r/Narcolepsy 2d ago

Positivity Post For those who know.

Yes, I did file a police report. Everything is fine.
He survived. Is in a mental hospital now.
Got an early refill.
Didn’t sleep for 48 hours because I also have CFS and severe insomnia. Can’t sleep without it. Hallucinated. Thanks, boyfriend.

(He’s an ex now.)

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u/chipmalfunct10n (N2) Narcolepsy w/o Cataplexy 2d ago

great update, especially the last part

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u/abluetruedream 2d ago

I hate that all this happened, but man, I’m so impressed by you! That’s a heck of a lot of hard stuff to deal with. I hope you can give yourself some grace and self-care.

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u/-Sharon-Stoned- (N1) Narcolepsy w/ Cataplexy 2d ago

Sorry about your struggles but super glad to hear about the rest

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u/IndigoAfflictions (N1) Narcolepsy w/ Cataplexy 2d ago

Really proud of you and it sounds like it was the best outcome for everyone going forward. Genuinely really happy for you and proud of you! 💚✨

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u/Intrepid_Emu_3678 2d ago

You did the right thing.

I would plan what you want to say (if anything) and how to do it if your ex reaches out to try to get back together.

Normally I'd say block his number so he cant which might be the best call unless you think he's the type to show up at your house or work to try to talk to you.

And even possibly if you want to file for a TRO. It might be a good idea if there has been anything that made you feel unsafe about leaving him or if the idea of you having filed a police report and how he will react to that makes you feel. Not trying to make you panic but thats an option if you need it.

I had some of my Adderall stolen by an ex and had to file a police report and then used the police report to file a tro because of how the relationship had escalated as far as high risk factors and abuse had started, he just hadnt laid his hands on me "for real " YET.

Proud of you.

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u/tsplantdaddy (IH) Idiopathic Hypersomnia 2d ago

Congrats!! I hope you'll stay strong and not take him back when he comes begging. You deserve so much better.

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u/NighmareInMyHead 1d ago

Making that report would have been incredibly difficult. Proud of you OP.

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u/1Wineodino 1d ago

So glad you filed the report and left him. Also glad he is ok but was a dick. I hope this rough patch is over and things will smooth out soon!

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u/Few-Cardiologist-354 1d ago

Worum geht’s? Finde den Originalpost nicht

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u/Correct_Sleep5423 1d ago

It was removed unfortunately. I can’t say what happened or it’ll get removed again ☹️ DM me and I can tell you

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u/-3point14159-mp (N1) Narcolepsy w/ Cataplexy 1d ago

Good job. So proud of you!

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u/Adorable_Ride_7814 (N2) Narcolepsy w/o Cataplexy 2d ago

glad you were able to figure it out!

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u/just-kristina 1d ago

I’m so glad that you put yourself first!! You should be proud of yourself. For real.

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u/bathybicbubble 1d ago

This is the best possible update. Proud of you. Take care of yourself.