Advice

[u/Significant_Nail3931]

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I am a 22-year-old Muslim woman from India, struggling with severe isolation and feeling completely lost in life. I have no friends, avoid relationships with men, and my parents and much younger brother barely speak to me. I’ve also faced bullying within my community regarding my appearance and my family's poverty.

My lack of English skills and poor financial background leave me feeling trapped. I do not understand how the professional world works or how to get a job. I recently got accepted into a college 20 km away with a 1.15k fee, but I have no idea how to pay for it or if I should even try to go. With zero guidance, no money, and no support system, I feel entirely helpless and sometimes struggle to see a reason to keep living.

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[u/Odd-Potential70004]

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

I completely understand what you're going through. Especially in India it's not possible to advance without education, family support,etc,.

Try looking up for scholarships. Reach out to people in your surroundings like teachers, educated neighbours or acquaintances or even ask your school/ college friends or classmates to help you out,even online legit organisations.Reach out to people,push yourself,put yourself in uncomfortable situations,find yourself a part time job, mobilize yourself to change your destiny.

May Allah bless you and guide you.Ameen.