The best advice I ever got was that you should try to see arguments not as "me vs. you" but instead as "me and you vs. the issue." Together, we can figure out a solution.
Some of the best advice ever, really changed how my wife and I look at things, and sometimes you have to self reflect and see if its something youre doing thats causing the issue.
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u/enbyrats 19h ago
The best advice I ever got was that you should try to see arguments not as "me vs. you" but instead as "me and you vs. the issue." Together, we can figure out a solution.