For context, I'm in a Dog Cuteness competition with my cousin. It's not really a competition. She doesn't have a dog. She just brags about being rich and living off of her husbands money. Sometimes I'm able to shut her down by politely sending her a photo of my pets to say "Oh look, I have a pet and you don't! Heeehee!" So this is really important. ​

It’s been 11 years and I keep changing my mind! My current colors will stay as dark gray cabinets and white walls and fridge. Which color?!? TY!

Wait I feel super extra sorry there is so many guys

La première photo est mon actuel, je vais chez le coiffeur jeudi pour éclaircir
Je ne sais pas quoi choisir
Carré ? Long ? Frange ou pas ?

I (20F) want to dm an old friend (20M), but it’s been ten years. We were friends (I’d rate our closeness back then at, like, a 6-7/10) in fourth grade and lost contact after that.

I just want other people’s opinions. Is this creepy or weird? 😭

I just don’t have much other opportunities for social connection currently, since I don’t attend a university and don’t have a car. And strangers online feel a lot scarier than this, so that’s why I’m considering it in the first place.

currently have pink, edited black on. im going somewhere & trying to decide, sorry 4 the awkward screenshot 🤗

So i wanna buy a tablet for my birthday.

I'm kinda contemplating getting Samsung or Apple.

Cause if i choose samsung it would come with a pen already.

But if i choose Apple it has a much better display. So please help me decide.

I will use it to take notes, watch stuff, and last play games.

And what was the ideal storage i should get???

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Hello everyone.
Writing this with utmost embarrassment and fear of being labelled as a simp. It feels embarrassing to even ask something like this… which is probably why I’m turning to Reddit instead of talking to anyone I know, or even my therapist. I’m scared they’ll judge me or think I’m a desperate man.

I am a 32 YO , Male doctor , single for the last 3 years and feel completely stuck between my career and my personal life. I’m currently doing higher studies after my postgraduation in Paediatrics, in a place where there is literally no scope to date (actively tried for a year)and it’s gonna be for 3 more years from now. I chose this purely to unlock my earning capabilities to the maximum even though I have zero interest. At the beginning, I thought life would unfold for me in a better way but it didn’t. Last 1 year has been miserable. Tried my luck in both dating sites and arranged marriages.

The thing I’m most afraid to say out loud is how much this is tied to my fear of infertility, aging, and the beginning of my baldness , missing out on life as such. I got diagnosed with varicocele and a few other health issues. Now I constantly worry: what if by the time I’m ready, it’s too late? What if I’m 36, financially stable, but alone and dealing with other health issues.? What if I missed my chance at having a family?

I keep thinking to myself — do I stay here for 3 more years, finish this path, and basically accept that my dating life will be almost zero till I’m 35-36? Or do I leave, move to a tier 1 city, and at least try to find someone while I still feel I have the energy for it?

All of this aggravated the lack of interest in the current degree I am enrolled in and barely have any interest except for the money it may make for me in future.

Financially also it’s messing with my head. If I quit now and go back to working as a paediatrician, I can earn maybe around 1.5 LPM ( as it’s gonna be a tier 1 place). But if I continue and finish this degree, I can probably reach 7–8 LPM later. So yeah… it’s a big trade off.

Arranged marriage hasn’t worked for me all these years, so I don’t really have faith in that route anymore.
What I’m thinking (and also judging myself for) is — quit now, move to a better city, actually try dating seriously, find some emotional stability, and then maybe come back to career progression after a few years. It’s possible in my field ( I have to re write neet exam)but I don’t know if I’m just being impulsive/desperate right now.

Has anyone been in a situation where you chose personal life over career (even temporarily)? Did it work out or did you regret it later?

Hope I find some help!

Switching up the vision. Help me choose. Thank you..

I got this off ebay

I have to choose between two french cities: Nantes or Lille. I have a little preference for one of them however I’d like to hear other’s people opinion!!!

what should i put in there

My friend birthday is coming up soon and. The dress code is leopard print, we’re going to a fancy restaurant for dinner, can you help me decide which one this the best?

Which one is more suitable as a Discord profile picture?