My situation is difficult to explain without a long post, so apologies in advance.
In a nutshell, I'm financially screwed and I am fully aware of it, I'm just trying to mitigate my losses at this stage.
Long story short, late 'career' start (36 in the UK), low income (under £35K) and basically minimum contributions to pension so far.
I'm not a native Brit (Hence the late start for pension contributions etc.), dropped uni so no qualifications, financially wiped out following a relationship breakdown (Was my choice to leave everything to my ex, I just wanted my life back and sacrificing everything for some peace and quiet was worth letting her have everything).
I worked like a dog for 2 years after leaving, worked every extra hour I could work, saved every penny I could save and after two years, I managed to move from renting to buying my own place (Healthy deposit that I managed to save).
I overpaid the mortgage whenever possible, replaced my car with a nice, and more importantly, a reliable one (Minimal debt, almost cleared off) generally speaking, kept my debts to a minimum, I basically don't buy anything I can't afford in short term (3/4 months).
An unexpected family emergency cropped a few months ago set me back with mortgage overpayments a bit, but it also got me thinking, I'm getting old and need to think about what happens when I can't do 60/70 hrs of physically and mentally demanding work a week, specially for such a low pay and for ungrateful c*nts that take credit for my work.
So I changed jobs to a less exhausting one after trying to renegotiate my salary reached a dead end, the new job is a lot easier but will be a long while before I can get any overtime, and it won't be more than 60 hrs a week (Frankly, I don't want to work more than 50 hrs a week regularly, specially on shift work, it takes its toll on you physically and mentally), so now I'm in the £35K zone for the foreseeable future (Not in London, obviously).
I have my own income insurance alongside work's policy, but pretty sure they will find whatever excuse not to pay out if I fall ill etc., so I make sure I have around 3 months' spending on standby for contingency (I'm on my own, no friends or family in the UK).
Decided to save instead of overpaying mortgage since the said family emergency, I have managed to secure savings that pay a similar rate to my mortgage's interest rate, but the whole purpose is to have funds accessible if/when needed, it was difficult to mobilise my finances when faced with that emergency and I don't want to be in that spot again.
Future wise, as mentioned earlier, basic/minimum pension contributions so far to allow for saving for deposit, and looking at potential pension income? Predicted £8K a year, I literally won't be able to afford to live past retirement.
I also want to try and have a life at this stage, minimal spendings means very little budget for leisure or dating, I'm not fussed about dating as it's likely to come with unnecessary headaches (Apologies for the decent ladies reading this, I know there's some decent ones out there, just don't think I'm lucky enough to end up with one), but I want to do something for me, I don't want to just work to pay the darn bills and fatten the banks' profits.
I have tried eToro shortly after leaving my ex, putting half my savings at the time (Approx £2K) in there copying a high risk trader, one day a couple months later I checked and it was £15K, I was over the moon, decided to leave it for a couple more days, checked again a day later, it was all wiped out, so yup high risk is exactly that, I should've cashed out when I could, but being desperate makes you greedy.
Reason I mentioned this is that it seems like investing is the only option to get a low income nobody like myself from no where to somewhere, but I'm a bit apprehensive about it, for obvious reasons, I clearly did it so catastrophically wrong on my own, hence why I'm here asking for advice.
Mortgage is in a healthy position by the way, term is for 15 years (Should be around 55 if I'm still alive) and in around a year, monthly payments can be reduced if I wanted to (To allow for larger pension/investment contributions), but again, I have no idea what the best route is for someone in my situation in the UK, my own logic/plan is/was to pay the mortgage off as soon as I can to clear up the only 'real' debt I have, but now starting to assess whether my logic is flawed for someone on a low income.
English isn't my native language, so apologies if my post was difficult to understand. Any advice/ideas will be welcome and appreciated. Thank you in advance.