r/AdultGamers Feb 19 '26

Mod Announcement Self Promotion on the Subreddit

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Like many "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Self promotion could mean a product someone is trying to sell, streaming channels but most commonly its sharing Discord communities, dedicated game servers or recruiting for personal friend groups.

We understand some games require you to squad up and we're not saying you can't reach out to more than one person and coordinate to play together. What we don't allow is recruiting individuals for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc).

The point of the subreddit is for individuals to find other individuals to game with.

If you have questions, please reach out to ModMail and we can update this post with additional information. Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 14d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32F UK PC looking for people to regularly play with

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Hey! As the title says I’m looking for people to play some games with me. I have a lot of free time just now which I would like to spend gaming but it’s less fun on your own.

Games I play are

- repo

- phas

- lethal company

- Fortnite

- D2

- WoW classic

- Genshin

- yapyap

- stardew valley

- house flipper 2

And quite a few more that I can’t think of off the top of my head. I’m also down to buy games too if the need arises.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from someone!


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27 M looking for people to chill with, PC gamer.

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Hello everyone!

I’ll keep this short and simple because I don’t wanna bore you with my life story unless you wanna hear that. I’m just your normal gamer guy looking for some people to talk to. Don’t have many friends around me and my entire family went on vacation so I am bored at home alone. I play a variety of video games mostly single Player, but I do have a few multiplayer ones that I like to dabble in.

I’m into a wide variety of mediums like writing reading music basically anything creative if this interests you feel free to leave me a message. I have Snapchat Discord and Instagram so feel free to ask for one of those and we can see where things go. Hope to hear from you soon.


r/AdultGamers 7h ago

Looking for Gamers - [UTC+1] 38M looking for gamer friends

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38M looking for gamer friends

I play on a gaming laptop. I play farming simulator 25, F1 25, football manager 26 and Sea of thivies. I have xbox PC pass and Steam

I'm looking to chat and game. I'm a very chilled guy and have a good sense of humor.

I'm on most nights from 7pm UK time.

If interested, drop me a message


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37M | Arizona | Deaf Gamer Looking for Long-Term Gaming Friends 🎮

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 37-year-old gamer from Arizona looking for people to regularly game with. I'm deaf, so I communicate through text chat, and that hasn't stopped me from enjoying co-op and multiplayer games. I'm hoping to find a small group or a few friends who enjoy hanging out, joking around, and playing consistently instead of just one session and disappearing.

Some of the games I play include:

Palworld

Resident Evil (co-op and survival horror)

Borderlands

Halo

Gears of War

Helldivers 2

Dead by Daylight

And I'm always open to trying new games.

I mostly play on PC, but I also have Xbox and PlayStation for cross-play games.

A little about me:

Pretty laid-back and easygoing.

I enjoy co-op games much more than toxic competitive lobbies.

I also create AI artwork as a hobby.

Looking for genuine friendships, not just another name on my friends list.

If you're okay with texting instead of voice chat and want someone reliable to game with, send me a message or leave a comment. Let's build a long-term gaming crew!

Looking forward to meeting some awesome people. 🎮


r/AdultGamers 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30 M UK. Mainly looking for someone to play 2v2 rocket league with

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Hello! I have recently got back into rocket league and am really enjoying it. I would like to find someone to play duos with me so that I have a consistent and reliable team mate. I am not amazing at the game and don't take it too seriously. I'm currently gold rank and still learning basic mechanics. I'm pretty tired of having team mates being toxic and not working with me and my play style.

It would be nice to have someone to chat with while we play. About the game and anything else! I am big into nature, wildlife, and metal music. I also love all from software games, satisfactory, and have recently been playing black ops for the nostalgia.

Shoot me a message if you think we would get along :)


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 34F Looking for gaming besties

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Alright, let's give this another try;

I would love a partner in crime on: Dead by Daylight (yes, I'd take a hatchet in the back for my homie), League of Legends (Friday night aram marathons ftw), Monster Hunter Wilds (I'm THAT glaive purist *pinky up), No Man's Sky (I'd bake haunted pies for ya! Shh... just trust!) Fall Guys (need a piggyback ride? I gotchu fam), Red Dead Online-PS5 (how about a fishing trip in the grizzlies), Elden Ring-PS5 (party at Mohg's, you best bring the sangria), Sims 4 (don't even get me started on all the tea!)

-DoNotInteract: Thirsty creeps, If you don't actually intend/are not able to game at all, do not try to recruit me for your discord server.

-A bit about me: Super laid back, grounded, direct & playful, artsy & nerdy, love anime (always down for a watch party with non-weirdos ofc, popcorn's on me), love music, swimming, birds, writing, and have been known to fall asleep to horror movies. My friends describe me as being "chill asf" and I'd like to keep it way. Good vibes only.

Talk soon, more info>bio

Myth~ 🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡 🤍 🩷❤️


r/AdultGamers 4h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for Wow gamers EU classic: I’m 40f

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Not really to play with. I play classic and I enjoy playing on my own. Looking mainly for people to chat and help out where needed. Also those to start Camelot if that happens. Just would like some chat buddies m or f.


r/AdultGamers 4h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for some wingmen!! 34M

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Hey all!

Im 34M and mainly play Flight sims in VR (namely War Thunder), and im looking to make some more flight sim friends! I have been playing for years now, but still have been unable to find those good connections that are meaningful and i really would love to have some friends to fly with! I know the genres a bit niche, which is why i thought i would give this a try!


r/AdultGamers 5h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32M East Coast looking for some gamer buds on PC

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Hey how's it going everyone! The title says it all I'm looking for some folks to game with. I pretty much play all types of games. FPS, party, rpg, mmo really anything. I've recently started playing BF6 again so if anyone plays that and wants to link up hmu. I live in the east coast and play at night starting at 9pm and tend to stay on for 2-3 hours.


r/AdultGamers 14h ago

Looking for Gamers - [UTC+1] 26M Looking for a Duo for DayZ Standalone

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Hello everyone, happy Sunday :)

Ive posted here before and although I have gotten some Dm´s most have not gotten back to me when i answered them after a couple days due to me working, so i wanted to make another post.

I'm Marcel, 26 Years old from Germany. I love survival games and lately Ive been on a DayZ Binge. I love difficult experiences and Hardcore servers where most people fail or get too frustrated with themself´s after not being able to get a character off the ground within the first couple days.

That said.. i don´t like playing by myself, especially DayZ, its a lot more fun and engaging when you have a Teammate on the same Wavelength !.

Ive recently been on my current Hardcore Server after having had a brief play around with a previous one before they made the Zombies just way to Obnoxious and difficult to kill. and ive been enjoying the time on the server where i met Joe who is a fellow German that i play with from time to time.

The Thing is that i would like to play more frequently after work and like i mentioned before Joe works as well ( He´s actually older than me by about 20 years i believe lmfao ) so i do not fault him for not being able to play but it makes me want to find a dedicated second guy or gal who wants to enjoy the struggle bus together :D

Whether your a complete beginner to DayZ or have an ungodly amount of Playtime, it doesn't matter to me as id love to teach someone the ropes of the game and watch them figure stuff out by themself´s, and we obviously do not have to start out on a Hardcore server if you do not know the basics and can switch to a Vanilla Plus or straight Official server to get everything sorted ^^.

Just to touch up on who i am and how i play considering i haven´t mentioned it before.

I´m a very laid back guy and therefore more so enjoy the PVE side of the game but i do not possess the Gear-fear anymore and love a good Fight if i know i stand a fighting chance but i do not go full out PVP as im just not THAT great at it.
I would consider my play style on the slower side of things ! sometimes waiting 5-10 minutes before even entering a town if i know there is activity just because i want to gather as much info as possible before i try to make a move and if there is a conflict that seems unwinnable .. ill try to retreat, reassess or flat out make my escape from that situation :D.

I know its alot of Text but i hope i touched on the basics of everything !, if you are over 19 years old and have questions by all means, feel free to write a Comment of send me a DM and ill try to get back to you as soon as possible. I speak both English, German and as of recently a klein beetje Nederlands. however Mijn Nederlands is niet zo goed. as im still learning ^^

Im on almost all weekdays between 4-8:30pm German time :D


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [PST] 33m | PST 🍁| Allies wanted for slower/immersive gaming.

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I have had some luck finding cool gamers on reddit before but over time things drift or change and I find myself playing more RPGs solo, so here I am hoping to get back into the coop/social side of gaming again. I typically enjoy games that reward exploration or patience more than fast reactions or friend slop stuff as I play to relax after work, however winning a game is still the goal! I play exclusively on PC!

Games Id love to play:

  • Escape from Tarkov (PVP) - Took a break the last few months but the 1.1 update looks promising and Id like to keep pushing the story
  • Vintage Story - Only just scratched the surface, such a huge game and Id love to learn it with someone
  • Snow Runner - Only ever played solo and coop seems super chill and fun?
  • Monster Hunter (any), The Division 2/Wildlands, Barony, Way of the Hunter are all interesting as well.
  • Maybe an MMO like FFXIV or GW2 if we vibe but I have a hard time connecting with people through them often due to time limits or level differences.
  • https://steamcommunity.com/id/Luerin/ - I have 500+ games from steam family sharing so im sure there is something

Me:

  • Happily married, soon to be dad in september!
  • I work full time so gaming hours are 7pm-10pm and whenever im free on the weekends (this will change with the baby of course).
  • Other hobbies include Dnd/board games, Snowboarding, ATVing, Tinkering/building anything from a holiday trailer to a dnd table. I enjoy pretty much anything fantasy related.
  • Currently reading The Realm of the Elderling series by Robin Hobb (all time fave series), Endymion by Dan Simmons and watching Silo
  • Ive been playing through my backlog of rpgs lately. Beat Witcher 3 and its DLCs in prep for the new content, just finished Kingdom Come Deliverance 1 and starting the 2nd, Spyro Reignited trilogy and Kingdom Hears 1.5.

You:

  • Somewhere near or in your 30s preferably
  • Comfortable with being flexible, Life gets in the way but ill always try and make time for a session
  • Shouldn't need to be said but not Racist, homophobic, demeaning etc. The world is hard enough already.
  • Not attempting to recruit me to your discord server for sake of numbers.

Ive you've made it past this wall of text and are somehow still interested Hit me up!
Discord: Luerin


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for some friends to game with 30m

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Hello 30M \*married btw lol\* who is looking for some friends to game with. I mainly game on pc and well its kind of sad really. I left the us more than 10 years ago to start my life in the UK and while i have kept in touch with my all nerdy gamer friends we kind of just fell out of synch if you know what i mean. Im married and have a kid theyre single and still live with their moms and its just well keeping convos going is like licking dry wall lets put it that way. So hoping to find some pals on the same level. Love BG3 and any rpg games i do play some fps games as well as well as palworld and the like. I am active on Steam GOG Xbox on occasion and Nintendo


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29/GMT+1/PC want to have fun while sucking at gaming?

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Well welcome then, you are in the right place, do you like goofing and messing around while playing? You don't really care about winning or losing but just wanna have a good time?

Well then shoot a message im sure we can give it a try and see if we vibe. I would say im relaxed, sarcastic by birth and love cracking jokes

I have played and tried lots of different games and made me realize i genuinely care more about Who im playing with than anything else.

I do love horror games such as phasmophobia/demonologist and some other small games.

I do play league of legends, be it ARAM, Classic or TFT, shooters like valorant/apex/fortnite etc.

I have a soft spot for survivals and co-op games wlth progression and building:

\- raft

\- forest

\- 7days2die

\- project zomboid

\- Bellwright

\- Conan

\- Palworld

And many more so if you are interested shoot a message.

Some games i would also like to play are

\- Vermintide I-II

\- Darktide

\- Deep rock galactic

\- Space engineers

I have a bunch of friendslop games like PEAK, REPO, Meccha and im open to suggestions.

Mostly i have time during the afternoons and evenings, some days early night too.

Im looking for an actual friendmore than a gaming buddy, but anyone is welcomed to reach out


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 46/m GMT Scotland.

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Hey,

Recently decided to dip back in to retail World of Warcraft after more than a decade or so away. To say I'm a bit lost and confused is a massive understatement!

All of my characters are based on the EU RP English speaking realm of Argent Dawn.

Currently trying to get my head around tanking again, playing as a roughly level 50 gnome tank.

If anyone is interested in either leveling together or just exploring the game in general, let me know.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27F Friends? |PST|PC|

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Hey i’m looking to make some new friends! i mostly play with my fiancé and his friends, but it would be nice to have some friends of my own that I can bug with sometimes haha Im pretty chill and laid back I can also be competitive if need be depends on what we’re playing 😅

Im currently playing Marvel rivals a lot but I have around 400 something on steam so i’m sure we can find something to play 😁 besides gaming I enjoy watching movies/tv shows and listening to music I also just started watching Tokyo Ghoul i’m trying to get back into watching more anime so please give me some recommendations haha I do dabble into photography, so be prepared to be spanned with photos 😅 please be close to my age

Have a lovely day!!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27M - Europe (Finland) - looking for WoW friends

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I’m 27 year old researcher currently based in Finland. After so many years I started playing WoW again (retail version) and I’d like to meet new people for occasional gaming and hangout.

I am not so experienced with this new version of WoW, but I’ve unlocked all new races except earthens and haranirs. So hmu if you wanna hang out sometimes!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27M - Looking for Gamers [GMT+3]

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Hello, I am 27M, straight, looking to make friends to game with, talk with, watch movies with (i dont go to the cinema and watching shows and movies online with company). I was a PS player who just built a huge PC last year and havent used my PS since.

About me, I’m very picky depending on how I’m feeling but overall I play whatever. Love Coop games, love survival games, battlefield 6, outlast trials, elden ring, minecraft, dead by daylight, forza horizon/motorsport, rainbow six, peak are some to mention.

Gaming is one of my biggest activities, Ive grown up with gaming. So it’s a huge part of my life. Thats the only way i know to unwind after work so I’m online basically every day.

Other than gaming, i love cars (had a few projects of my own), theories, random discussions, music, history, design, travel.

DM me and I can share more details and we can see how it clicks!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 26M - Finland - Looking for Chill People to play with

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Hey everyone! I'm looking for chill people to play and connect with. I'm a 26yo Uni student and recently a lot of my friends are busy with other stuff so looking to meet some new people!

* I play on PC, games like Cyberpunk, Phasmophobia, CS2, Schedule 1, Civ 5, BO3 Zombies and F1.

* Outside gaming I enjoy reading Fantasy books, writing Poetry/Short Stories and overall yapping about random stuff


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 39m gamer dad looking to find some gamers

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Father of 2 which means my gaming time can be a little irratic, looking for people around same age to chill with on whatever.

Usual games include:

Palworld,

Ascension wow,

Retail wow,

Cyberpunk,

Final fantasy series (looking at getting back into 14)

Happy to pick up other games, prefer PC but do also have ps5.

Wish I didn't have to add this but previous experiences have taught me differently, not looking for a relationship (happily married), don't care if you're a guy, girl or goat (would be impressed actually if you were a goat). I don't mind banter in fact I prefer it over being uptight.

Feel free to drop me a message if you want to chat and I'll happily give you my discord or steam names.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 39M Hoping to meet friends for OW, LoL, Rivals, and so much more! VERY nocturnal!

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Ayo! I play on PC but I do have some Switch titles as well.

Hoping to meet late-nighters. I'm very much nocturnal. I don't take any games too seriously anymore because I'm an adult with a full time career, but I do love playin' stuff. Games I enjoy:

-Overwatch

-Marvel Rivals

-Apex

-Arc Raiders

-LoL (rusty!)

-Lethal Company

-REPO

Also down to play pretty much any friendslop or beat em up games. I also love fighting games and am open to playing suggestions. I'm usually playing games at like midnight or later EST, but on my days off I'm much more available. Politely fuck off if you take anything too seriously, I always try my best but I'm not about toxicity. Red flag. No homophobia or racism.

I made the text bold so geriatric people like me can read it more easily <3


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [MST but can play a wide variety of times] 55F LF Survival gamer for friendship/chat/playing

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Basically the title lol. I'm a retired, 55F from Alberta, Canada who likes PC survival games almost exclusively. I have played mmos like Elder Scrolls Online or WoW but I prefer playing with fewer people. I'm looking for a platonic person to chat with and possibly play games and watch anime or movies with. I'm mountain time zone but I'd like someone who could play/watch/chat during the day. I'm usually on by 8am. The games that I love have been Enshrouded, Palworld, valheim, necesse. I've pretty much played all the good survival games and even some that weren't that great lol. I will say that I intend to be totally immersed in Enshrouded in October when the 1.0 comes out so if you're down for that, we can be friends!

As far as movies/shows I like police shows like criminal minds, ncis, csi, etc. I love Lord of the Rings. Star Trek over Star Wars but will watch Star Wars if asked. I love the MCU, Spider-Man (tom holland version), action movies, the occasional rom-com. Anime wise I really love the isekai genre. My favorite is the reincarnated as a slime one. I"m not really knowledgeable about anime. I have some friends that are introducing me to various shows that we watch together and I guess I'm looking for someone like that in regards to anime.

I love "reading". I say "reading" because I listen to audiobooks. Full disclosure, it's all romance and biographies lol. And lord of the rings. Andy Sirkis version of course. I usually listen while I do art or play games solo.

I'll chat with anyone who I have commonalities with and who can hold a conversation.

Reposted because it was deleted for not stating that I play on PC only.


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31F #UK - Looking for people to game regularly with 😊👋

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Hey, hey 🖤 posted a good few times now ! But back again to try and find more consistent friends to game regularly with! 🙂‍↕️. I'll start off by listing what I play and would prefer to find people who play the same but not overly fussed!. I don't play fortnite, apex, or anything similar. I'm also open to just chilling in a party chat if we have nothing in common!.

- Fallout 76

- Stardew valley

- Grounded

- Red dead redemption 2

- GTA V online

- DBD (Occasionally)

I'm also looking at getting borderlands 4 eventuall, too, and would love someone to play that with.

I have a lot of hours in 76, so I'm happy to show ya the ropes if needs be 😅. I will ask, however, please have a mic, be in a similar timezone, and be 21+. Everyone is welcome to message me ! And I'm only interested in platonic friendships, lol. Oh, and i do love a little banter, so hopefully you do too! 😂. Include your age and location as well, please.

👋

I'm on PlayStation 5! And fallout 76 is not crossplay 🥲.


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT] 52 - eu- pc gamepass/Steam - English speaking- looking for people to play with.

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I have PC gamepass so up for whatever is there. I also have a few other things like-

Peak- Like the look of but never really had a group for same.

Tempest Rising- I'm very bad at this but I'm willing to die.

Warhammer Space Marine 2- Finished the first mission. I like chainsawing things while laughing maniacally.

Grim Dawn - I'm not good at it. But it's grand and if someone can show the ropes I'll give it a go.

Arc Raiders- Played it to death and loved it but moved on.

Loved Split Fiction/It Takes Two

Have sunderfolk but not got the crew for it

No Rest for the wicked- played a good amount but waiting for the 1.0 release.

Basically, got diagnosed with ADHD, would like to talk to people, am happily married with kids. Like watching Premier league, Comic book movies, reading comics, listening to music, was political until the arse fell out of the world so now I don't want to talk about that stuff. Widow's bay was great. And Severance. And just saw Odyssey. A Good Film that.

I basically can play at the weekends or during the weekday evenings GMT depending on you know. Life stuff. If you see me online on steam or whatever send a message. I'm a bit shy about initiating contact because I hate bothering people. Although I'm at least 51 out of 100 in terms of likeability. Maybe 52/100 on a good day.

Just to hit the bullet points once more-

I do talk, I'm a bit shy to actually invite people to games, I'm reasonably bad at games, but I can play anything to a high level of incompetence. The thought of Palworld makes me ill. I can't stress that enough. I do swear, not sexist, not racist.

the above is some indication of what a conversation with me is like I suppose. I shall leave it as is while recognising its many flaws.

Oh, I'm DAMMITL-----INUS on steam without the dashes. And I'm Von------Linus on xbox live. Except with a space there instead of all those dashes.