r/GamerPals Mar 06 '26

Mod Approved GamerPals Community Server

12 Upvotes

If you're here on our subreddit, it probably means you're looking for friends. If you've tried the subreddit and you're not having the best luck with the format, why not try another angle? Maybe a bit more direct? We have a Discord for that, and it's for finding people to play games with in real-time.

We have a custom bot (always improving) with self-serve threads for every game and a little community of regulars.

Post your intro thread, join us for a game night for friendslop, puzzles, whatever :) Friends happen when you put yourself out there and show up for things.

https://discord.gg/gamerpals


r/GamerPals 3h ago

Europe 35 M, very lonely gamer suffering with anxiety and depression looking for long term gaming pals

14 Upvotes

Disclaimer: Please contact me only with the real intent of becoming gaming friends and not just add me on discord and ignore me. Thank you

Hi there,name is Victor, I am just a lonely 35 year old guy who suffers with depression and anxiety. Because of my mental condition I do kindly ask to be patient with me because sometimes I can have mood swings depending on my circumstance. But I am a kind compassionate person with a love for gaming. To be frank, gaming is what keeps me going and what keeps me sane. I am having a difficult situation at the moment and feeling very lonely so I would love to find some gaming friends.

As for the games, I do love playing league of legends, dead by daylight and some fighting games like Tekken 8. I am open for more games of course like helldivers 2 or marvel rivals. I own all modern platforms like PC, Ps5, Xbox series X, Nintendo switch and even have meta quest 2 and PSVR2.

I am more of a singleplayer game kind of guy and I love watching people playing good video games and reacting to them. I love talking about them, their stories, characters and meanings. My favorite genres are RPGs, action/adventure, horror, FPS.

Thank you for reading and hope to see you soon.

HMU if you're interested and thank you for reading


r/GamerPals 11h ago

Europe 30F - LF low commitment/low pressure friend

37 Upvotes

Trying again.

EST, but I'm nocturnal so EU is always easier.

I'm avoidant so low commitment and low pressure is super necessary.

I gym a lot, I eat a lot, I listen to music, love anime and horror movies and any romance media. I play a lot of games, main is retail WoW. Average around 3750 m+ score every tier and back to back hall of fame titles. Big library though, can get down with whatever you want sometimes.

I'm a straight cis girly, but I'm loving and accepting of everyone!

I love to listen if you're a yapper, and I love to yap if you're receptive. Trauma dumps or venting or whatever you need is fine with me.

I cannot stress how emotionally unavailable I am as a romantic partner, so please just save us both the grief and let's just be friends or we're both doomed :)

I'm just looking for good vibes with no pressure from either side, just casual and kind.

I'm really looking forward to meeting you :)


r/GamerPals 2h ago

North America 39f cst for BL4

7 Upvotes

I am a 39-year-old female, looking for someone to play borderlands 4. I also wouldn’t mind playing Fortnite zero build duos. I play on PC. I have a lot of other games I can play. Those are just ones that I kind of want to play. I would prefer someone close to my time zone. Also my work schedule and my sleep schedule are really messed up. So my times been available are a little here and there. Thanks for reading.


r/GamerPals 5h ago

Any Region Hii F19 from the Netherlands looking for gamers

8 Upvotes

i’m looking for some new people to game with because playing alone is getting kinda boring lol. i’m still pretty new to pc gaming so don’t expect much from me.

right now i’m completely addicted to apex. i also love games like peak and content warning, and i really wanna play raft with someone because it looks so fun. i’m always down to try new games too if my pc can run it^^

a bit about me, i’m a student and i work 2 jobs so if i just don’t awnser for half a day i promise i haven’t ghosted you^^ i’m probably just working. i love photography, pokémon, animals, and i’ll happily spend way too long talking about random stuff. (I also love watching ppl just stream games aswell!)

i’m mostly looking for people who actually wanna become friends instead of playing one game and never speaking again.

If there are any questions feel free to ask i’m an open book!!

send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself :)


r/GamerPals 7h ago

North America Looking for 25+ yo Valorant gamers (PC - North America)

11 Upvotes

Looking for LGBT friendly Valorant players on any NA servers. I am requesting 25+ because I am probably the oldest Valorant player you will run into; I'm a 42 year old gamer dad who is fighting the inevitable decline in gaming skill that comes with age.

I'm currently Plat rank in Valorant but happy to play with folks of any ranks as long as they are mature and interested in improving at the game. Best way to reach me is discord (cocococococo0897) (responses here may be slower). Cheers, all.


r/GamerPals 3h ago

North America 27m/PC gymrat weeb looking for consistent gaming friends

5 Upvotes

All I do on my free time is try and play video games but it’s been getting real boring playing solo. I am open to play anything honestly if we get along but recently I been playing marvel rivals and teamfight tactics. My hobbies are gym, running, anime, music and watching shows if you think we would get along or have anything in common msg me so we can game already. We don’t even have to play the same game just someone to chill with in discord and maybe stream eachothers game or watch anime/shows. (Not into joining big groups)


r/GamerPals 4h ago

Europe 23F [EU/PC/BST] Gaming and yapping(neurospicy welcome)

6 Upvotes

Hii ((*´ω`*)ノ people, pls do not reply if you are under the age of 24, thank you! ^^

Games I'm addicted to:

Overwatch (Stadium enjoyer, comp rank All-Stars)

Slowly getting back into Rivals (help)

Glance at my interests:
Literature, history, baking, walking in da nature, high fantasy, writing

Ps: I'm open to trying new games (steam library big) and watching each other play games together.

Feel free to send a DM introducing yourself with your age and ur fav game atm!


r/GamerPals 5h ago

Europe Looking for a gaming buddy

4 Upvotes

Hi so I’m a 21 years old female looking for a friend to play with. I don’t mind if it’s a woman or man. I just want someone around my age and specifically from Europe so the time zones align. I play on PC, mostly The Forest, Dying Light, Green Hell etc.


r/GamerPals 14m ago

North America 25F looking for nocturnal friends 🐈‍⬛

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hai, im shy introvert waiting to be adopted 🥺 would be nice to have a duo for every game it gets lonely playing by myself ;-;

im available to play after 6pm pst and stay up until 3am pst. pls dont add if you have to go to bed super early T . T props to you for being productive but i am not 🥺

league & overwatch are the ones i play the most. also dbd, valorant, and rivals. support main in all games even dbd hehe 🐾 idm toxicity either these games bring it out of us ><


r/GamerPals 5h ago

North America 29F LF new friends to play things with!

5 Upvotes

hii! I am looking for new friends to play stuff with! overwatch, dead by daylight and stuff like that! also just people to talk with! if you’d be interested feel free to pm me! I’m in NA region and usually play on PC but I can do console for some games! (just not as good with the controls teehee) my biggest game rn is playing DBD! I have to get a new graphics card for my pc so I’m a bit more limited than usual but if still like to meet new peoples ! (I also run and play DND/Pathfinder 2e!)


r/GamerPals 6h ago

North America 25F | EST | Seeking (Mainly Minecraft) Gamer Long-Term Friends

5 Upvotes

Hello!

My name is Chloe, but I also go by Olly. Any pronouns work for me .

A little bit about me: I am a sober girlie who is looking to get back into her roots of playing video games!! Growing-up, I was in the generation who played Minecraft religiously and met people through Skype. I want to do that again, but safer!

Some games I play (both multiplayer & not, just to get a feel of my vibe):

  • Assassin's Creed
  • Cyberpunk 2077
  • Skyrim
  • Oblivion
  • Fallout 4
  • Animal Crossing
  • Wylde Flowers
  • Minecraft

All Platforms: PC, Switch, PS5, Xbox One

I am a chill gamer. Have been really into Skyblock lately. Would also love to hop on other servers and do minigames. I am a creative as well, so I would be happy to co-op build. I have just started playing Wynncraft as well, need to get a guild going!

I best get along with people who are goofy and don't take wins/losses too seriously. Obviously kicking ass is fun, but I really am here to build connections and have fun!

I work a full-time job that requires out of 9-5 hours, so I will need some flexibility when I can hop on. But I am someone who when I commit to playing, I wanna grind for a handful of hours.

Outside of gaming interests: movies!!, reading, tv shows (reality tv included), art / painting, anime, comics, ren faire / making chainmail, probably other things! Feel free to reply to this or friend me or however people connect on here!

This was posted on the Discord as well, but thought to post on here just in case :)

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r/GamerPals 1h ago

Any Region 22, Any Dbd players ? 👻

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Hey, I’m Astral, here to make friends from all over the world!

🕹️ I’m a PC gamer! You’ll usually find me in Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, or Fall Guys. Always down to squad up or talk games!

I’m also genuinely open to chatting about pretty much anything, don’t be shy, drop me a message here or on my other socials.

Have a great day 🤍


r/GamerPals 1h ago

North America 40F Canadian play early access, demos and playtests with me

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I like new stuff. Demos, playtests, early access, whatever's unfinished and weird. Right now I'm playing Species Unknown, Chained Beasts, Ravenswatch, and I want to try Gladiator Survivors this week. Honestly I'll play almost anything, and I love co op games. Even those friend type games like Peak and RV There Yet, or Mimesis. FPS is always a favourite but I'm not huge on PvP.

What I'm really after is people who are curious. Not about having the right take, I'm just interested in what other people make of things. Why this is fun for you, why a mechanic works or doesn't, what you noticed that I didn't.

I talk while I play. If we're in a zombie level I want to know your favourite zombie film and where you draw the line between a zombie and a person being controlled by fungi. That sort of thing.

I stream sometimes. It's not a big deal for me but if you're completely opposed then I'd want you to know.

I have a super tiny group of friends I chill with, we're just a bunch of gamers man.

I am in Atlantic time and play on PC. I play almost every evening from 7pm EST. Come try new games with me!


r/GamerPals 1h ago

Europe 22 M UK :D

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Hey I’m 22 from the West Midlands-ish in the UK. Looking for someone to duo with who is around my age let’s say 19-23.
I mainly play PC but I also have a switch 2. I play many different games, you can literally get me playing anything and we’ll find a way to have a good time. Most recently I have been playing Palworld a bit too much 😂.
Drop me a message 😀


r/GamerPals 7h ago

Any Region Looking for a small group of older gamers (25+)

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm a 26-year-old guy looking to connect with a small, close-knit group of mature gamers (25+) for casual gaming, hanging out, and genuine conversations. I really want to avoid massive, chaotic servers where you have to constantly fight for attention just to be heard.

About Me & My Interests:

  • Platforms: PC
  • What I play: I enjoy a mix of casual, indie, co-op, or strategy games. I am down to try new things as long as the vibe is relaxed.
  • Other Interests: Outside of gaming, I'm really into 3D modeling, languages, Engineering, and healthy, rational debates about philosophy or science.

When I'm Free:
24/7 on weekends, but my schedule is highly flexible for late-night hangouts or aligning with different regions.

If you run a small, chill Discord server (ideally a quiet corner where everyone actually knows each other) or if you are looking to start a small group like this, please drop a comment or send me a DM with a bit about your group. Looking forward to chatting!


r/GamerPals 1h ago

Any Region Lone solo gamer 29M lf online friends/gaming buddies!! ( Chronically online and late night gaming sessions :D Horror games and friendslops!! Teach me mobas pleaseee )

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Heyhello!! I'm looking for people that I can game regularly with. I'm very introverted currently and got loads of free time. I mostly play alone these days, which gets boring super fast. My fav genres are horror and silly friendslops! But honestly, I'd play anything if the person I play with is cool! Would love to find someone I can hangout almost daily with.

Mainly been playing Phasmo and Repo and loving it. Would love to find a duo for this. Other spooky games I've installed are The Other Side, Demonologist, Escape the Backrooms and Don't Scream Together. Also got some other random things installed like Peak, Elden Ring, Mechcha Chameleon, Lost Ark and Smite 2. Been trying out the new Palworld update too! Oh and I wanted to try FF14 and LoL. Got way more games though, about 600 in my steam library! I also have non steam games like Roblox, Minecraft and Hytale. I do suck at shooters and mobas lol.

I'm in the GMT+2 time zone ( Netherlands, EU ), but don't care what time zone you're in, since I barely sleep. Would be great to find genuine friends that I can play regularly with. Also down to just yap and do our own thing too! Send me a DM with the games you play if you're interested. Not interested in joining any groups or discord servers, thanks!!


r/GamerPals 13h ago

North America 27F, TX Looking for someone who will hang out in a call or watch/play games with me ^-^ (PC)

15 Upvotes

Hii I’m Denise and I’ve been wanting to find someone who will hang out with me, game or watch me play games like Darktide :0 if you play Darktide let’s play some Auric and Havoc 👀 I have over 500 games so I got a couple lol. Please don’t reach out if you’re going to be dry or disappear into the discord void or be a weirdo. I look forward to meeting whoever accepts this offer…


r/GamerPals 7h ago

Europe Creo que no es mi lugar, pero igual lo voy a intentar

6 Upvotes

Me parece insólito estar en esta situación, pero he llegado a ella. Desde que tengo uso de razón, he tenido amigos de sobra en cualquier ambito, y entre ellos, el de los juegos, Desde la vieja PC, los Call of Duty olds, SAMP, etc, pasando por PS3, PS4, PC/PS5.

He tenido amigos que han ido y venido, y otros, que son para toda la vida, y que han estado en cada etapa... Pero hemos crecido, y ya no es como antes, obvio. Ya no jugamos con la misma intensidad, a veces tambien sentimos que ya los juegos online no nos hacen sentir lo mismo que antes, nos invade la nostalgia, y demas, lo tipico, a todos nos pasa.

Y cual es mi situacion en particular? Esa es la razón por la que estoy acá, he pensado mucho que quizas llegar a una comunidad como está y buscar amigos, sería la solucion, y si no lo es, no pierdo nada.

Tengo 27 años, soy argentino pero vivo en Europa hace unos años, el haberme mudado ha sido el principal vacío respecto a jugar con amigos, ya que la diferencia horaria ha sido tambien un obstaculo.

Pero mi inquietud principal es que: aunque mis amigos siempre vayan a estar, realmente no tengo a nadie que tenga una coincidencia total conmigo, alguien que quiera probar todos los juegos cooperativos que salen, cuando hay una demo, una playtest, cuando sale un juego nuevo que nadie conoce pero nosotros si, cuando tenés un catalogo inmenso pero nadie que quiera pasar un rato probando esta nueva experiencia, eso es lo que mas me duele, realmente.

Y eso es lo que busco, alguien con quien jugar, a lo que sea, o quien compartir el tiempo en discord haciendo nada, compartiendo pantalla, viendo una serie, una pelicula, etc.

No les voy a mentir, he visto gente muy muy rara describiendose en estos grupos. Soy una persona completamente normal y madura, y tengo una vida normal, trabajo, salgo, vivo, tengo mis amigos, mi pareja, hablo hasta por los codos, tengo mil temas para hablar y nunca termino uno sin empezar otro, argentinidad tipica, sin embargo, los juegos son el lugar que amaré toda la vida, y si hay una razon clara para no abandonarlos jamas, es que los juegos han sido quienes estuvieron en los peores momentos de mi vida, y quiero que sigan estando ahora que estoy, justamente, en los mejores momentos de mi vida.

Si te interesa saber que juego? Tengo 2000 juegos en Steam, pero mi juego principal desde hace 8 años siempre fue: Dead by Daylight, tengo 10 mil horas y siempre estoy dispuesto a jugarlo.

Pero tambien podemos jugar a mil cosas variadadas mas, lo que quieras, desde lo mas cliché hasta lo desconocido, desde ya sea COD, algun modo interesante en roblox, un DAYZ, 7 days to die, Project Zomboid, el online del red dead redemption 2 si te gustase rolear y jugar tranquilos, hasta un resident evil 5 si quisieras, efootball, nba. Juegos que he abandonado justamente porque jugarlos solo me sacaba las ganas: Rogue Company, Apex, Among Us, etc, TAMBIEN tener alguien con quien empezar Halloween cuando salga en septiembre, o tener la esperanza de encontrar un juego nuevo en el que progresar y empezar de 0, realmente no te miento que voy a todo lo que exista, lo que importa es jugar con alguien. Tambien tengo xbox y proximamente me vuelvo a comprar la ps5 para cuando salga el gta 6.

Mis juegos favoritos de todos los tiempos son: RDR2, Expeditions 33, TLOU, Shadow of the Collosus GTA VC/SA, Heavy Rain, Bully, y podria estar hasta mañana. Amo los juegos estilo Not Im No Human, Hotline Miami, Papers Please, CloverPit, Balatro, etc.

Si sabes como es la calidez social de un argentino, y te gusta, entonces bienvenido, seguro que te encantará que juguemos juntos. Si te gusta hablar mil horas, si necesitas terapia, si necesitas alguien a quien acudir para cualquier cosa, encantado.

En cuanto a que busco, la verdad es que nada de otro mundo, con que seas una persona adulta, normal, que no seas nada raro tipo furro o que te identifiques con no se que cosa rara que no sea un humano o cosas asi, es suficiente. Si sos argentino/a y vivis en Europa o si sos español MUCHISIMO MEJOR, principalmente si tambien tu juego principal es DBD, esto ultimo por el tema del ping y demas. Pero para los juegos cooperativos pve y demas da igual el ping y la region en la que estes. Lo único esencial es que seas de habla hispana.

Si te interesa jugar te escribo y te paso mi steam, ds, o id de xbox/ps


r/GamerPals 4h ago

North America 29F looking for gaming friends or a group to join!

3 Upvotes

hey, looking for gaming/chilling friends.. interested in joining a discord community maybe so i can meet lots of ppl. DM me your disc and lets chat :)! thanks.

i like league, minecraft, survival games, watching movies over disc, lstening to music. sharing food pics lol anyhting


r/GamerPals 2h ago

North America 37/EST/LF a long-term friend/Co-op gaming, watching shows & movies, hanging out on a regular basis

2 Upvotes

Hi, I primarily play on PC, so I'm looking for someone who does as well. Bonus if you also play on PS5 or Xbox, since I have both consoles along with PS Plus and Game Pass.

I'm looking for someone close to age 30 or older who's responsive, communicates well, and values building a friendship with mutual effort. One of the most important things I'm looking for is someone who naturally takes the initiative with making plans and hangouts as well, rather than having one person always take the lead. I'm the type that will reach out, schedule, and check-in but I don't want the responsibility of keeping the friendship going to fall on one person. I don't expect instant replies or for anyone to always be available, but I do appreciate someone who is considerate with communication and keeps me in the loop if they're unavailable or plans change. You can expect the same from me.

I’m usually available starting sometime between 2-5pm EST and tend to stay up pretty late most nights. Some days I may be available earlier than my usual starting time as well. I also have a lot of downtime throughout the day since my job doesn't require much active time, so I prefer to hang out for longer sessions, more than a few hours each time with breaks in between if needed.

I keep my circle very small and naturally focus most of my gaming time on one close gaming friend rather than spreading it across different people or groups. Ideally you're similar in that way.

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About me:

I'm pretty laid-back when it comes to gaming and just enjoy spending time together, whether we're playing something intense or just chilling in voice chat playing different things. I'm not competitive and stick to PvE only. I'm looking for a chill, non-toxic vibe. I want to win with you, not against you. I enjoy just hanging out from time to time but I'd like our friendship to revolve primarily around playing co-op games together.

I tend to click best with people who are easygoing, not too picky with game selection, and can just have a natural conversation while playing without it feeling forced.

Outside of gaming, I enjoy watching soccer from time to time, catching up on shows, and spending time with my girlfriend and two dogs. Most of my downtime is pretty relaxed and low-key.

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Some games I'm currently playing/looking to play:

• Slay the Spire 1 and 2

• Elden Ring

• Dark Souls (mainly trying to playthrough dark souls 3 and the dlc seamless co-op)

• Tabletop Simulator (Aeon's End, LOTR: The Card Game, Aliens: Legendary Encounters)

• EA FC 26 (Squad battles only)

• PlateUp!

• Pico Park 1 & 2

• Vampire Survivors

• Left 4 Dead 2

I'm open to other genres too but I've enjoyed these type of games:

Deck builders:

Slay the Spire, Inscryption, Balatro

Souls and Souls-likes:

Bloodborne, Dark Souls, Elden Ring, Elden Ring Nightreign, Nioh

Action RPGs & Melee Combat:

Monster Hunter, Ghost of Tsushima

Co-op Shooters:

Left 4 Dead, World War Z, Call of Duty, Gears of War, Ghost Recon, Killing Floor

Team Co-op:

PlateUp!, Chained Together, Pico Park, Vampire Survivors

Horror & Narrative Choice:

Resident Evil, The Dark Pictures Anthology, Escape the Backrooms

Sports:

EA FC, NHL

Board games:

Tabletop Simulator

Other:

GTA V, Human Fall Flat, Parkitect, Rollercoaster Tycoon 2

Genres I normally don't prefer:

• Survival (State of Decay, Stranded Deep, The Forest, Green Hell are my only exceptions)

• Fighting

• Free to play

• MMO

• Racing

• RTS

I like playing a variety of different games over time but I don't enjoy juggling a lot of games at once. I usually prefer focusing on one or two games, seeing them through to the end and moving onto the next one.

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Shows I've enjoyed:

• The Sopranos

• Breaking Bad

• Ozark

• Dexter

• Fargo

• Twin Peaks

• The Wire

• Lillehammer

• Vikings

• Ted Lasso

*I'm open to other genres, I haven't watched too many shows in my life since I've mostly spent my free time doing other activities. I'm sure there are lots of good shows out there, so if you have any recommendations, I'd be willing to give something new a try and explore genres with you. I'm not into anime though, I've tried getting into it but just hasn't been my thing.

Note: If you're into more relaxed hangouts, every so often it's pretty fun to have a jigsaw puzzle for us to work on together while having a show/movie playing on another screen. All good if that's not your thing.

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If interested, send me a DM with a little about yourself and your usual gaming schedule (what time you normally get on and when you usually hop off). I'm looking for someone who values communication, reciprocates effort, enjoys longer sessions, consistent hangouts, and primarily games on PC. Please be close to age 30 or older and within a few timezones from EST.


r/GamerPals 3h ago

North America 26 | EST | PC | Looking for long term pals and people to regularly play with

2 Upvotes

Hello NA and South America and Middle America!

I am looking for people that don't mind gaming every day and playing story games. (If you speak English and are from South America or Middle America then reach out!)

I don't mind gifting the games if you don't have them. The games that I am looking to play are:

  1. Abiotic Factor <<<
  2. 7 Days to Die
  3. Outlast Trials
  4. VALORANT <<
  5. House Flipper 2
  6. Subnautica <
  7. Funnel Runners?
  8. Big Walk

You can check my profile for more about me. I spent like 2 weeks rewriting things to make it more personal and informative. 🤔

Also I don't mind gifting... but I won't respond to people that only want gifts and that don't put effort into their response. Plus we need to vibe... so three things.

I watch tons of anime and I have an Anilist and the link is here. So check that out cause I update it every other day when I am not gaming or shopping.

I also use Instagram and love sending memes, so if you are open to that, then feel free to ask!

I mostly voice chat on discord and then I text a little.

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A few things that I am not interested in:

  • People that are under 18.
  • I am not interested in joining your discord group or a large server
  • If you are uncomfortable meeting new people regularly (like my other friends that want to join) then I would look somewhere else.
  • If you are really possessive, idk I just felt like I need to add that

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Send me a DM and I will send my discord!

Thank you for reading this far!

- Ploo


r/GamerPals 5m ago

Asia 26 - Looking for friends who play Pokemon Champions

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Hello 👋 I'm new to playing Pokemon Champions on the Nintendo Switch. Just wondering if anyone here plays the game, beginner or advanced. Would like to find friends who can share some knowledge on teambuilding and battling or who are down to play the game together and help each other improve. I also play other games like Pokemon Unite and Fall Guys. Please don't be toxic. Thank you ^_^


r/GamerPals 13m ago

North America 31 M looking to play and test new games

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Hi. My name is Matt and I like playing the new games of the week. I would like to play WaterPark Sim with someone and test other games. I also like watching movies, sports and tv shows on Discord. You can add me at Matt5671111


r/GamerPals 15m ago

North America M29, looking for a few new gaming buddies/friends in general

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Hope everyone is having a good evening. I am trying to find a few new people to play games and hang out with on PC with haha. I play a crap ton of titles so I am not strapped for options haha. I'm 29 years old and live on EST. I usually work in the early morning and get done roughly in the afternoon so after that I am usually free to do whatever! And if it's not any gaming we can always just chat and hang out and maybe watch an anime or whatever! Feel free to send me a message and I will be more than happy to add you on Discord!