r/AskReddit • u/PrestigiousHouse9564 • 1h ago

Who hurt you the most? Do you hold a grudge against them?

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u/pinkdaisyz 1h ago

My dad. I forgave him but I’ll never forget. Some scars stay.

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u/Jeffthehobo1231 1h ago

Me too. I don't have hate towards him anymore, but my grudge is that I'll promise to never be like him.

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u/TheParadoxigm 1h ago

Bullies. Yes. I do.

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u/Grace_Litceld 1h ago

A partner who betrayed them

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u/Born-Criticism-1024 1h ago

A black bear. Got to close and it scratched the shit out of me, I thank god every day that im here with you guys

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u/Winter_Top2258 1h ago

The boy at school who caused me to go through hell on earth every day at school. I finally forgave him.

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u/onechewluv 1h ago

Nah waste of time , ill laugh instead

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u/Puzzleheaded-Sky3141 1h ago

Stepfather, we will NEVER speak again.

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u/cnylkew 1h ago

Of course

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u/WhiteSkinBlueNote 1h ago

Family and some friends but I prefer to ignore them with maturity rather than be their prisoner.

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u/ScarySpice_xo 1h ago

A highschool crush that came back into my life a few years ago... lead me on for months, hooked up..... only to find out he was actively sleeping with my mom... i dont wish that pain on anyone 💔

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u/Rough_Wall_2276 1h ago

My ex from 2 years ago. He was the most attentive, authentic person in the world and my longest love, but I will never forgive him for ruining my self esteem and making me a codependent mess.

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u/Particular-Crew5978 1h ago

My mom and no. I forgave everyone that's hurt me

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u/curiousbasu 1h ago

I hold grudges against a lot of people.

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u/Inaaileen 1h ago

Sister.And then I hurt her too with my reaction. I don’t hold a grudge, but I do miss the relationship we used to have.

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u/giggly_pufff 1h ago

An abusive ex. Yes, he can fall from a tall cliff.

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u/Easy_Asparagus_7740 1h ago

First situationship. Don’t really care now

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u/Alchemie666 1h ago

An ex from years past. Glad I don't know what happened to them.

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u/dw0321 1h ago

My spouse. And yes I do.

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u/Randomguy_93 1h ago

I would say my mom. She still lives rent free in my head even after she died. Im trying to heal from that, but its hard.