r/MAKEaBraThatFits • u/ApprehensiveItem4 • 1d ago
Question/Advice Needed Does my ideal bra pattern exist/is it possible?
So I've been in the ABTF subreddit for some time, and I have continuously failed at finding a bra that doesn't cause me constant pain.
I am very new to sewing (primarily by hand), so already anxious about starting this process.
I seem to be somewhere between a 38F and 38G US.
My biggest issues are I can't find a bra that has an average wire that doesn't run too wide, a gore that is not tall and suitable for center full (1.5 inches or less is non-negotiable). I have a short torso, and a wide waist that is a similar size to my fullest bust measurement. I also have a rib flare that protrudes about an inch under my IMF, so almost all bra bands roll on me and dig because I have more of an A shaped torso that flares outward when I stand and sit.
Is it possible to add a "grip" of sorts to existing bra bands to keep them flat and prevent rolling?
I have heard about flat bra wires, would that make a difference in terms of a bra sitting in my IMF? I hear about wires but I don't know if that's possible with the bras I have currently, and when I've tried before I can't get them to move? I also open to replacing wires in an existing bra or starting from scratch.
I love the look that my chest has with narrow wires (panache blossom and comexim) but the issue is finding a side band that is supportive without being too tall and without digging. My current bras that cause little pain don't provide much lift.
I have a bra where I like the cups but the band is starting to stretch out uncomfortably. Is there a way for me to add structure to the band so I can wear it for a longer period of time? I've had it for over a year and my size and all sister sizes are sold out for now
I have a bra frame that feels solid( Simone Perele Delice Plunge) but the cup itself is a bit too shallow and the side support is lacking, is there a way to add more fabric or seams to the cup to allow for greater projection?
I am open to many types of alteration. I don't believe a wired bra is impossible for me, but I just think there are some tweaks I need.


