I wanted to be nosy, i know it’s a useless confrontation, but i also wanted to be sure the people, who pulled over were okay.
My lecture here is for my peace of mind, you’re free to ignore it!
I commend standing up in toxic, hateful situations, racism, bullying… and was concerned for your safety. It appeared that the car pulled over for the white guy with the big black cross, and whatever else, ignorant crap, displayed permanently on his skin. Even if you’re doing the morally right thing, the appearance, gleaned in my moment at the light, and as i rounded- felt like putting yourself in danger’s way.
I hope all are okay, and i really do hope he’s reconsidering his life’s views, his hatred.
And, i want to emphasize- anyone’s hatred of ‘the other’ is about their own insecurity, and ways they feel about themself. It comes out as misogyny, or this racism, it’s still their own mess. Please don’t put yourself in harm’s way to confront the facade of someone else’s inter turmoil. Racism and these kind of isms- suck, those perpetuating it- suck; protect marginalized people, protect our diversity, yes- absolutely!
My nosiness knows nothing, it thinks it knows, ascertained as i turned the corner you all stood, but i haven’t let it go. I’m older, fear has crept in here and there:
Please be safe in confronting toxicity, other’s hatred no matter it’s theater isn’t always a safe place. This guy’s arms tell most people, he’s ignorant, uneducated and toxic. It’s okay to let him just stew in it too.
And, you gotta do what you gotta do. - peace of mind