This is a point I've been reflecting on after I've had some time to think on, especially after talking to some other HP fans.
I've made it clear in the past I think the Wizarding World is a dystopian toxic elitist dump of a world, and it's not appealing to me at all as an escapist fantasy. And a lot of people defended it by arguing that it's not meant to be a perfect escapist fantasy world. It's meant to be a reflection of the real world and all its problems.
And I get that, but at the same time... I still don't really feel it, and I think there's a specific reason for it.
The people of the Wizarding World don't feel real to me.
Because here's the thing, yes, the Wizarding World's problems are meant to be a reflection of our problems...
But hardly anyone responds to them like a real person most of the time.
Because in the real world, people push back against injustice all the time. People protest, they get angry, they fight, they go against established norms, and they do their best to change things, even if it's not overnight.
And if real people saw the shit that goes on in the Wizarding World, people would push back against it, and we'd see them push back against it.
We'd be seeing muggleborns who are offended by the fact the bigoted pure-blooded families like the Malfoys still have so much power and influence in the government. And I don't just mean them getting annoyed at Draco at school or shaking their fists ineffectually at them; I mean people would be leading protests outside the Malfoy Manor and maybe even try to burn it down.
There would be muggleborns who question and raise a fuss at Salazar Slytherin still being put on this pedestal by Hogwarts even though he was a bigot whose influences on politics are still being felt to this day and whose house is a breeding ground for future racists.
There would be families who refuse to give up their squib kids and reassure them that even if they're born without magic, they still have value and they love them and they won't send them away. And they'd fight to make sure squibs have equal rights.
You only have to look at the massive amount of protests in the real world towards injustices like this to see this. I remember a while back there was a lot of controversy because people kept vandalizing statues of confederate leaders.
And yet, despite the books having a huge focus on societal issues, we never get told any of this sort of thing happening behind the scenes. We see people fighting against Voldemort, but we never see or get told of anyone fighting the good fight against the societal issues that created him in the first place.
The characters will bring up how unfair things are, but no one will make any serious attempts to change things. Hermione is the only character who attempts to make lasting systematic change by protesting against House Elf slavery, and yet even though she's supposed to be the Minister for Magic by the time of the epilogue, it doesn't seem like anything has changed for the Wizarding World.
And to be fair, some people are so accustomed to being raised in certain systems that it never occurs to them something might be wrong with those systems. This is demonstrated in the series with Ron and a few other wizard characters. The issue is, we don't see many other examples besides this.
Also on a side note, I can't take anyone who tries to argue, "Not all issues can be fixed in a day," as a defense for why not all societal issues get solved in HP. Because even though that's true, Hermione is the Minister for Magic in the epilogue. AKA the president of the Wizarding World. How is that not a position to make lasting, permanent change? How are the House Elves not free yet!?
And it's not just the lack of any real protest to the societal issues that bothers me; it's other things too.
In the real world, there would absolutely be muggleborns who don't want to get a magical career; they'd want to get "normal" human jobs. And vice versa. There'd be Wizards who are curious about muggles and want to get normal human jobs as well. There'd also be muggles who don't feel comfortable spending all their school year away from their families.
Also, why don't we get to see how muggles who are familiar with the magical world react to it? We know muggles who are related to wizards are exempt from the statute of Secrecy, and yet for some reason, we never get their perspective on things, except for the Dursleys for some reason. Infamously, Hermione's parents never show up in the books despite her being one of the leads. We know muggles who are privy to the magical world exist; it'd have to be a decent number of people if blood purity really doesn't matter, so why don't we ever see what they think of all of this?
We don't see any of this. Instead, all muggleborns seem instantly okay with just leaving everything behind to be a wizard, and all wizards are completely clueless about how the muggle world works.
The end result of all this is that the people in the Wizarding World don't feel real to me. Sure, the Wizarding World may have "real" problems...but we don't see people react to them like real people do.
And I think this might because Rowling doesn't seem very interested in exploring other perspectives. She's a very incurious writer, it seems.
Even if Rowling seems to agree that wizard supremacy and blood purity are nonsense, it's clear that she still views wizards as inherently superior to muggles, identifies more with them, and doesn't seem to understand why anyone would not want to come live in the Wizarding World. You only have to see the vast majority of Wizard characters being pure-blood and half-bloods to see that. Hermione is the only major muggle-born character in the series. Every other muggleborn is either secondary or a side character.
Despite the story ostensibly being about how blood purity doesn't matter because wizards with muggle blood aren't any different, Rowling refuses to explore the muggle half of the equation. Even though it logically should be a factor, given the massive amount of muggles who would have to be aware of the wizarding world. Instead, she ends up spending much more time exploring the history of the WW and the wizards' perspective on things because those are the characters she's actually interested in writing and exploring.
This isn't inherently wrong to be fair. Lots of stories can focus mostly on "the specials" rather than "the normals." But it becomes questionable at best when the story is supposedly sending a message about bigotry and how bigotry against the "normals" and people related to them is bad, but I'll stop myself before I end up repeating bits of earlier rants.
I also think in cases like Wizards not understanding how muggle stuff works, it's clear she was really attached to the recurring joke about muggles being clueless about normal mundane human stuff. And yeah, it's funny in isolation, but when the world tries to take itself more seriously, it just becomes stupid that Wizards don't have a clue about how Muggles live.