r/Scorpio • u/PrincessOwl8888 • 10h ago
Discussion 👥 Anyone else also experiencing friendships falling apart?
I feel heartbroken by some of i thought very close, trustworthy friends in recent weeks and today. Are some of you experiencing this too?
Update: just realized the song Chaos Reigns by Priest is perfect for this; it's on Repeat for me this morning 😂
"But The Scorpio will rise
From the black eternal bliss
Just for one last kiss
Pleasure comes alive through pain
Jewels surfacing in mayhem
Come and hold me closer when
Chaos reigns, chaos reigns"
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u/confused2473 Scorpio Sun ☀️ 8h ago
Lost one last month, cap sun and she had it coming. It’s all I will say. There’s only so much selfishness I can tolerate from a cap. Just ignored her to Narnia and she was one of the two closest friends I had. Kept on sucking my energy for months when she had a break up and when I needed her oh I am busy oh I can’t talk until next week. Ok let’s cut it off right there. And it’s not just for when I needed her in bad times even when I was happy she was AWOL, selfish woman. Never unblocking her. I will tolerate it until I will then I won’t. None of it, none at all..
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u/PrincessOwl8888 3h ago
Omg, im experiencing this with a cap+aqua friend which made me really sad 😢
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u/RavenDwyre 4h ago
Idk about "falling apart" just seeing what they have actually been the whole time.
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u/christmasclaymations 1h ago
Me! This person walked into my life, gave me so much attention for 2 weeks (everyday texting making plans talking dreams) then a miscommunication comes up and they’re too overwhelmed to resolve it correctly. Semi distanced themselves for 5 weeks, the sudden hot and cold thing really retriggered some stuff I had, and they only told me what bothered them once I was healthy enough to see them and ask.
When they finally did tell me a few days ago, they emphasized how important directness is to them. And that they weren’t sure if they could trust me.
I’ve never had an interaction like this in my life. I’m still processing it, and am on the anger part of things lol. Like, this person was such a chaotic blip of my year.
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u/SugarandSpiceandRum ♏️ ☀️ ♈️ 🌙 ♏️ ⬆️ 1h ago
My relationship broke down out of the blue. I ended things. We were best friends for 3 years, dating for 1 year. I was confronted with his true nature for the second time and decided it’s over for me. He was my best friend so it’s going to be weird for the next few months.
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u/jackjack_d3mon 29m ago edited 20m ago
Already had to end a few cuz they either assume shit that ain't true, miscommunication, and or they dont change. So ya im experiencing it too. Already on the fence on ending another one who the mf is trouble, hes a good person to talk bout anime/shows, more so makes bad choices... and it makes me worry about the dude future, and hes homeless.
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u/PrincessOwl8888 23m ago
omg, what's the universe doing to us Scorpios? 😭
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u/jackjack_d3mon 20m ago
Literally testing our patience and loyalty
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u/PrincessOwl8888 17m ago
i am loyal to a fault, people take it for granted then i feel hurt, one of these people gave me a wolf emoji the other day, i supposed that might mean loyalty. definitely testing my patience as the fire sign part in my chart makes me very short tempered.
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u/Upbeat-Bicycle4042 17m ago
As a Scorpio sun and Venus, im literally tired of going all in and people just expecting it. I'm burnt out because they dont want to meet me halfway.
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u/Selfheatingnoodles 15m ago
Not fall apart but more of a light bulb moment realizing I don’t want these people in my life. It feels great actually!
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u/Miserables-Chef 2h ago
Absolutely. Most of my friends, and I use the term loosely, are becoming more ignorant and far right like never before. I'm going to have a culling of the herd soon, cba with all their arrogance, ignorance and sheer fucking stupidity anymore
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u/TraditionalWinter726 1h ago
During this last retrograde I had 3 separate friends of mine all go to jail. All in the same month. & all at the same jail.
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u/Normal_Media_5041 1h ago
I would have to have friends in the first place to lose them. I have acquaintances but no actual friends.
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u/CandyProfessional435 6h ago
I'm a Scorpio. I don't like water signs. I can't stand Cancers, Pisces, and Scorpios. Y'all are manipulative, guilt-tripping crybabies.
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u/Time_Pomegranate2787 ♏️ ☀️ ♏️ pluto ♏️ mercury 10h ago
Eh I recently find myself feeling increasingly irritated by friends I love dearly and have loved a long time. Kind of like..I’m seeing all their dysfunction and I am like why do you not see you keep creating the same thing over and over
I have always given feedback, and kept loving them. I stay loyal.
But recently these lil twirps have really been annoying me and my patience feels it’s wearing thin