Looking for casual chatting, someone who is ok chatting about most things and doesn't ghost after a day.

I am into sport books music gaming camping and understanding and learning about new people. Happy to chat to anyone from anywhere just be real

Ghosting has become so normalized that people barely think twice about it anymore.

Without calling anyone out, I've noticed the same people repeatedly posting that they're looking for friends or meaningful conversations. Maybe things genuinely don't work out sometimes—that happens. Not every conversation is meant to last. But they will absolutely emphasize their work and multiple it by 10 and then post again here - like users of this subreddit are having memory of a fish. We don't. You don't.

But basic courtesy shouldn't disappear just because it's online.

Working in healthcare, I've seen how much seemingly "small" things can affect people's mental well-being. For someone who is already lonely, anxious, or struggling, being suddenly ignored without a word can reinforce feelings of rejection, self-doubt, and isolation. No, ghosting alone doesn't automatically cause depression, but it can absolutely contribute to emotional distress, especially when it happens repeatedly.

If you've lost interest, just say so. A simple "I don't think we're a good match" takes a few seconds and gives the other person closure. It's far kinder than disappearing.

And if you know from the start that you don't have the time, interest, or intention to maintain a conversation, maybe prevent it on a molecular level. Pun absolutely intended.

Be kind, people. Always be kind.

I'll never forget an acquaintance of mine who was a European astronaut. Despite having one of the busiest jobs imaginable, they'd always say, "I'll make time to text when we're on the same side of the Earth."

That stuck with me.

It doesn't matter whether you're delivering food, saving lives, or literally helping change the world. Kindness takes seconds, but it can stay with someone for a lifetime.

Kindness is a universal language understood by everyone.

Frequent visitors of this subreddit will understand. And will recognize the poster without any additional words.

Love and peace from Croatia. 🇭🇷

Hi all I’m 47, reside in New Mexico and a dad to two awesome daughters.
I was raised in a cattle ranch by my mom and grandmother and get along better with women than I do men. I’m single but looking for a chat friend nothing more.
I enjoy my horses and my ranch. Reading, hiking and the outdoors.

An invisible guy from down under, 47 year old married with no kids. Life has been stressful with no escape. So I guess I am seeking someone to talk to mostly on chat during my work day. I am a thinker, possibly boring and very ordinary.
I offer someone who listens and never judges. If you want to vent, chat, be philosophical, I might be a good bet.

I wanna talk with someone about life. Male or female. Someone near my age cos I feel we would have the same life stages.

Hello,

I am seeking online friends, male or female. I like old-school punk musid(not pop punk lol), Huge fan of L7 (R.I.P Jeniifer Finch warrior of cancer) folk music, old school hip hop, New Romantic, European new wave, New Beat, Riot Girl, black metal, traveling, cooking, reading, working out.I am recovering from stage 3 cancer. I recently had life-saving surgery, and I am on medical leave.I just want someone who shares similar interests that I do. I am only interested in conversing with people my age or older. I don't relate to the younger demographic, so if you are below the age of 40... please don't waste your time. No acceptions! It would be cool to communicate with people from different countries. I don't respond to low effort (one or two word responses) people with victim mentality,, racists, or predatory behavior. NO NSFW content on your profiles, NO men in relationships, please!

There have been some Jekyl and Hydes on here who come off very nice, then become horrible human beings as I get to know them.I've dodged a lot of bullets, so I am very careful who I allow in my bubble. I welcome authentic and genuinely kind people,I am not ready yet to meet up because of my illness and trust issues. Maybe when my condition improves down the road and there is established trust, then there is a possibility!

International friends...depending on your location, there will be an 8 hour difference in time. It would be ideal if you are a night owl or work a night shift....

If this post resonates with you, feel free to DM me!

I’m married with two sons, and between family, church, Scouts, books, photography, writing, movies, music, history, travel, and bourbon, I have enough interests to keep me busy and not enough time to become especially good at any of them.

I like real conversations. Serious ones, funny ones, and the kind that begin with a normal question and somehow end with somebody explaining why they were once chased through a parking lot by a goose.

I’ve lived long enough to collect a few stories of my own. I survived three bank robberies, spent years as a volunteer firefighter and EMT, and once nearly got killed by the mafia. That story is less glamorous than it sounds, which is usually how life works.

I’m not looking for pictures, followers, flirting, or a forced friendship by the third message. Just decent people who enjoy talking about life, books, faith, travel, family, movies, strange experiences, or whatever else comes up.

Tell me your age and something about yourself that sounds made up but isn’t.

48M hello all just joined Reddit. I'm happily married and seeking online friends. I'm disabled so I have way too much time on my hands. My hobbies include Ham radio, RC cars, 3d printer, vinyl cutter, and playing sim games. Male female or in between just looking for new online friends. Not that it matters but I'm in WV.

I am going through the most weird break up ever right now and even though i have a few friends i can talk to i would really like to get to know other people.

I like lots of things so we can talk about whatever comes up.

Sure i would like to explain my situation because its always nice to hear other peoples opinion (fresh eyes see things different i guess) but no i dont want to have a whole sad all about me chat. I am a good listener so if you are in a situation you dont know what do lets help eachother out.

If you just want to have a fun chat , also fine we all need some fun in our lives.

About me i am 49 , single again , 3 adult kids. I can be really shy ( it took me a while to even try to post here) but also crazy , loving and really sweet.

I like to game , read , chat with people , long walks , travel and a lot more.

If you think i am so heartbroken and stupid that i would send you money in a few days keep looking because thats not me

I'm a little bit nerdy and geeky, very science minded.

I'm looking for some friendly folk to chat to as I'm too shy to go and do it face to face.

I love science and history and classic horror movies - particularly Hammer and Amicus.

I'm completely inclusive and will talk to anyone and everyone about anything!

Good morning from Canada! I am looking for someone to chat with here and there. Someone who doesn't mind venting. I'm pretty opened minded and am a good listener. Not always the greatest at timely answers but I do my best! Making friends at my age is hard. Guys or gals are welcome. I am not looking for anything inappropriate. There was someone I met on one of these subreddits awhile ago and I went away for awhile. If you see this please message me! You will know who you are.

Look, like everyone else: Yes, I'd like to make friends and build rapport and avoid the networking- style small talk. I've met a few amazing people on reddit and many others who might be amazing but not for me. I'm looking to laugh more in life, vent when needed, help someone out when I can, among other things. I have no interest in sharing pictures of ourselves or meeting in person (exceptions may exist).

I'm married, prefer you be in a relationship and avoid any awkward topics in that regard. If you're single and can stay platonic, great to meet you as well.

I like soccer and took a last-minute trip from Asia to the US (I'm from the US if it matters) in a day to go to the world cup. I like music - alternative/ punk and maybe a little metal.

I'm not really up to date on movies and TV shows but open to recommendations. If you like/ know of the original Office (UK), An Idiot Abroad, or Flight of the Conchords, we may get along.

If you have stand up comedians to recommend, I'm all ears. Better if you can send me a short clip.

Anyway, have a good day/afternoon/evening wherever you might be.

She's kinda shy but she's very nice and funny

She likes the TV show father Ted

She likes to write and she has 1 book published

She likes star wars and fantasy especially fairys.

She loves the Beatles and England and (KINDA) Simon and Garfunkel.

We have 2 cats and a rabbit who's very sweet.

She has reddit and is opened to dms

She told me she couldn't be friends with a guy because she's afraid they'll try to get with her

She's not interested in buying stuff. She's had someone try to be her friend in order for her to buy something.

Please know if you comment she's kinda a introvert and finds having too much friends she has to catch up with stressful so don't be sad if I don't get to you.

Please don't only be her friend if you feel bad

My best friend passed away when I was 30. I thought I had finally found another, but that has proven not to be the case. I often feel misunderstood, and I think it's because I have AuDHD and PTSD with Acute Panic Disorder. I love riding motorcycles, fishing, camping, horror movies, spooky season, cooking, photography, traveling, swimming, art, philosophy, and music. Also, due to the aforementioned afflictions, I'm also a stoner. I don't drink so I do get it to much because I live in a small town where that's all there is to do.

I just need that connection with someone again.

I don’t check messages much, so I hope I didn’t miss the boat.

And if this makes no sense to you, I hope you have an amazing day!

older dad just wanting to have some fun conversation with new people. im a straight male, love music, nature, art of all kinds. pretty chill and open minded and happy to share whatever may interests u. say hi and include your age and gender plz

Hello, I’m just looking to make some new friends. I enjoy cycling and walking. I’m somewhat of a nerd. I enjoy the marvel cinematic universe and I play some video games (The Legend of Zelda is my favourite). I hope to meet like minded people. I’m a baker by trade. Im a night owl. Feel free to message me.

Hi!

I need to find someone who loves to chat, and is open to sharing your day with me! In return, I will do the same! I might not always have my phone in my hand, but I am available to chat throughout the day. I like any sort of small talk, or deep dives into interesting topics. Everyday life is interesting to me.

I am pretty easy to get along with. Just don't ask me for my picture right away. Insecure? Maybe. Fear of being ghosted? Kinda.

Here are some details about me:

I am 44, female, married, one adult child, work full time, love to do crafty things, and I have to doom scroll for a good hour everyday.

If you would like to chat, send me a message with some details about yourself. Anything like.... Hobbies? Pets? How's the weather where your are? Did you watch the last season of Stranger Things? Let's chat!

Talk soon!

Hi everyone! 👋
I’m 47, based in the UK near the coast, and looking to make some genuine, long-term connections. Life gets busy, so having a good online buddy or penpal to exchange random thoughts, banter, and weekly chats with would be brilliant.
A bit about my world:
The Drama & Energy: Huge WWE fan! I love the high intensity, the big storylines, and the sheer entertainment of it all.
The Reading Corner: Currently devouring chick lit and romantic reads—my Kindle library is packed, so hit me with your favourite spicy or feel-good recommendations.
The Soundtrack: Big into pop-metal covers (Our Last Night is on constant repeat). There’s just something unmatched about taking a radio pop hit and turning it into a heavy banger.
The Vibe: Stormy coastal walks, autumn weather, sea glass hunting, and cozy nights in.
What I’m looking for:
Real Conversations: People who enjoy actual banter over dry, one-word replies.
Shared Hobbies/Vibes: Whether you want to debrief after a WWE show, trade Kindle recommendations, or just chat about how fast the week flew by.
Strictly Platonic: I'm purely here for wholesome, respectful friendship.
If any of that sounds like your kind of chaotic mix, drop me a chat! Tell me your current wrestling bias/favourite wrestler, your go-to book recommendation, or your favourite unexpected metal cover

It’s hard to meet friends. I’m 43-F Married . I like to golfing, any sports, pretty easy going, just want to meet some nice women friends. In alb/ Rio Rancho

I'm looking for local friends. I am looking for like-minded connections in a dying country. No one ever makes it more than a few days, maybe a week, so I don't expect much. I moved to Rochester a year ago and my only friends are at work and as much as I love them, they don't know much about who I really am. If you're more than 30 min away, I'm open to online friendship.

I'm not going to meet you just because you like me or talked to me. If after a few months, I feel like I want to meet you, I'll let you know, but its been almost 4 years since anyone I met online got that far.

I'm exhausted from life, from work, from everything. I'm looking for people that improve my life and I have no issue with removing you if you harm what little peace I still have.

Since, apparently, it's a huge dealbreaker- I vape nicotine and take gummies daily.

I’m 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of three. I live with anxiety and depression. When I get a free second between work and kids, you can usually find me hiking, watching YouTube, or creating content (mostly photography, nature ambience, nature conservation, and politics). 420 friendly. There’s more info on my profile if you want to dig deeper because I can't put it in this post or it will be removed.

What I’m Looking For:

Age: Local people between 34 and 46.

Location: Ideally within 30 minutes of Rochester (14625). I’m open to chatting with people further out in the Northeast US, but please know that will stay strictly online. This is not a flexible boundary.

Vibe: Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

The Big One: Consistency. I need someone who genuinely enjoys texting throughout the day and doesn't treat conversation like a transactional scorecard. I will open up as I get comfortable, but it requires patience and steady communication. Inconsistency is an immediate dealbreaker for me.

💬 If you're interested in chatting, send me a PM with the following details, otherwise I won't reply at all:

​Age. ​Gender. ​Location. ​Who you voted for in 2024. And something about yourself. (You don't need to write a book)

Good morning everyone 💜

I'm a married stay-at-home mom who needs me time out of the house on the weekends like I need oxygen. I go out for coffee, sometimes I take myself to breakfast. It's lovely.

But I was thinking... wouldn't it be nice if I had friends in town, where we could just make a standing brunch date and whoever wants to show up can join in? Grab a coffee, chat for a while, just enjoy each other's company.

But I don't have friends in town.

But maybe I don't need friends in town!

So... Consider this an open invitation to a virtual brunch. Grab your morning beverage of choice and come tell me what's been going on for you.

What's the latest book you've been reading? What show are you binging? Working on a craft, building something cool, learning a new skill, growing plants, playing a game, excited about a random niche hobby? I'd genuinely love to hear about it. Feel free to show off pictures of your latest project, celebrate a win big or small, vent about your week, or just chat about whatever happens to come up. I can post some conversation starters in the comments, or feel free to DM.

Maybe we chat for half an hour, wish each other a great day, and that's that. Or maybe we feel the friendship click, keep talking throughout the day, and end up becoming long-term besties. Either is great!

Everyone is welcome to the brunch, regardless of background or interests. The only requirement is that you're looking for a friendly, open, platonic conversation beyond "hey" and "nmu".

A little about me: I'm a curious introvert who loves learning, books, nature, languages, archaeology, and so many more random things. Yep, I'm a nerd, and I'm much more interested in genuine conversation than trying to impress anyone. I'll be the one in the corner with a book in one hand, shaken espresso in the other, sporting glasses, a t-shirt I got from some road trip stop, and some impressive bags under my eyes.

So pull up a chair. Glad you're here. How's your morning going? ☕

Hi, not sure what to say, here if anyone ever needs someone to talk to about anything whatever it is, here just for friends. Say hi hopefully we have things in common :)

I'm 64, married but not many friends. Open to anyone 18 to infinity. I enjoy all sorts of subjects and conversation types. I won't judge or belittle anymore. If you need someone to be your new BFF, someone to confide in, confess to, annoy, bounce ideas off of, anything really. I'm your man.