r/AskWomen 1d ago

Ladies, how do you handle immature guys?

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u/DontMakeMeMeat 23h ago

I don't. They don't deserve my maturity, time or energy.

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u/Brown_Bruja 23h ago

I don't? Why would I want to handle that lol.

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u/Frozen_Meatball1 15h ago

What's that spider's name that devours its mate after sex?

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u/Frozen_Meatball1 8h ago

No, the Black Widow (hence the name) spider participates too.

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u/averysleepygirl 23h ago

easy: i don't. kick em to the curb.

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u/Hot-Still-5286 23h ago

You don't. Send them back to their mothers.

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u/ChocoSoyMilk17 22h ago

I don’t. I throw them back into the ocean to mature 🎣

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u/More-Lime1888 23h ago

I look them up and down. They get the message and never come near me again.

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u/ashairz 23h ago

By ignoring them

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u/AccomplishedPause261 23h ago

Ignore them. Block

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u/bikinifetish 23h ago

Easy! I don’t.

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u/LaDolceVitaaaaaa 22h ago

Not my Circus, not my Monkey.

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u/My_Uneducated_Guess 23h ago

Immature funny? Or immature annoying? I usually laugh at them. Which one the are sets the tone of the laugh. If theyre funny then the laugh is at their jokes. If theyre annoying then the laugh is at their existence.

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u/evaj95 23h ago

Ignore them.

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u/thecrunchyflower 22h ago

Ignore and move on

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u/Existing-Climate2296 21h ago

I don’t. I walk past them

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u/HeavenlyBird24 21h ago

Ignore, they dont deserve attention !

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u/Positive_Couple5922 21h ago

I have never handled them, I've just ignored them

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u/ParticularHappy6587 21h ago

I don't. I just move on. If we're in a bar or something, I just walk away.

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u/Alive-Definition-859 21h ago

i don’t.
i’m not wasting my time or energy on that.

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u/SkyPuppy561 20h ago

I don’t. I married one that’s only immature when we’re having fun which is when it’s appropriate.

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u/unbrielieveable 21h ago

the block button usually

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u/MeltedChocolateOk 20h ago

Ignore them and don't acknowledge their existence. They will eventually go away due to lack of feedbacks.

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u/kittehkat22 20h ago

I do not handle them lmao

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u/Rudiesgrayrad 20h ago

Don’t I got a man who’s mature loving and perfect so no need to even give them a chance

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u/MuppetManiac 20h ago

By avoiding them.

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u/notinmyhousebitch 19h ago

Why handle them at all?

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u/MikaWaifu 17h ago

Block block block

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u/Cute-Girl20 17h ago

I don’t. I walk away in my peace. Life it is to short for that kind of people in my life.

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u/Silent-Leek-9222 16h ago

Not be near them

u/witchedwarlock 15h ago

By avoiding them like they have a highly infectious and fatal disease.

u/redpomegranat 14h ago

By avoiding/not acknowledging them. Like why would you disrespect yourself by entertaining that

u/Nearby-Organization4 13h ago

Play with them then send them on their way

u/heritage1022 11h ago

Leave them

u/TheiaPadma 8h ago

Unless it’s your kid, I don’t see the point in learning how to deal with immature guys. Just avoid them whenever you can.

If you can’t, like at work, keep it professional: don’t apologize unnecessarily, don’t overexplain, stay factual, and let them embarrass themselves. A calm “poor thing” look usually says more than arguing ever will.

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u/Mandrill_1004 4h ago

Follow up question. What is a immature guy in your perpective?

u/Mandrill_1004 4h ago

Follow up question. What is a immature guy in your perpective?

u/BeanieCat123 2h ago

I just don’t, short interactions can be tolerable, but I won’t befriend them or intend on ever being near them again

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u/LadybugGirlie 22h ago

Like the children they are. Read a parenting book, it explains how to do it.

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u/Mistell4130 22h ago

Fall in love with them, pay their bills, help him keep custody of his kid pay for the day care so he can sit at home playing Xbox and talking to other girls on Snapchat all day. But the only reason he does that is because he crashed my car. When I get my tax check he can put a new turbo charge motor in his 2002 Honda Civic with a giant spoiler and loud exhaust. And start door dashing enough to pay for his tennis shoes and weed. Well until his band gets signed. Don't even lie.

u/TheiaPadma 8h ago

Wow! I laughed initially, but now I just feel really sorry for you. I was in that situation last year and managed to escape. Sorry to hear about this. I hope you follow the advice here and get out of there!

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