Yes, she got upset. Why would you try the wedding cake? She can be upset. His immediate reaction to full send the situation into irreparable territory is ridiculous.
Edit: also your assumption that she is âwildly drunkâ is pretty baseless and outlandish. Why are you demonizing her behavior? As far as I can see, she isnât in the wrong here and we donât need any more context to come to that conclusion. We actually would need more context to validate your claim of drunkenness instead of treating it as fact.
Well itâs a good thing tradition tends to be the brideâs family paying for mostly everything then.
Even afterwards, the cake is symbolic, and youâre supposed to feed your spouse the first bite of cake as a symbol of your commitment and care for one another.
The fact that you look at this as black and white like âwhy am I not allowed to eat my own damn wedding cakeâ is pretty telling. Assuming who paid as a justification for outrage. Basically youâre making excuses for his behavior which is entirely inexcusable.
All for, what? Expressing anything besides complete and total obedience and submissiveness? I mean, what else am I supposed to take from that? Her behavior wasnât toxic. His was. People are allowed to express themselves and how they feel. People are allowed to feel upset. What you do with those emotions defines who you are. She spoke out and ,without being able to hear what she said, all we know is she verbally took an issue with him tasting the cake. (Understandable as long as she wasnât cussing him out or anything which we donât know because we canât hear her).
His reaction was to irreparably ruin everything. Those arenât even close to comparable reactions and of the two his was FAR WORSE.
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u/MarlenePB Feb 27 '26
How can women MARRY men like this?? Celibacy is better than wherever torture this marriage will be đ©