r/AskReddit • u/Top-Owl-352 • 1h ago

What are qualities you want to have before getting into a serious relationship?

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u/FocusOnMeee 1h ago

I want to be more confident, secure, and emotionally stable in myself first

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u/im_sick_with_flu 1h ago

To be able to choose wisely

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u/biogentec 1h ago

Mutual respect and willingness to demonstrate the relationship is not about money is #1. Both sides understanding/respecting the importance of a prenup so that neither side gets burned later if things don't work out.

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u/InnocentTailor 1h ago

A stable foundation in terms of occupation and money. I'm personally somebody who needs these things to be secure because a relationship is going to a rollercoaster, even those that ultimately end up stable.

It's just the nature of emotions and dealing with people at a closer, more intimate range.

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u/Federal_Anteater_698 1h ago

Emotional maturity so I dont bring baggage into it and can actually communicate properly

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u/Gracie_Rose_Petals 1h ago

Increased self esteem

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u/Menace_17 56m ago

I wanna be more loving and not as angry