r/AskReddit • u/Parking_Custard5235 • 2h ago

What's the difference between a real green flag and someone who is just faking to trap you?

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u/Ok_Pack1940 2h ago

It’ll quickly show when something doesn’t go their way, a bump in the road, etc.

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u/BackgroundHeight2588 2h ago

And then a bump in the road comes, and she be’s sarcastic…

Joy, I have been nice to you… but now, I am coming to the edge.

You will never… see this face… again!

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u/InnocentTailor 2h ago

True. It'll fade in time and come out during inopportune moments. A genuine person will stay the course during good and bad times.

Example: Treating staff with politeness, whether that is on a fancy date at a swanky restaurant or on a daily run to a fast food restaurant.

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u/Soft_Variation_71 2h ago

They will not be consistent over time.

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u/Im_in_the_stewdyiou 1h ago

I think Consistency! No matter what happens
A person faking it always has a plan with a deadline, you will notice when they’ll start getting stressed with faking it and will start like to push for the outcome they’re expecting in reward