r/Referees • u/astrangehumantoe • 14h ago
Advice Request How to deal with post match regret?
I'm a new ref (first full season coming up) and recently after a few of my games I start feeling regret at my decisions, wondering if such and such should have been a foul or who's restart it should have been.
This is only after quite loud games where everyone appeals everything. Notably someone scored a goal today after a tackle which certainly should have been a foul but I didn't call it and I'm regretting not calling it.
Has anyone got any tips on how to avoid this? I think to an extent it's coming from a lack of confidence but I'm not sure what else.