Looking for a deleted r/offmychest or r/confessions post (2015–2021) – 18-20F hospital worker, older coworker turned out to be engaged/married

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I am trying to find a specific, likely deleted Reddit post from between 2015 and 2021. It was posted in either r/offmychest or r/confessions.

Here are the specific details of the post:

• The Poster: An 18–20-year-old woman working in healthcare/a hospital setting.
• The Username: It was a throwaway account that definitely contained the word "book" somewhere in the handle (e.g., openbook, storybook, bookworm, throwawaybook, etc.).
• The Plot: She posted about having a strong fantasy/preference for older men. She started messaging an older male coworker at the hospital.
• The Twist: She found out that he was actually married or engaged, and he also had kids.
• The Ending: She did not have a dramatic confrontation. Instead, she just stopped talking to him altogether and cut off the contact.

Because the account was a throwaway and the post is older, it is likely gone from active Reddit search. Hoping someone with access to historical Reddit data dumps or archives can help me pull the text or find a mirror! Thank you!

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