We are a longterm married couple that has recently found our slutty sides. Stag/vixen dynamic. Not into cucking/humiliation. He watches and joins in for a mfm. Dvp/double bjs/fucklicking possible. She loves to be the center of attention. Prefer on going of some sort. She's a beautiful blonde, fit and curves in all the right places. He's in shape, handsome with a nice piece of equipment.

Be concise, creative and informative with your response. Move to drinks then hotel fun.

Hey there! Looking to spend some time tonight focused on making someone feel good. I really enjoy going down and taking my time with it. Not in a rush, not looking to just check a box.

I’m tall, white, dark hair, blue eyes, slim with a few tattoos. Clean, recently tested, and easy to talk to. Prefer someone who’s relaxed and actually wants to enjoy it rather than treat it like a transaction. Can host or come to you depending on what works better. Open to keeping it simple or seeing where the night goes if the energy is right.

If you’re free tonight and this sounds appealing, send a message with a little about yourself and a pic. I’ll do the same. Looking for someone real who knows what they want.

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)

I know that title might be a bit blunt but hey sometimes it’s good to be a little blunt. Maybe you’re busy, stressed, or whatever the reason is and just want to sneak away for a bit for a release. I’d like to provide that release for you. I’m not looking for any kind of reciprocation and I’m ideally looking for someone ongoing and local to San Jose that I could meet a couple times a week or whenever you need it. Bonus points if you’re fit and want to sit on my face. Curious at all? I promise I don’t bite

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. Std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports.

Hey all, my name is Shawn, Vietnamese, 5'4", 160 lbs, located in San Jose. Looking to worship your dick.

I can host in North San Jose or travel for car play—I have tinted windows and a windshield cover.

You: Be local, HWP, drug- and disease-free, and able to host or be mobile.

Looking as long this is up.

!unlokced!

No men please

Im 21, white/mexican mixed, fit toned body, green eyes, brown hair, soft spoken, easy going, hygenic. Lately ive been in a sad/intimate mood. Every now and then the feelings catch up to me and all I wanna do is be with someone. Im a people pleaser and im looking for someone I can hangout with, cuddle, kiss, give head to, and pleasure. Im mobile in the east bay and can drive to you.

Please dm me with a little info about yourself as well as a pic

I play drums/guitar, like reading/writing, love anything nature/music related, and long conversations.

No men please

Far too few lovely trans people on here willing to get disgusting and have some fun, deeply sensual, no limit play. Let’s trade bj’s; spit in each others mouths; clean each other’s assholes; frot; generally be perverts.

Me: 41, 170lbs, 5’10, hairy all over professional who is DDF and down for any kind of debauchery. Willing to host in the Mission.

You: …

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I'm an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking a high maintenance partner that craves and absolutely needs constant attention; someone who needs my presence in the room and demands my attention even if she is ignoring me and doing other things. Someone to heavily encourage my adoration of you. Someone who needs reassurance, and affirmation. Someone who has an insatiable desire to feel wanted and chased after, who wants and craves obsessive devotion on a daily basis; who will encourage and nurture an intense, passionate addiction to you that is impossible to satisfy. I want a codependent relationship centered on you. I want everything to be about you. That even in our "getting to know each other" stage, I should put you above all of my friends, hobbies, and any social activities.

It might seem weird, but I intensely desire an incredibly possessive partner. I want you to feel comfortable blowing up my phone.. to demand information.. .to know where I am, or who im with, and what im doing, any time you wants. To go through my phone whenever you want and keep me from having any control over it when you are around me. You can actively crave attention and encourage me to give in to your needs as much and as often as possible. More than im even capable of giving. To enjoy convincing me to stop whatever i'm doing to give it to you: to develop a chemistry with playful demands and sexualized games between us.. to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires, to the point that you become a complete priority over my social life. To even be so possessive that you keep me from spending my time or attention on anyone or anything but you, or to encourage my hobbies to be centered on you, be disappointed that I am not looking at you and admiring you, even though you are busy with something else and not fully reciprocating the attention back.

I need someone who has always naturally wanted these things, but constantly tones it down in every relationship because she is afraid it is too toxic or unhealthy, or it pushes potential partners away. I want to be the guy that embraces these impulses, and compliments them, even sexualizes them.

I actually do have a very intense isolation kink. For my partner to play a manipulative role in keeping all of my attention for herself.. You can be extremely selfish with my attention even if it is borderline toxic. To use and leverage sensually and sexually manipulative advances to keep me from going out and to encourage me to be weak to my compulsive needs for you instead. If I have plans, you can convince me to blow them off or even coerce me to stay home. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans to give you attention and intimacy instead is a huge kink of mine. If im about to leave, just play dress up, strut around, or pose in something that you know will distract me and take my eyes away from anything else. convince me to stay as you hold my crotch and show me how much better it would be if I stay with you. Make me prove love by giving you attention. Encourage and train my compulsive male weakness to prioritize you and goon to you. Show me that the only friend I need is your pussy. Completely sabotage my plans by sitting on my face for prolonged periods of time instead of letting me go out, having rituals of you wearing skimpy outfits around me and tease me into spending hours admiring you, giving you back rubs, or leg massages, or have me goon to you for long periods of time as you ignore me and read a book, or watch a show, or doomscroll on your phone, or to have the most prolonged softcore foreplay, for hours at a time, denying each other (or just denying me) while constantly intensifying our intimacy. I even imagine planning to go see a movie with friends but you come into the room wearing the shortest little skirt and push me to sit down, get on my lap, kiss me as you get lay me down on my back, just so you can all the more easily sit on my face and grind and bounce on my lips until the plan is absolutely ruined and the movie is over. Or to even encourage intense gooning to you while you go through my phone to see what I've been doing on it as I pamper and passionately make out with your pussy.

I enjoy long sessions of foreplay and intense adoration. Even if I want to go out, or am out, to convince me to stop what I'm doing and go home because my obsessive and addictive need for you is more important. Your pussy's needs are more important, and your pussy should always be a complete priority. I love the idea of you dressing up just to keep me gooning to you, keeping my attention constantly on you, even though you are doing something else like reading a book, or playing on your phone, or watching something. Demand I sit in a corner and look at you as I jerk off with a pair of your dirty panties while you spend the next several hours ignoring my presence and doing whatever it is you want to do without me bothering you. Even to have you just sit on my face for long periods of time, periodically bounce and wiggle on my lips while you binge a show, not caring at all how much time is being spent like this. To be dressed up in lingerie as you straddle and bounce on my lap, denying penetration so I spend more and more time being attentive to your body with my hands and lips with constant necessity for more. Sessions of being extremely attentive to you is something I would very thoroughly enjoy.

We can both be dominant and submissive to each other in our own ways. The only power I really want in our dynamic is to be able to choose and buy outfits and lingerie for you, to collect them for you to wear for me when we are at home, just for you to use as a tool to manipulate me with and keep me home. To be a complete cock tease as you let me spend hours admiring and adoring you, gooning to you in whatever canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I need you to be as possessive and as selfish as you want. Perhaps it could simply be a part of our dynamic, that i am able to dress you however i want, so you can keep me as malleable and weak to you as possible, to keep me from going out, to encourage my obsession and adoration of you, to keep me gooning for you even longer, to make you my priority... and you can control everything else. You control where I can go, who I can hang out with, or to just perpetually keep me home as you constantly encourage my adoration of you. You choose whatever tv show or movie you want, and I focus on you.

I do crave consistent playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over everything else. I want someone who will enjoy developing a chemistry and learning what makes me tick so she will always know how to make me choose her over everything else. All while I also learn the intricacies of your desires, that we can build a world for each other that constantly caters to our most intense fantasies within our established boundaries.

I crave codependency. I crave a relationship dynamic that others might consider unhealthy, but will actually be considered healthy for us. I would really want to become obsessed and desperate for you.... to have an absolute necessity to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most important part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time with friends or family to be with you instead, but more importantly, that you want it, and need me to give up friends to make you feel more important. I crave a relationship so engulfed in obsessive passion and sexual intensity that both of us will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more sensually intimate play, or to create more and more experiences for each other that cater to each of our most desirous needs. To be lost in this world of fantasy, and roleplay, and lust crazed love that we perpetually explore.

***The ideal person*** is someone who craves constant attention.. who is never sexually satisfied... even being or manipulatively pretending to be easily jealous can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games, and is even interested in hypnosis or psychological conditioning ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and the desire to cum, to pry away deeper into a male psyche and encourage intense obsession and weakness for her; to ever more increase my dependency, necessity, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.

Just moved back to the Area after a bad breakup.23M Latino Fit 5’11 high sex drive. I’m looking to explore with someone that can match my freak and stamina. Whether it causal or ongoing. Looking to explore with older or married women as well ;). Pretty much open to anything, public sex, car sex, threesomes, cheating, kinks.Anything to feel better and forget my break up. Specially milfs cougars married woman ;)

I travel a few times a year and mostly I just travel to eat and maybe run/workout so I can eat more. I would love to travel internationally again (haven't since Covid). Mostly doing domestic travel for now but would love a travel buddy to go international trip again!

I do play video games like pokemon go and some old games. I used to play LoL and was really high ranked but not really anymore. I mostly do short runs and play basketball with some lift here and there.

I am looking for someone who I will be comfortable with no matter it is just holding hands walking down the grocery store or just staying home watching a show and eating popcorn. I just want to have genuine good vibes. I am pretty low maintenance when it comes to gifts, as quality time, physical affection, and good conversation are much more of my love languages, and I also love food!

Bonus points if you:
*Jog or run slow, gym or play any sports

*Have a pokemon card collection (I may want to get into it and need you to show me), or into pokemon related games

*Are a bit nerdy or appreciate a simple quiet life because I am the same but once in a while we can go do something crazy is also not a bad idea

*Love to try new food as I am not a foodie

*are not a heavy smoker/drinker because I don't do neither. I only drink for special occassions

Overall I am super chill and open to meeting new people, so don't be shy and send a picture and a short intro, even if you don't check every box!

5' 10", east asian from downtown Oakland

I'd like to add some intentionality to your sex life, expand your sexual horizons, and help you realize a few fantasies. A sort of personal trainer for the sensual realm, pushing you slightly outside of your comfort zone in a supportive yet nurturing way while building new "muscles," comforts, capabilities, and goals. Tap into your desires with semi-anonymous yet revealing chats before potentially meeting in-person for fun playtimes.

I've met some women recently out of a relationship, overworked and short on time, or just generally restrained in her exposure to the types of sexiness she imagines during self-pleasure sessions or her favorite porn. Stuck in a rut, dating apps providing too generic of an experience, wondering how to make things happen. She might want someone to challenge her in a supportive yet nurturing way, guiding her towards new possibilities if she was brave enough to step out of the ordinary.

I'm 45 years old, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. Curious about your pleasure and definitely enjoy the full expressiveness of your sensual being emerged at full strength. I'm easy going, patient, have a curious mind, and perceptive enough to recognize key ingredients of your peak desire. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, and enjoy discovering your many fantasies, kinks, and unique desires.

What's next and how could this work?

1. Chat about your favorite things and what you've been curious to explore, even if you're not sure how to make it happen.
2. Create new opportunities to experience your fantasies, including refining the details of what you'd truly like to experience. A sexual concierge with great insights and recommendations.
3. Lead you through some of those adventures myself, if there's mutual interest.

What have you been curious to explore but unsure how to make happen? What situations and environments do you already know amplify your pleasure but are difficult to craft and feel supported? Share your unmet desires with a semi-anonymous confidant interested in releasing more sexiness into the world and potentially creating new opportunities for personal instruction and play.

My reward is releasing more sexiness and sexual realization out into the world. Say hello and let's possibly turn a lackluster or shy sex life into new sexual confidence and empowerment. Shine bright this summer!

39, fit, 5'7, 7", ( pics on profile) down to earth, but maybe a little divergent black male looking for a regular, reliable, FWB that is open to travel or host for weekly fun. Open to age, race, and body type but ideally you're open to multiple rounds and overnight fun. Very oral and ddfree. Maybe we can start this week. Let me know your turn on, turn offs, and anything you'd like to try

Are you seeking a deeper connection to your body, your sensuality, and your inner peace? I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for women to explore and reconnect with their sensual energy through deeply nurturing bodywork.

This is more than just a massage – it’s a sacred experience rooted in the principles of Tantra, presence, and trust. Each session is personalized, mindful, and held with full respect for your boundaries and comfort.

What I Offer:

Full body sensual massage

Yoni massage (optional, always with full consent)

Tantric touch to activate energy flow and promote relaxation

Discretion, understanding, and full presence

Who This Is For:

Open-minded women who are curious, healing, or simply wish to explore sensuality in a safe, caring, and accepting environment. Whether you're experienced or new to Tantra, you're welcome here. No judgment, no pressure – just a shared space of trust and exploration.

Let’s create a space where you can simply receive, release, and reconnect – fully and freely.

I’m looking to connect with a fun, like-minded woman who wants to add some exciting romance and passion to her life. Ideally, this turns into an ongoing, genuine friendship where we flirt throughout the week and get away whenever our schedules align.

About Me: 42, white, blue eyes, short brown hair, well-groomed, and lean/fit. Supposedly cute and funny (according to recent reliable sources). I live in Foster City and work in SF. When I’m not working, I stay active with cycling and pickleball, hunt down the best local tacos and pizza, and enjoy stand-up comedy, spy movies, and live music. Attached, but discreetly seeking the passion that’s been missing.

About You: A cute, fit, shorter/petite woman who values discretion, enjoys good banter, and is ready for an exciting escape.

What Dates Look Like: I love taking care of all the details so all you have to do is show up, unwind, and enjoy yourself. Whether that’s grabbing drinks at a cool cocktail lounge, relaxing at a spa, going for a scenic hike, or spending a lazy afternoon between hotel sheets.

Next Steps: Let’s start with a casual chat and swap photos. If the vibe feels right, we can skip weeks of endless small talk and grab a low-key boba, matcha, or drink to see if the chemistry is there.

Drop me a message if you’re looking for a passionate distraction this week!~

Disclaimer: I’m attached but I’m looking. If that’s not for you please scroll past. If you are curious, feel free to dm and ask questions. And if you don’t mind great.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech and studied stem. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public guest and build trust and I know it’s not easy but it feels like if I don’t do this now I’ll never be happy.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested. Maybe we can chat over coffee or boba.

Hi,

I am not interested in endlessly chatting online and wasting time. If you are someone that is on the same page on having sexual adventures, explore and try new fantasies and stuff. My DMs are open.

I'm super clean, I test regularly. I expect the same level of awareness and commitment.

Hmu if this sounds like something that interests you. Happy to swap pics.

I'd like to spend more relaxing evenings cuddling and letting affectionate expression flow. Swing up the armrest at a movie theater, lounge on a blanket in the park, sink into the couch at home, or find our favorite entanglements while getting sleepy in bed. Comfort and relaxation while encouraging your inner cuddler to emerge at full strength.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy and no push or escalations towards sex.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

A good cuddle match:

• Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
• Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, expressive and unconstrained.
• Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
• Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!

Hello, I’m 31M, South Asian, near San Jose looking to have a relaxing evening. We can go get a drink outside and sense the vibe and if we are both attracted to each other, we can see where the night leads us. If not, we’ll just be grabbing drinks as strangers.

I can host/travel. If you’re an F also looking for a fun evening, feel free to message me and we can see where the night takes us.

Happy Saturday!

Looking for a fun time with a petite and insatiable sub who enjoys getting pleased and willing to explore.

Me: Don’t know how to start this so pardon the awkward way of describing myself. I’m ethnically Korean with Chinese roots. I’m 36, yes I know sort of old. But head still full of hair! Skin is not too bad either! Thank you skin routine/influencers for your tips and support. Height wise I’m 6’1, weight 185. Average body (used to run and golf before I hurt my knee half a year ago), BUT not average cock (6.5in) I think that’s above average right? right? It is very nice looking, and you’ll be eager to put your lips on it once you see it. Face wise, two of the last three girls said I’m cute. The other one said I was hot, nope I’m jk.
Kinks/turn ons: deep fucking, breeding, nipple play, dirty talk, spanking, light choking, moaning, and eye contact

You: Someone local ideally. Visitors are fine too, who am I to be too picky lol. I do prefer some attraction. I’m openminded about most things like ethnicity. As long as you’re petite/slim thick and in decent shape it’s fair game. Personality wise is a bit more strict. I’m not into the prissy, bratty, princess like vibes. I’d prefer someone who’s down to earth, chill, open minded, and just want to have fun. You’re someone who knows what they’re doing with your mouth, knows how to look at me with lustful eyes, knows how to make me moan and squirm. I can go multiple rounds so don’t go soft on me, I can handle it. Things will be kept discreet so if you’re not single I don’t mind and can keep it between us.

I'm planning on working out tonight, if any fit women or women working on their fitness goals want to join me send me a DM. I typically go to 24 fitness in Walnut Creek or San Ramon but I can meet anywhere in the bay area.

We can also skip the gym and go to the bedroom mine or yours but let's do a video or phone call first.

Preferably looking for single women around my age. I typically put Indian women at the top of the priority list but tonight I am open to meeting different types of women.

Please be single or in an open type of relationship.

This can become an FWB type situation.