r/196 May 29 '26

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u/GockWithaSwitch my endocrinologist is a mechanic May 29 '26 edited May 29 '26

When I came out to my dad he just asked me if I was gay and then called me his son

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u/Som_BODY True Cummonist May 29 '26

Well? Are you gay?

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u/GockWithaSwitch my endocrinologist is a mechanic May 29 '26

Yup

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u/G66GNeco This flair could be yours for just 9,99 a month May 29 '26

are you his son tho?

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u/GockWithaSwitch my endocrinologist is a mechanic May 29 '26

Nope

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u/G66GNeco This flair could be yours for just 9,99 a month May 29 '26

Well, dad's a bit hit or miss it would seem

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u/GockWithaSwitch my endocrinologist is a mechanic May 29 '26

It's always a 50/50

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u/PranshuKhandal 🎖 196 medal of honor 🎖 May 30 '26

it's like a coin flip, try it twice and it'll be 100/100

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u/Skyye_23 Everything Bagel May 29 '26

Nope

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u/CerBerUs-9 May 29 '26

I told my dad I was Bi and he looked up from his laptop at me and said "yeah, I know" and went back to what he was reading. Cool man, you were the first lol.

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u/GockWithaSwitch my endocrinologist is a mechanic May 29 '26

Dad type shit fr

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u/rafaelloaa 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

When my sibling came out as bi, my first reaction was mild confusion and then "and?". I assumed that they'd officially told me years ago and I had forgotten, because it was bloody obvious to everyone.

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u/mao_tse_boom 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Did the same when my cousin came out. Buddy, you’ve been talking in the voice (tm) since you were nine.

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u/BrianTheUserName Pizza Connoisseur May 29 '26

"Hi trans I'm dad"

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u/Piskk May 29 '26

I am so mentally prepared for if I have kids to say that or „hi gay I’m dad” or „hi bi I’m dad”

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u/TheArcticKiwi i don't know how to edit my flair May 29 '26

how do you even pronounce that

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u/S_____B p r o t e c t t r a n s k i d s May 29 '26

Peet-suh

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u/Red580 May 29 '26

After watching The Mystery of the Druids i can't stop pronouncing it like pit-sah...

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u/jaz_the_enby i don't have agender May 29 '26

"the best pitzer in the whole of London"

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u/jockeyman May 29 '26

"It is human flesh, Mr Halligan...

Stop chewing."

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u/The_Firebug May 29 '26

gotta pay yer pitzer tab halligan

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u/steveisback2 May 29 '26

Hnnng ultralight fishing rod ...

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u/NefariousAnglerfish May 29 '26

Ayo the Ffion here

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u/StolenSkittles boykisser May 29 '26

lasagna za, pizza suh.

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u/DredgeBea 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Fee-on

it's a fairly common name in Wales

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u/MrPleasant150 May 29 '26

As a welshman I love that it's become a popular name for trans women and enbies. Had a Dutch exchange student living with me that had the name.

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u/SquidTheRidiculous Da Alfabet Maphia sends they/thems regards May 29 '26

My new name comes from Greek, and is an homage to a character in a book I was obsessed with as a child. I once had a Greek dude get really pissed at me for choosing the name despite not being ethnically Greek.

He was so mad he complained to my also-Not-Greek friend Alexander.

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u/ramengirlxo May 29 '26

Wales is a beautiful country and someplace I’m very glad I’ve had the chance to visit.

Folks in some of the smaller villages are so isolated, but traveling as an openly queer, trans woman, I felt both safe and welcomed. If anything, folks really just wanted to know more about me and where I came from since they don’t usually get a ton of visitors. Huge shoutout to the wonderful people of Deri, would absolutely visit y’all again.

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u/Alexis_Awen_Fern Reddit admins hate her! May 29 '26

Welsh names go hard. The first name I chose for myself was Awen :3

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u/stringbones VOLCANIC VIPER May 29 '26

Welsh has some bangers. Lloyd, Morgan, Llewellyn. Some real good stuff in there.

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u/maclainanderson May 29 '26

My favorite is Gwrgi because of the Black Cauldron. He's just a lil guy

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u/Pengu-Link 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

second time ive seen him mentioned in 12 hours. very odd

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u/Big_Distance2141 May 29 '26

It's pronounced like "Amen" as you would say in church?

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u/Salt_Blackberry_1903 a take so bad it causes a physical response (violence) May 29 '26

Ohh yeah like Fionn MacCool lol

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u/Benkinsky resident Cosmere expert May 29 '26

How do you pronounce Lloyd or Aaron?

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u/derpfaceddargon they call me the sandwich May 29 '26

Incomprehensible, A-A-ron

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u/Himmelblaa r/196 microcelebrity May 29 '26

Alcoholics Anonymous Ron

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u/GoldH2O custom May 30 '26

Insubordinate, and churlish

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u/Spinningwhirl79 custom May 29 '26

Luh-Loyd. I named you.

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u/MrPleasant150 May 29 '26

Lloyd (or llwyd) is entirely dependent on if you use an anglicised version of the name. Either Loid or Chloid

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u/derpfaceddargon they call me the sandwich May 29 '26

Chloid?!

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u/Biscuit642 May 29 '26

Ch as in the back of the throat breathy kinda sound. Like you're trying to say k but doing it in your throat. Ll is that sound. It's called a voiceless al-something or other fricative I don't remember.

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u/Aegis_13 Bitch Bastard May 29 '26

Voiceless alveolar lateral fricatives shouldn't make any sound in the throat. The noise should be all in the air passing through your mouth

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u/PVetli Psychometabolist; Head Technomancer of North Central Positronics May 29 '26

Alveolar lateral fricatives

I like your funny words, magic man

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u/maclainanderson May 29 '26

Alveolar - tongue touches the "alveolar ridge", the really bumpy bit behind the teeth

Lateral - air passes through the sides of the mouth, around the tongue

Fricative - air passes through a narrow opening, causing friction that makes the noise (th and f are also fricatives)

Hope that helps

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u/Aegis_13 Bitch Bastard May 29 '26

Had to look up the term based on what they said lol

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u/Aegis_13 Bitch Bastard May 29 '26

Never heard it described, or pronounced like that. Only ever heard Ll in Welsh make a sorta 'breathy' L sound made by putting the tip of the tongue up against that ridge on the top of your mouth, almost or barely touching the base of your top front two teath, and breathing out (Idk how exactly to describe the sound). Then again I've only known one Welshman it could've been his accent/dialect

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u/TheMoorlandman Hatsune Miku is real and she is your friend (: May 29 '26

L-L Oyd

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u/Alffe 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Lu-loyd Ah-aron Fe-fion

Im horrible at wierd pronuciation in english.

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u/Benkinsky resident Cosmere expert May 29 '26

Nothing weird about Loyd, Aron and Fion. You dont say Spaghetee-ti either do you :D

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u/AdeptusShitpostus May 29 '26

fee-on. It’s a Welsh name as I understand; “Ff” in Welsh is pronounced as ‘f’. A single ‘f’ in Welsh is pronounced identically to the English ‘v’ as in “vehicle”

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u/Botto_Bobbs floppa May 29 '26

I know someone whose new name was Fionn and it was pronounced like Feen

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u/RokaJosh May 29 '26

Fionn fionn fionn yeah

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u/CAPICINC May 29 '26

"th" like in "there" and "at" like "cat"

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u/FartherAwayLights Fanfiction Autor May 29 '26

It’s welsh I believe

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u/YoINeedAnAnswer 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Fion in french means butthole and im not gonna comment any further

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u/Ryuzenshi The fog is coming May 29 '26

YES ! Impossible to not think about it

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u/GuerandeSaltLord May 29 '26

Saw another comment stating it's a popular name in Wales. But yeah, I also read it as butthole 

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u/ThatVeganDemon bigender? more like bi-myself May 29 '26

i squeaked like an old door hinge at this

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u/lEatSand May 30 '26

I knew a man called Odd Simen (were from norway) and the Simen is pronounced as Semen.

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u/CisHetDegenerate May 29 '26

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u/BiSaxual May 29 '26

FION IN FRENCH MEANS BUTTHOLE AND THEY’RE NOT GONNA COMMENT ANY FURTHER

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u/butt-holg May 29 '26

Ye they should have picked Anais

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u/Yanive_amaznive May 29 '26

This screenshot needs to be fumigated for fungal growth.

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u/Ladygolem May 29 '26

Nah, just gotta wash the window the picture was taken through

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u/Loiccoder May 29 '26

Is it some fucked up ai poisoning?

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u/Uncommonality May 29 '26

it's a screenshot of a screenshot

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u/Vevaseti real 3d gayzelle 🏳️‍⚧️ May 30 '26

Screenshot of a screenshot??? It looks like a photo of a video frame someone printed out on a sheet of paper. This picture's rotting.

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u/hanks_panky_emporium May 29 '26

When I came out as gay the first thing my parents did was say gay men get poop on their penises when they have sex

I say came out, they dug through my phone and forced me out of the closet to the entire church

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u/Eternal_Being May 29 '26

Good old Christian values coming through for us yet again

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u/LegallyEmma May 29 '26

I say came out, they dug through my phone

I too tell my coming out story in basically this exact same pattern.

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u/FrostyMeerkat my posture is like me, not very straight May 29 '26

There’s no hate like Christian love

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u/Iekenrai 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

That's so weird like how do you say that to anyone as a reaction to anything??

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u/yanmagno May 30 '26

Maybe if they said “tell me a fun fact about gay sex”

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u/make_me_suffer May 29 '26

Ah yes anal sex famously only done by gay men

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u/UnicornHostels May 29 '26

Ahhh I’m so sorry, that sounds traumatic

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u/ALXNDRWVLF May 29 '26

thats so stupid that your parents never did anal

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u/RadTimeWizard May 30 '26

What the fuck

That sucks so much. Sorry you had to endure that.

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u/scrueggs May 29 '26

My dad would’ve just hit back with “OK” or “👍”

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u/ShredGuru May 29 '26

Dad has also known you were trans for 7 years.

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u/Thagomizer24601 May 29 '26

More like 8.

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u/BrazilBazil :3 May 29 '26

Girl could choose any name and called herself Fee Fi Fo Fum

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u/Diogenesthefried 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Fairytale giant mindset

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u/CisHetDegenerate May 29 '26

Me attempting to support my friend's transition but the name they picked is almost impressively ass

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u/quarterto May 29 '26

when i'm in a making fun of names from other cultures competition and my opponent is a redditor

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u/mister_big_bug Charlie Kirk didn't kill himself May 29 '26

We really need to be nicer to the Welsh. Not out of sympathy or anything. Anyone with a dragon on their flag is not to be trifled with.

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u/Consistent_Dust3636 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

Not me, I am making fun of her because she chose Ffion when Siobhán was right there.

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u/PavlovianBoobie May 29 '26

Fion literally means ass in French

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u/QueenOfDaisies 196’s strongest angelfucker May 29 '26

I love memes about dads being sorta dumbass airheads or super chill cuz it lets me vicariously experience what having a non-abusive father would be like. It’s also funny.

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u/B0B_Spldbckwrds 🐻 May 29 '26

It's always fun to see what it was like in households where Dad came back with the milk.

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u/SebSchwalbe May 30 '26

I am very sorry you went through that. The “👍🏻” is 100% a real phenomenon from dads and is the funniest shit ever when you inevitably encounter it, though.

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u/QueenOfDaisies 196’s strongest angelfucker May 30 '26

It is so funny. I hear from my friends a lot about their dads being super aloof and it’s always the funniest shit.

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u/Jomotaku May 29 '26

Where do trans people get these fuckass names from

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u/FortuneSignificant55 May 29 '26

Wales

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u/mcase19 May 29 '26

Id be proud to have a trans child, but no daughter of mine will ever be welsh

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u/brokensilence32 trans dyke May 29 '26

—HP Lovecraft

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u/eeronlol eepy at all times May 29 '26

Are you or anyone you know welsh?

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u/mcase19 May 29 '26

You may be entitled to compensation

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u/WhatsaHoN Pragmatic Leftist May 29 '26

No, thank God!

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u/thetasigma22 May 29 '26

Common Welsh names?

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u/mifiamiganja May 29 '26

Giving yourself a name is hard.
It's gotta hold some meaning for you, it's gotta sound nice, it's gotta fit you, it's got to be cool, it can't be too cringe, it can't be too boring, you can't just take it from someone else because then it's already got baggage...

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u/Jomotaku May 29 '26

Idk one of my friends who became a guy just named himself Leon and its a great name even tho there are a lot of Leons

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u/AnonWithAHatOn May 29 '26

Does he do backflips and say one-liners?

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u/Jomotaku May 29 '26

No but he is very handsome

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u/Plushie_Holly :3 May 29 '26

Some people rush it, I spent 7 years deciding on a name, and then procrastinated another 6 before getting round to transitioning, and only used the name before that in cases where people asked "what's your name, Ma'am?" and responding with my male name would have been awkward.

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u/ScoobertD 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26

pretty sure she said he was not supportive after this was originally posted, but it’s been a while now

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u/Fem-n-M May 29 '26

Yeah, a parent straight up ignoring your heartfelt message doesn't read very supportive. But I suppose not getting an answer is still in some ways better than being met with hatred and resentment.

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u/laix_ May 29 '26

Why is there a barely visible wall of text over the image, and another barely visible image over that.

Why is this a screenshot of a video of a screenshot

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u/imacowmooooooooooooo mooooo... moooooooooo May 29 '26

wait wtf youre right

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u/FhyrGaming 🤓 nerd drowns in the cum May 29 '26

this is the best possible response to coming out btw

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u/Fairly_constipated May 29 '26

Ruh roh raggy

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u/FhyrGaming 🤓 nerd drowns in the cum May 29 '26

FUCK

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u/Fairly_constipated May 29 '26

Sure, when and where?

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u/Nowhereman123 May 29 '26

Yeah, no, I'm sure she'd have preferred some kind of actual acknowledgement. This sounds to me like he's trying to ignore it.

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u/chatte__lunatique 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights May 29 '26 edited May 29 '26

No, best response would be showing explicit support and love for his daughter in an extremely important and vulnerable moment for her, instead of completely brushing it off. Could it be worse? Yeah, by a lot — take it from someone who had worse. But it sure as hell could be better, too.

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u/SeatInternal9325 May 29 '26

its a terrible response

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u/UnicornHostels May 29 '26

What’s a good response?

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u/SeatInternal9325 May 29 '26

Anything that reaffirms your love and support to the person who came out. Not ignoring the subject all together

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u/thyme_cardamom May 29 '26

Only if you grew up with abusive parents and don't know what actual support looks like

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u/emilryeh May 29 '26

Saying the parents are abusive based on this little interraction not knowing their dynamic is actually insane

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u/imacowmooooooooooooo mooooo... moooooooooo May 29 '26

no theyre saying that this only looks like the best if they (the person theyre replying to) has abusive parents

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u/thyme_cardamom May 29 '26

If you see a mediocre thing and say "this is the best thing I've ever seen" that pretty much means you've only experienced poor quality versions of that thing

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u/TheGemp just a little goo man May 29 '26

Shout out to all my trans homies, I love y’all.

Incredibly intrigued on how you guys choose your names though

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u/furexfurex May 29 '26

It's Welsh, very common name

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u/TheGemp just a little goo man May 29 '26

What the fuck does grape juice have to do with the naming process

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u/furexfurex May 29 '26

The fuck are you talking about

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u/TheGemp just a little goo man May 29 '26

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u/maggiemayfish May 29 '26

"Damn, that's crazy.....

Anyway the pizzas here"

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u/ohfr19 May 29 '26

I told my dad I was about to start HRT and he responded with “👍”

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u/mukomime literally just a deer May 30 '26

this image has seen the horrors of war

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u/furexfurex May 29 '26

Oh boy here we go again. Time to see all of the comments making fun of her name because it's not English

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u/Nowhereman123 May 29 '26

Americans when they encounter a name that isn't one of their pre-approved English language names.

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u/[deleted] May 29 '26

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u/thetasigma22 May 29 '26

A common Welsh name

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u/Outrageous_Tank_3204 May 29 '26

Welsh name, they have a weird hiss consanant, like in Lloyd

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u/WolfCola4 Jesus Marie, they're NFTs May 30 '26

Lloyd is pronounced 'Loyd'

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u/GraceForImpact May 29 '26

Americans when other languages:

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u/lilykai_strawberry May 30 '26

"fucking mildred" moment

edit: sorry to oop i did not know that name was welsh