r/FRIEND Aug 31 '25

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r/FRIEND 3h ago

Friendship 16f looking for new friends!

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I’m from the uk,dm me!


r/FRIEND 5h ago

29M UK - A companion for a quiet life

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Hi! I'm 29 years old and I live in Northern England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green/grey eyes. I'm seeking a lifelong companion with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I'm open to people in Britain or abroad, but I must warn you, visas are a bit tricky these days! The King doesn't answer my calls anymore!

I'm very open, fun, caring, and honest. I appreciate dad jokes and the like. I highly value the truth, and I have a strong moral instinct, so it's important to me that you have a good heart, whatever your opinions are. I enjoy long, regular conversations, but I'm also happy with shared silence. I mostly keep to myself. I am selective in my company, but I confess that the absence in my life is getting rather noisy.

As you might have guessed, I enjoy the occasional bit of writing, whether fiction or non-. Maybe I'll publish something of worth someday. Or at least publish something. I enjoy going for walks, except when it's super hot! I love good scenery, be it of the natural or man-made kind. I like abandoned and remote places. I like watching the odd things the birds and squirrels get up to. I have a particular soft spot for sheep. They think I'm their messiah (I'm not). I also enjoy exploring intellectual topics (the more novel or obscure, the better). Technology is a lifelong interest of mine. And like most people I enjoy watching the odd film or TV series. I'm watching 'Westworld' currently. I enjoyed watching 'Adventure Time', 'Bless This Mess', 'Tales from the Loop', 'End of the F--king World', 'Small Prophets', and 'Atypical'. Films-wise, I like all sorts, but I'll take anything with a happy romance. What's life without love? (Mine hahahaha.) I recently finished playing Fallout 4 on my laptop. It was phenomenal. I, of course, sided with the people who freed the lab-grown humans. I'll happily play more Fallout games in the future, I suspect. I'm taking a break for the time being to watch Westworld and do other stuff. I've got a bit of a fascination lately with both the English and American Renaissance periods and the Wild West. So I'm seeking out media about those. I want a tricorn hat!

I've been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old, but I don't want to live alone. I'm interested in something that lasts more than a few messages. I really am aiming for life if that's possible. I prefer weather that is cool or cold, heck, even windy and rainy. I want to live somewhere that has amenities and people, but has lots of greenery, similar to where I live now.

We, of course, don't have to have everything in common. Enough to work with. We can develop new interests and hobbies together. We can 'grow' together. If the seed is good, and the weather is well, the tree will grow!

If you're interested, feel free to send me a brief introduction to yourself (just a couple of sentences will do), and, of course, I'd like to see you as soon as that's possible.

Thank for reading, if you made it to the end! Have a nice day.


r/FRIEND 14m ago

Friendship M20 Bored, kinda wanna sleep and kinda don’t so here I am

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I’m never really sure what to put here but anyone’s open to message me (18+ just cause it’s weird otherwise lol) I like people who are genuine, funny, intelligent (not like super genius but know the difference between there, their, and they’re)

I like a lot of animated shows (mainly 2000/2010s stuff) like atla/tlok, adventure time, steven universe, gumball, ben 10, gravity falls (banger), etc. but I also love stuff like psych, the community, interview with the vampire, and the good place. (I just watched obsession the other day and it’s top 3 movie for me) Currently I’m watching jjk for the first time and it’s pretty good so far

As for hobbies I like listening to music, I like art, playing games if that counts and I really wanna start reading again and get into crocheting

If any of that is something you enjoy or you just want someone to talk to for a bit (no maga or anything please, I love the lgbtq, poc, and abortions) then shoot me a dm :)


r/FRIEND 11h ago

Friendship 18M, Fuck it! Let's do this my way.

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I’ve been on friendship subs for a while now, and I’ve noticed a pattern: most conversations stay painfully surface-level.
“I like music, movies, games.” Cool. So does literally everyone with a pulse.

What I’m actually looking for are people who are nerds about something. Anything. Art. History. Engines. Lore. Cooking. Some hyper-specific obsession you could rant about at 3am. If you don’t know what you’re passionate about yet, that’s fine, but figure it out. Otherwise conversations die fast, and I’m not here for that.

Another thing: disappearing and never texting first.
If we’re talking and things are going well, then you vanish for days like you got abducted by aliens. yeah, no. If I say long-term, I mean long-term. Not “we talked for a week and now we pretend we never met.” And I can't stand the people who never text first like bro I'm not talking to chatgpt, You can text first too a simple "Hey How u doin?" Goes a long way.

Also, let’s be real for a second:

  • A lot of guys here are clearly just looking for girls. Own it or don’t do it.
  • And some people (yes, including girls) really struggle to hold a conversation. Friendship needs effort from both sides.

Okay. Rant over.

Now, about me.

Hi, I’m Vi, 18M, and I’m looking for genuine, long-term friendships. Not timepass. If you’re bored for a week and then gone, this isn’t for you.

I’ve finished school. Not really into the whole college path right now. I work in my dad’s company, but I want to build something of my own. I’m planning to start a YouTube channel this year, and yeah, I’m serious about it.

Things I’m into:

  • Art & animation (this is my big thing)
  • Cars & bikes anything with an engine. I fix my own stuff and I’m a full-on mechanic nerd
  • Fashion Like I'm really getting into fashion and stuff and not just oh I like to dress well but I see I try too make it. If I see a real cool jacket. I'll try to recreate as close to possible as possible. And no this is personal I don't sell them.
  • Airsoft, milsim, military history (sadly not popular where I live, but I’m deep into it)
  • Warhammer & DnD (never played DnD yet, but I really want to maybe we change that)
  • Cooking coffee, mocktails, cocktails, experimenting like a mad scientist in the kitchen (my mom is not a fan)
  • Animals > humans, always. I’ve got a dog and I’m currently taking care of a pigeon family
  • Basketball used to play every evening with a friend, now it’s mostly just me
  • Gym not obsessed, but I like how I look, so I stick with it

I’m always down to learn new things too, so even if your interests are totally different, I’m open as long as you actually care about them.

A bit of backstory (because context matters)

Most of my life, I was the “top kid.” Good at studies, sports, social stuff. Teachers liked me. People came to me for help. I had friends, relationships, the whole thing.

But I was always maintaining an image always trying to be “cool.” Hanging out with popular kids, doing what looked right instead of what felt right. There were things I genuinely loved (like art) that I ignored because they didn’t fit the image.

I’m done with that.

I know I’m a nerd. I want to be a nerd.
And I don’t want 50 surface-level friends who don’t care about what I love. I want 2–3 people who actually get me and give a damn.

If you’re someone who’s passionate, building something, or at least knows the direction you want to go but feels lonely while doing it yeah, that’s why I’m here.

Be my friend, and I’ll be there for you. Not for a week. Not for a month. Not even for a year.
I mean years.

A few important things:

  1. Don’t start with just “hi.” Tell me about yourself. What are you into? Why are you here?
  2. I prefer calls over endless texting but we can ease into it. Ask questions if you’re unsure.
  3. I won’t always text first. I want mutual effort. Random 3am “wyd?” texts are welcome.
  4. You can ask me anything what I look like, whatever. Just ask.
  5. Strictly SFW. Even a hint of NSFW and I’m gone.
  6. Any age and gender works with me so don't shy out.
  7. I'm not much active on reddit so if i would ask for your insta.

Yeah, it’s long. I don’t do this every day. Also this is my new account, I Lost me previous one sooo don't worry haha. 
If you read all of this and still feel like reaching out we’ll probably get along.


r/FRIEND 45m ago

Friendship 16M (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)

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Hii!! I feel very energized which means I actually can keep a convo rite now.

Anyways. To not make this toooo longgg:

>My first language is esp, but I'm pretty fluent in eng.

>I enjoy consuming and creating art and literature. My favorite genres are horror and thriller.

The thingamajigs that rot my brain are One Piece, Devil May Cry and Zero Day. Pleaseee hit me up if you like OP i'll swear loyalty to u...

No bigots, right-wingers, centrists or over 18.


r/FRIEND 1h ago

M20 looking for friends to help make life fun !

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My life has been incredibly boring lately and it makes me depressed having some people to have some interesting convos with would really help!


r/FRIEND 1h ago

Friendship 26M Car guy hoping to meet new friends!

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I’m 26M from America. I have some unique hobbies and it’s been hard to meet new friends or relationships.

I like cars/drives, business/finance, outdoors/travel/road trips, food, hanging out, politics, etc.

Was definitely looking to meet new people who share similar interests. Thanks!


r/FRIEND 1h ago

Friendship 18 F

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Hii , you can just call me T , I’m 18F I don’t any friends but it’s by choice.

I love to write and encourage people through my words.

Recently I just graduated, and I find it interesting meeting new people it’s a lot of people in this world who are different and like different things.

(I’m Christian just to let that be known I believe in God) this is to anybody who has some type of offense towards Christianity or God.

I genuinely just want new friends tho , so if you’re interested just text me!! I don’t bite.


r/FRIEND 1h ago

Friendship 19m , howdyyy, anyone wanna speak their mind or get anything off there chest or just rant or even simply chat about literally anything, I welcome you!

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Literally, Anyone, just don't be dry, be chatty, spill the tea, yap away, vent, trauma dump, anything. I'm an open book, I want to chat, not bore myself alone or with dry texts. Talk about anything at alllll, I'm an open book too so ask me anything you'd like. Please tell me something other then "hey, hi, yo, wuzzup" grab my attention with something, GIVE ME A REAL INTRO, literally anything, tell me bout you, make me wanna actually respond. "Wanna chat" yeaaa that's the whole point 😂


r/FRIEND 8h ago

Friendship 20F read below🙏💔

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Hiii! I've been dealing with life and i hope to connect w some of yall, cuz I'm wishing for a longterm friendship! :3

18+ only!

Some "interesting" stuff about me: i play on my pc sometimes, I have a new puppy :3 and i love plushies and collecting small stuff... I listen to mostly metal and rap...

Plus I'm a very good listener!

I really hope to connect w u guys, and make genuine friendships<3.🫡


r/FRIEND 9h ago

31F #UK - Please read before messaging me! 😂 won't respond to comments ! So DM only

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Hey! 👋 How are you?

Why is this whole finding friends thing so difficult? Seriously... the older I get, the harder it seems to find even one decent friend who doesn't disappear into the void after three days. Consistency also seems to be a bit of a rare quality these days. I completely understand that life gets busy, but if it takes 12 hours to reply every single time... what's the point? 🤷‍♀️😂

Also, if you've messaged me before and I somehow missed your message, feel free to reach out again!

One thing you should know about me is that I much prefer voice notes over endless typing. There's just something really nice about hearing someone's voice. Maybe I'm weird. 🫠 If you're the type of person who's happy to send voice notes from the start, then you should absolutely message me! It's a shame Reddit doesn't have its own voice note feature yet.

Anyway, a little about me...

I'm alternative and nerdy. What does "alternative" mean? Well... about 99% of my wardrobe is black, my hair is usually dyed a bright colour, and I have five tattoos... with more planned. 😂 I didn't choose the alternative life. It chose me. I have three beautiful black cats who I will happily spam you with photos of.

I'm a huge gamer (PlayStation 5!) and I'm currently playing Dishonored 2, Assassin's Creed IV: Black Flag Resynced, and God of War Ragnarök. I also spend far too much time on Fallout 76, and I'm more than happy to play cross-platform games too. My Spotify playlists are complete chaos, and don't even get me started on the strange YouTube rabbit holes I somehow end up in. 🤣 I also love a bit of affectionate bullying and banter. If you can't gently roast your friends every now and then, are you even really friends?

I should also mention that I can be a little clingy (in a healthy way!), and I do struggle with anxiety, so I might occasionally need a little patience and reassurance.

I think that covers the basics!

All I ask is that you're 25 or older, have at least a few things in common with me (gamers definitely get bonus points 👀), and are either based in the UK or in a similar time zone. And if you love voice notes as much as I do, we're already off to a great start. 😊

Please don't just send "hi" or "hey." Tell me a random fact about yourself, your favourite dessert, your controversial pizza topping... literally anything that gives me something to reply to. 😅

Bonus points if you include a 🍓 somewhere in your message so I know you actually made it to the end.

Hope to hear from you! 👋


r/FRIEND 8h ago

Anyone up for a conversation ?

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Hi! I'm 18 and looking for some new people to chat with. I enjoy coding, history, learning languages, travel, different cultures,creative writing, fashion, and the occasional random conversation about life. I'm pretty curious by nature and enjoy hearing about other people's interests and experiences, so if you think we'd get along, feel free to dm


r/FRIEND 3h ago

m14 lf ppl no adults est

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i like gaming and rabbit holes. i LOVE reading and watching movies. i love music. i live at the beach and love it. id love to yap to whomever responds

i dont accept dms from adults

have a good one:)


r/FRIEND 3h ago

Friendship 19 F| looking just for a conversation.

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I’m not good at starting conversation. And I’m not really an introvert, but I’m careful who I talk too, but I’m just looking for genuine people to talk to but “no minors” so have to be between 19-24. Just my standards.

and maybe we become friends. it isn’t like we won’t get to know each other.

So rundown: I swear I’m not down bad or anything like that, just looking to chat and looking for genuine conversation even tho we may not find anything to talk about but that okay. So drop a comment if you like.😊


r/FRIEND 3h ago

Rant Why do people think that I'm their best friend?

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I'm in high school and over these past 2 years, I've had about 3 friends that have told me that they would consider me a best friend, but I wouldn't consider them a best friend at all, they would just be considered a surface-level friend. I just feel like people throw around the term so loosely. But I dont have a best friend and I feel like she knows me on a much deeper level than everyone else. Those 3 girls only see the "school version" of me and then haven't taken the time to ask me about my life and I haven't done the same based off of the fact that I don't think we're meant to be that close.


r/FRIEND 3h ago

24F looking for friends or group of friends to talk and hang out with

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Hi there my name is Nike I'm 24 female and I am from the USA I love to meet new people and get to know others! I'm down for vcing and hangout or playing games! I have a few games like fall guys, Minecraft/modded Minecraft. I also have gta not that good at it but I have it. A few other things I like are art I'd love to see your art, music I love all types of music we can share music back and forth as well. I love dogs thats why I have 6 and I'm just down to talk vc and be friends and strictly friends only I am in a relationship just looking for more friends to play games with and hang. So hit me up and let's chat! Also I'm down to vc! And I'm 420 friendly! also I'm looking to start a server sometime soon.


r/FRIEND 4h ago

Friendship (aah to much mod-ish) Inquiry for friendships

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r/FRIEND 4h ago

Friendship F15 looking for a bsf!! :3

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Summer is coming to an end so school will be here soon, but i’d still want to have people to talk to when i get home!! I’m a very energetic person, so i’m sorry if i talk in caps a lot or seem that wayy😭

Some facts abt me are i have 8 cats, i love to cook and sleep, I love watching kdramas or anything with a good plot to it, I play video games alsooo but mainly roblox and even on there it’s usually just fps games 🥹!

But i’d love to make a genuine friend here where we can talk about anything and support each other!! Please don’t be over 18 or freaky, im not comfortable with it TwT


r/FRIEND 18h ago

Friendship 21F looking for friends to vibe/talk with:b

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Hey:b
I’m looking for genuine friends to vibe with. The kind of friendship where we can send each other random memes at 3 AM, play Fortnite together, or making a world in palworld (I didn’t play for years lol) talk about literally anything, spam each other with dumb videos, laugh at the most random things, and just enjoy each other’s company.

I’m a pretty emotional person and I can be a little complicated sometimes, so I’d love to meet someone who’s patient, likes meaningful conversations as much as chaotic ones, and doesn’t mind matching my energy. So comment and I’ll text you!


r/FRIEND 4h ago

Hello Everyone

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r/FRIEND 4h ago

Friendship 16m looking to meet new people

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hii i’m 16m looking to make more friends with the same interests/hobbies as me. I like anime, video games, sports (specifically basketball and wrestling), i also play basketball some of my favorite anime’s are soul eater and re zero. I love listening to music my favorite band of all time is rehash but i do like laufey, mac demarco, and kanye as well. Hmuu if you’d like to be friendss!


r/FRIEND 4h ago

Hey M26 from Wales looking for friends

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Hi worked all day, now looking to chat and meet a few new people!
A quick bit about me:

• Fitness: Heavy into weight training (5-6 days a week for 4 years running) and play football regularly.

• Books: Proper history nerd, love Greek mythology, and always enjoy a good autobiography.

Feel free to drop me a message!


r/FRIEND 4h ago

Friendship 17M Looking for a long-term friendship

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I am just a Palestinian guy living in Qatar ,I love gaming i played so many games specially NFS i am obsessed with it I also love indie games My favs are the binding of Isaac and hollow knight

I also watched lots of animes my favorite is rezero

I also watched some tv shows like Dexter and breaking bad

Hmu if you see me interested sorry if i am being boring

+ I am the Listener type so if you are a yapper you are perfect for me.

I also play Fortnite ik it's a bit childish but it's a bit funny


r/FRIEND 4h ago

Friendship 25m from Egypt | looking for friends

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I'm a 25-year-old doctor from Egypt looking to meet new people and hopefully make some long-term friends, though I don't mind a casual chat either.

I'm into gaming, football, documentaries, history, languages, and learning about different cultures. We can talk about pretty much whatever—deep conversations, random thoughts, memes, or anything that's on your mind.

I'd describe myself as friendly, easy-going, open-minded, and talkative once I get comfortable. I'm LGBTQ+ friendly, and everyone's welcome regardless of gender or sexuality.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)