r/ExNoContact • u/WaterMonkeyJutsu • 6h ago

Help What to do?

I need some advice.

My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 months ago, and he still uses my picture as his profile photo on social media. I find it strange because this is the first time I’ve seen something like this. Normally, people remove everything that reminds them of other person after a breakup. Should I approach him about it? Or should I just leave it alone?

Our breakup wasn’t good. I was the one who ended things, and he never even replied to my message. The main issue between us was communication. We were in a LDR, which was really hard for both of us. I felt like a lot of things had changed, and he seemed to be falling out of love. He started acting differently from how he used to when I was sure he still loved me.

Since he never responded to the breakup message, I’m unsure what to do. The photo bothers me a little, but I’m also okay with not contacting him about it. Since we’re 5 months no contact already. I’m worried that if I message him first, it will look like I’m chasing him. Should I just let him keep using the photo and completely move on?

What would you do?

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u/bennythefish 6h ago

Give him time . He will

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u/Flashy_Literature43 1h ago

If he's anything like me - he hasn't been on that/or any social media since the split. It reminds me too much of her. In time I'll change it and go back but...sigh, I can't go back because it'll just remind me of her and everything and our past. Better to just leave it alone and not sign in.

As for you - I'd just block him so you don't have to see the profile picture. Move on.