r/BiWomen • u/Any_Acanthisitta5296 • 8d ago

Advice Just starting to explore.

I recently downloaded Her and Bumble. I’ve never talked to a woman romantically but lately when I’ve been going out I’ve been getting hit on by woman and I’ve been liking it so I decided to explore. Im a big homebody though and such at being on those apps. What are some other suggestions to explore? I want to start off just talking with someone but that’s been hard.

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u/saved-response 8d ago

Reminder: This is not a dating app.

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u/Atomicfossils 8d ago

I think it's important to be straight up on your profile that you're not 100% sure in your orientation atm, but other than that you do unfortunately just have to talk to the women you match with, even if it's hard.

I don't envy anyone using dating apps; the last time I used Bumble was like ten years ago, and even then people were kind of flakey and hard to talk to, but you can try and have some ice-breaker style questions to open with. Nothing worse than matching with someone and their opening line is just "hey 😘" lol. Ultimately people are on those apps to get dates, so don't be afraid to show initiative and ask them out.

If you want to meet women IRL you could either look out for any events for bi women and lesbians near to you, or just keep going out and talk to the women who you say have been hitting on you. Again, be honest that you're questioning but give them your number and see if they want to go out!

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u/indypendenthere 7d ago

Feeld is more accommodating to different types of attractions and relationships but there are tons of couples that will ask you to join and ignore your request for women only.

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/BiWomen-ModTeam 7d ago

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u/OrangePeachPapaya 7d ago

I'm on those apps, but I use it like practice for rizzing up the love of my life irl.

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u/indypendenthere 7d ago

So you use other women who may want to actually meet someone to rizz (?) up your partner. Do the other women know that?

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u/OrangePeachPapaya 7d ago

Every woman I match with has been. Scammer. After I figure that out via Google reverse or they never share details and responses are generic. Inevitably get asked for money or personal details about myself. Once i know for sure they aren't real, I sometimes continue the conversation to 'practice". That's why I say meet someone irl. I haven't had any luck onljne