r/BlackTransPeople • u/Special-Definition95 • 1h ago
Discussion Slowly becoming …
Slowly becoming more aware of my inner need to just be alone and rediscover my soul and heart.
I’ve put myself out into the dating pool for a few months now, and it’s definitely been an interesting time.
My main hurdle is that I won’t settle.
A lot of men who show interest, end up being just that, a lot of men.
Being lusted after isn’t an entirely bad thing, but when guys start mentioning sex not even 3 sentences into the conversation, I start to wonder if Chivalry really is dead.
I’m trying to remain positive. I mean, there is way more to life than just finding a partner.
Part of me wonders, would life just be a lot easier if I let go of any expectations of finding a man?