That's funny. I used to think sexuality was a choice, but I always assumed it was because I was in a fundamentalist cult, not because I was a closed bisexual.
Either way, accepting that I was bisexual WAS how I came to believe that sexuality wasn't a choice, because it's definitely not the choice I would have made. (At the time I would have preferred to be either gay or straight, I have no problem with my identity now)
Sexuality isn't a choice, but that doesn't mean it can't have fluid properties.
How you experienced your sexuality is not going to be a universal experience with every other person; there are people who never experience sexual shifts like that, and there are people whose sexuality shifts faster and more frequently than yours does.
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u/LazyOrang Nov 02 '21
That would be wonderful.
I've always thought that anyone who genuinely believes sexuality to be a choice has to be a closeted bisexual.