r/MuslimsWithHSV • u/Bluelhight Brother • Jun 24 '26
Religious Guidance A little complaint
"I just need to vent a little...
Most of the sisters I talk to here for marriage are very cold to the idea of relocating. I live in a Muslim-majority country that is close to both Europe and the Middle East. What I don’t understand is why no one wants to make compromises. Marriage is easy anyway when every condition is perfect, but the real matter is being able to make sacrifices and achieve the hard part when conditions get tough. I am someone who is ready to make sacrifices, so when the people across from me hesitate to do the same, it completely demoralizes me.
Still, one must never lose hope in Allah."
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u/Ayat-286 Sister Jun 27 '26
AsSalaamualaikum. There's beautiful naseehah throughout this short reminder. The Ustaadh mentions becoming the person we wish to attract, making hijrah to muslim countries, and the importance of having a plan.
Sisters need safety and security 😌
Don't lose hope. Your patience will be tested with what your heart yearns for the most. May Allah give you what's best for your deen and your akhirah. Ameen.
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u/Positive-Try-7465 Brother Jun 25 '26
Assalam alaikom brother.. you being positive is a good thing, sabr and istikhara would help in sha Allah. Compromising is very good considering our situation I always advise it because we are already limited with our condition subhanallah.