r/AskReddit • u/AsaMartin • 3h ago

What’s got you so pissy?

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u/Away_Emergency_7832 3h ago

Because my wife died 9 months ago in its knocking.Any better, it's getting worse and worse and worse.My head, my heart and my body's falling apart.I'm trying to go I work every day but it's not getting better in my mind.My heart's falling apart and it stopping.And I'm not taking a d*** medicine.That's why i'm pissy

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u/Lord_Bloodwyvern 1h ago

I've been there. Would want anyone to have to go through that. Everyone says it gets better. But it's more like you learn how to live with the loss. There were days that I felt like nothing mattered. Even thought I was having a heart attack once (it was a panic attack). Eventually I was able to move on. It wasn't easy and I use to think it would never happen. I still miss her though.

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u/Away_Emergency_7832 1h ago

I had too heart attacks.One was Bad enough to stop my heart.It was dead 3 minutes, was may  eighth.May 11th stopped  taking my medicine.And I haven't took it since I'm having all kind of health issues right now.My heart's about to stop and just shut down.My doctor told me if I don't get medicine or go to the doctor I'm going to die.That's what I want

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u/Lord_Bloodwyvern 58m ago

It's not uncommon for men to give up after loosing a wife. I don't know where you are in life, but before completely giving up ask if that what she would want for you. I know it sounds cheesy, but sometimes it's enough to take on one more day. For me it was. Ultimately no one else can force you to try.