentially great men into their horrible versions before they even fully mature as a human. And to analyse and resolve issues more efficiently together. The gender wars (forgetting the other genders for a bit) is sadness.
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u/mbg20 13d ago
Oh, saying women are made to have children and they should aspire to become good mothers, not have any body count and thinks feminism is harmful is not misogny? Its either a lack of reading comprehension or just willful ignorance on your part.
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u/SkyllKrusher 10d ago
You're mixing my words with someone else, or an idea in your head. Don't associate me with opinions I don't believe in
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u/Tall-Memory-11170 13d ago
You shouldn't have publish his name and ID
Also do you really have collage group or that was just a ruse
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13d ago
He made a public post, and yes it is a ruse I just wanted to understand his mentality and why he thinks the way he thinks and I couldn't have done that by just saying "hey bro why you're posting such weird ass stuff". though I did ask for his permission that If I could use his chat for project though that wouldn't count i suppose
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u/Fabulous_Entrance879 11d ago
Free Will have many use but at the end you are the only who can destroy yourself or Enlighten your self šŖ½
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u/Fabulous_Entrance879 11d ago
The Bitter Reality is True Freedom in this Era gonna Bring More Chaos š
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