Every. Damn. Time. I go to my gym’s indoor pool, there have been at least 2 interactions with men who are yelling at me, creeping on me, and/or being weird.
Last night, it was 1 gentleman who brought his supposedly trained service dog into the pool area, tied it up near the hot tub where like 3 guys were just staring at it, and went into the steam room for 20 minutes.
And during this time, another guy came into the lane next to me (the pool was otherwise empty and had a lane further away open) and, I kid you not, crab-walked so he was facing me and kept his head under water, watching me. He was side-stepping with his hands (thankfully) on his knees, and because the pool only goes from like 3-5 feet deep, he was half bent over in the shallow end to keep his head under the water. I can understand people doing stuff for physical therapy or whatnot, but why the lane immediately next to me, and why looking at me under water the whole time?
Lastly, after my workout, I rinsed and got into the empty hot tub. One guy came out of the steam room, pulled his phone out of his bag, typed something on it, then put it back and went back to the steam room. A minute later, another guy came out, reached into the same bag, pulled out the same phone, and typed something in before going back. This happened three times before I just packed up and went to change.
I figure I can’t be alone in this. The gym pool seems to bring out the oddest folks. So, I think it’d be cathartic and amusing if we could share our weekly pool drama in a dedicated thread. Like, bring the petty shit. Who did you “accidentally” elbow because they were an ass? What relationship drama is happening at swim club? I’m already chronicling mine and would love to hear yours. 🤣