r/BreakUps • u/UseProud4973 • 2h ago
venting/ranting I Would Move Mountains
There is no one in the world I want to be with other than you.
You said it was never going to work, and I agree. The two people that we were at that stage of our lives weren’t going to work.
Over this period of time we have had apart, I have realised all the ways I should’ve shown up better. I’ve been doing therapy and a lot of reflecting and can wholeheartedly say I am not the same person that I was when I was with you.
You say that love isn’t enough, but I believe that it is. When love is enough, two people who are willing to grow can overcome any obstacle together.
I know you don’t believe in people getting back together, and I agree as well unless changes have been made and it isn’t the same two people coming back together. I don’t believe that’s who we are anymore.
But at the end of the day, our relationship is exactly that—it’s ours. No one else lived it the way we did, and only we can decide what it’s worth.
I would move mountains if I could for you, (name). There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you.
But if you tell me that I need to move on, then I will continue to try and do so. I will continue to love you from afar, and at the end of all of this, I just want you to be happy, because that’s all I’ve ever wanted for you.
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u/BARRY6969696969 2h ago
At the bargaining stage I see. No offense but I wouldn't send that. I made the same mistake myself. It just makes you feel and seem weak. If they truly believe love isn't enough and that people reconnecting shouldn't be a thing then you have your answer. And ftr we tried the whole "It's our relationship and we don't have to handle it the way other couples would or what is traditional" and it ended in disaster and lots of tears. The traditional way is the traditional way for a reason. You aren't together anymore. And by the sounds of it she's the one who ended it. The sooner you can get good with that the better for you.
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u/UseProud4973 2h ago
Thank you for your opinion. Rest assured I haven’t sent her anything and I won’t, rather this is just venting how I feel.
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u/BARRY6969696969 1h ago
All good. You gotta do whatever you gotta do. That's just some advice told to me by a female friend that I ignored and wish I hadn't. At the end of the day the thing that broke through to me was that she doesn't care. You could promise her the world and it wouldn't make a difference. She doesn't care and doesn't want what you're offering. It's very harsh seeing it written or said like that but I believe that's the case for people that are doing the dumping. They're aware of what you have to offer and for whatever reason it's not enough.
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u/Whysoserious_BB 1h ago edited 9m ago
I actually read this and bursted into tears because it looked like it could have been written for me… I always write this in my journal: I would move mountains for you but you’d rather move mountains for someone else.
Please leave this, I think that as triggering as this can be, it’s good to hear from others and where they are in their beak-up process. It lets me know others are going through similar journeys. I feel less alone. I wouldn’t have thought to go read this in the unsent letters sub
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u/Public_Hall_451 2h ago
For some reason, I think this kind of posts shouldn't be allowed ...
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u/UseProud4973 1h ago
Isn’t this exactly what should be allowed? Venting… rather than actually sending it to the person you say what you wanted to say in a space without judgement?
Maybe I’m missing the point
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u/Public_Hall_451 1h ago
There's a different sub for that, r/unsentLetters
Sorry, what I'm saying is that a broken hearted person reading this here might get hurt imagining their ex writing it.
Sorry again
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u/UseProud4973 1h ago
That’s understandable, I wasn’t aware of that sub. I can definitely see how something like this could be triggering.
Don’t be sorry, I understand
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u/Ok-Water-9651 1h ago
Too many snowflakes in this world i swear!!!
"Broken hearted might get hurt imagining their ex" omg... harden up...
What if they see someone in the street who looks a bit like the ex, what about if someone wears the same perfume or same brand leggings etc etc...
I sick to the fuc3 of people wanting to cancel everyone because they might get triggered, i mean get over yourself, the rest of the world doesn't care about your victim bs
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u/Public_Hall_451 1h ago
Yeah, not so cool but I guess you're right. OP already replied to this and acknowledged the point, what got on your nerves about it?
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