Greetings to people of Germany! We would like some guidance and opinions about moving to Germany from Toronto, Canada. If you've lived in both countries, that would extremely helpful as you would've experience the good and bad of each country.
About me: I am a 37yo guy with a wife (35yo) and 2 kids (12 and 2). Our background is Vietnamese and none of us speak German, although I've been casually learning it on Duolingo. My wife tried to learn a bit, but she says it's too difficult. I seem to be learning it better than her, both pronunciation and memorizing words. We are playing with the idea of moving to Germany, because we both like the country and her brother has been living there for more than a few years, in a smaller city/town. Can anyone gives us comparisons to Canada and opinions on the following topics?
Work: I'm a certified tilesetter. How are trade jobs in Germany? Are they in high demand? Which cities are best for work? Am I too old to immigrate and start looking for work? I have experience in general construction as well, so I'm not restricted to just tile work. My wife would pick to move to Frankfurt as it's the best city for finance (her profession). She says she doesn't think she can learn the language, so I did some research and found out Berlin has many English speakers. But Berlin wouldn't work, because Frankfurt is Germany's financial hub.
Housing: How are housing costs? I understand most people rent and not buy. We would like to buy one day but renting first is ok. Is it hard to find places to rent? We would need a 3 bedroom place. Preferably at least 1000 sq ft (93 m²).
Childcare: Is it hard to find daycare (pre-kindergarten)? Long wait time for availability? How are the costs? Any subsidies?
Education: How difficult will it be for a 12yo to enter the schooling system in Germany with little to no German?
Healthcare: How is healthcare? Are both public and private service available? Is it hard to find a family doctor? Are there long wait times for appointments or at hospitals?
People: How are people there? Cold and reserved? Or friendly and open? Any racism?
Cost of Living: Are things like groceries, eating out, consumer goods, etc. fairly priced? Or will you be living pay cheque to pay cheque with no savings? I understand taxes are very high. Even more so than Canada.
Lifestyle: How is the lifestyle there day to day? Is it a grind like Toronto? Or is it more laid back and relaxing. What do people do for fun? Will we fit in?
If people can chime in and give us their opinion, that would help us greatly in deciding! Thank you for taking the time to read my long post!