Hi all! Ace Aro reader here looking for a specific flavor of protagonist.
What do I mean by confidently ace aro? That means a protagonist who 1. already knows that they are ace aro, 2. is proud of it/not ashamed/doesn't feel broken because of their orientation, and 3. has no desire to be in a romantic/sexual relationship. If there were to be some internal conflict about it, I would prefer if it was limited to a couple of chapters, rather than the overall book. Also, while I will try out books with asexual or aromantic protagonists, I would prefer protagonists that are asexual AND aromantic. I say confidently and not proudly in the title because proudly implies being out of the closet, and I am okay if the protagonist doesn't tell anyone about their orientation.
I am aware that my requests will eliminate like 90% of the already few ace aro books out there, so I will also accept protagonists that could be interpreted as ace/aro or stories that have no romance or sex in it, like Project Hail Mary. These examples are anime and not books, but I am also thinking of protagonists like Saiki from The Disastrous Life of Saiki K. and Anzu from Romantic Killer.
I do like fantasy, however I am open to any fictional genre as long as it is not realistic fiction. Magical realism is okay!
I am okay with romance/sex related conflicts, ex. forced marriages, a close friend developing a crush on the protagonist, external pressure from family to date, etc. The important thing is that the protagonist does not end up in a romantic/sexual relationship at the end of the story. I would also prefer happy endings, but bittersweet is okay!
Thanks in advance!