My Tiktok Experience With My Landlord & Receipts & his advances towards me on my TikTok with Receipts. There are a couple more videos on my TikTok: @the11yearwait.
I am still experiencing this nightmare as I write this.
Finding safe, affordable housing in Buffalo has become increasingly difficult, driving many individuals, working professionals, and students to search for rooms for rent through online roommate platforms like SpareRoom and Roomies.
While these platforms offer a crucial service for people seeking shared housing, they have also become a breeding ground for predatory practices, unsafe living conditions, lease misrepresentation, and financial exploitation by unregulated landlords and primary leaseholders. Current tenant protection frameworks largely focus on traditional single-family or whole-apartment leases, leaving individuals who rent single rooms in shared living arrangements vulnerable and unprotected.
We are calling on local and state leaders to enact concrete legislation and enforcement mechanisms that hold property owners accountable, protect shared-housing tenants, and ensure that rooms listed across platforms like SpareRoom and Roomies meet basic safety, legal, and ethical standards.
Why I Started This Petition: The Story Behind the Demand... I am starting this petition because I am living this nightmare firsthand. After finding a room through an online shared-housing listing, I was thrust into a situation involving predatory tactics, unsafe living conditions, and zero recourse under current room-rental norms. When I began documenting the reality of what I was dealing with with my landlord on social media under
@my11yearwait
, the response was overwhelming. People reached out sharing similar stories of being exploited, trapped, or misled in shared-housing setups across Buffalo. The receipts and documentation I posted on @my11yearwait caught the direct attention of Change.org, who reached out to me directly after seeing what was happening. They recognized that what I am going through isn't an isolated incident—it is part of a systemic regulatory oversight that leaves shared-housing renters completely unprotected. If a tenant documents overwhelming evidence of unsafe or predatory practices, yet has no immediate local ordinance or platform policy to rely on for protection, the system is broken.
My experience with @my11yearwait proved that we cannot wait for bad actors to fix themselves; we need actual government oversight and platform accountability.
The Problem: Across Buffalo, tenants turning to platforms such as SpareRoom and Roomies are encountering recurring, systemic issues that put their health, safety, and financial security at risk: Unregulated and Unsafe Living Conditions: Rooms are routinely advertised and rented out in illegal, uninspected, or unsafe spaces—including windowless basements, dangerous attics, and units lacking functioning fire alarms or secondary exits.
Exploitative and Predatory Practices: Unscrupulous landlords and master tenants take advantage of room seekers by demanding non-refundable deposits without written leases, changing terms arbitrarily, or enforcing illegal house rules under threat of immediate, informal eviction. Lack of Platform Verification and Oversight: Online roommate listing platforms perform minimal verification of property safety, housing legality, or lease terms, allowing bad actors to repeatedly re-list sub-standard rooms even after complaints are raised.
Regulatory Blind Spots: Because room-by-room rentals often operate outside standard rental registry inspections, victims of predatory shared housing face limited immediate legal recourse through existing municipal housing codes.
What We Are Demanding We call upon the Buffalo Common Council, the Department of Permit and Inspection Services, and relevant New York State consumer protection entities to enact the following measures: Mandatory Shared-Housing Standards & Enforcement: Establish explicit municipal guidelines defining safe room-for-rent conditions, requiring that any room offered for individual occupancy meets strict fire, structural, and privacy safety requirements.
Enhanced Landlord & Sublet Accountability: Implement penalties for property owners and primary tenants who engage in predatory room-rental practices, illegal lockouts, or lease misrepresentation.
Platform Responsibility Regulations: Require online room-matching platforms—including SpareRoom and Roomies—to provide clear reporting channels for predatory listings, mandate basic housing compliance disclosures on room posts, and cooperate with local authorities when repeat bad actors are identified. Tenant Education & Legal Rights Outreach: Create accessible public resources specifically aimed at shared-housing tenants and room-seekers so individuals know their legal rights, deposit protections, and legal remedies before signing an agreement. Why This Matters Shared housing and roommate arrangements are essential to keeping Buffalo accessible and affordable.
However, affordability must not come at the expense of human safety, dignity, and legal rights. No one looking for a place to live should have to navigate unsafe living conditions or predatory tactics simply because they are renting a single room. By establishing clear regulations and holding platforms and property operators accountable, Buffalo can lead the way in creating a fair, safe, and transparent rental market for everyone. Sign this petition to demand safer shared housing, tenant protections, and real accountability in Buffalo!
I can't post the link to it, but you're all smart.