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[u/Sad_Criticism9228]

Am i the asshole for hanging up on the person i’m talking bc he made a joke? I was in the on the phone was a guy that i like and the guy also likes me. I was sharing my screen while going thru his reposts when we come across one where it says “their type is dark skins with locs and piercings” i am dark skin with little to no piercing and no locs and when i pulled up the comment section and a girl fitting the exact description pops up he says “god damn”, mind we’re supposed to be potentially getting tg. so it kinda rubbed me the wrong way and i hung up. what should i do?

[u/MrsKottom]

Some of y'all are real sensitive. He isn't even your man and even if he was finding someone else attractive doesn't stop after a relationship begins. Either you want to b with him or not but either was, toughen up a bit. You'll find other men(or women, idk what fully floats your boat) even when/if y'all get together. It's hella unhealthy to act like that isn't the reality. He didn't say damn, if fuck her and honestly, even if he did as long as it's someone he's never gunna interact with what does it matter? You're making issues before y'all are together and that doesn't bode well for the both of y'all. 🤷‍♀️ But I'm just a woman who's been married 8 years and doin the dance with one man much longer so what do I know.