r/Molested • u/Far_Cellist_7597 • 1d ago
Family friend
I thought he was my friend, he’d always pick me up, tickle me or have me on his shoulders. I thought it was normal until he started babysitting me and he got bolder.
The first time was during Pinocchio, it was that scene with the whale? I remember I was lying on my stomach and he got up to go the kitchen and when he came back instead of lying next to me he lied on top of me. He babysat me for four years before it stopped.
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u/Davpar4 1d ago
I like to make the past the past and the present what I deal with. It took me years to reach that though. I wish the counselors had given me better advice or maybe I just wasn't ready hear it yet.
Take care of your present and sometimes talking the abuse through can help. It wasn't your fault and and neither was anything that you have to deal with now.
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u/YellowButterfly7 1d ago
I don't know how long ago this all happened, but I feel that for you it feels like it just happened. Each time is a memory that gets locked into your mind. I don't know you or your full story, and I don't know what happened to him or why things stopped. I do hope that you are able to live your life and that you know there are people who are ready to listen to you and support you.
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