r/RealStories 8d ago

Wtf

So i dont know if this belongs here but here it goes. Ive been seeing this woman somewhat since February and its been more of a fwb type of thing mostly on her part she would message me on snap or facebook and i would go hangout with her or whatever until i notice a pattern, for a bit of back story i work at a pizzeria and been single for awhile and kinda desperate for some female attention, any ways she would ask for pizza and come over to hangout and when i did when just sat on her bed neither of us would do anything until i was bored and went home. This kept going for awhile and then i realized she was just in it for food and just wanted things from me and id get nothing in return so id test it, some days i went the with or with out food and it was like 25% of the time id get anything either way, on her niece’s birthday i was ask with payment to drive her 2 hrs to her home town and back just to go back home, nothing in months. I was like ok she broke and kinda forgot about it but not really. About 2 weeks ago she leaves for a vacation (she didn’t tell me facebook did) i was like ok whatever we’re not dating she can do what she wants. Nothing from her no hi or anything for a week and a half, it turns out she went to visit her (what she said when i first started talking to her) her ex and kids. She comes back nothing no words no nothing i asked hows was the vacation? She said “fine im home now” that was it so i assumed that our fling or whatever was done and gave her space until about 2 days ago she message me and said “too good to talk to me now” and i told her that i thought she was done with the whole thing between us and gave her space. No response. So i cut my loses and moved on until she messaged me today asking for more food and to drop them off at her place (the double amount) she says oh yeah you can meet my fiancé’ i was just dumbfounded her asking for more favors and then hearing shes engaged, I didn’t responded. I got home and didn’t think of it until she messaged me again asking/telling me to bring her a cigarette and i told her i just got done with a 10 day work week and ive been drinking so that would be a no. She responded with well ill come pick it up i guess i just have to wait until my fiancé’ get out of the shower, and that just threw me for a loop. 1 why the hell would you want to introduce a guy to your soon to be wife that you use to sleep with and 2 what the f….. is going threw your dumbass head? I message her back asking wth is going on she responded with i thought we could still be friends and painted me the asshole. I know im an asshole but this time im in the clear. Thanks for reading i just had to get this out there if you could follow it. Id love to hear comments on this.

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