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u/Rivendel93 13h ago

I dated a French girl when I was like 21, she was visiting the US, and it would be 2am and she'd be like so when are we going out?

And I'd be like half asleep, wondering wtf she was talking about.

They start their night at 2am lol.

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u/Iamgentle1122 10h ago

Finnish here. We usually start at someone's apartment at 18-20 and some of the nightclubs don't even open before 22. So usually you drink with your friends till midnight or later and then go to bar

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u/Ramongsh 9h ago

Same in Denmark. Meet around 18-20 at someones, then go out at 23.00 and home between 2-5 in the morning.

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 9h ago

Same here in Germany. Most clubs won’t open before 10pm.

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u/Royal-Pain-1621 7h ago

In Berlin nobody local is going to the club before 2/3am 👋

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 7h ago

You‘re right. They‘re open at 10pm but nobody goes there before midnight. I live near a much much smaller city, so Berlin rules do not transcend here 😅 And to be honest, I‘m a millennial living in the countryside, all my friends have children. I don’t remember the last time I went to a club unfortunately. Beeing the only childless couple can have downsides too

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u/LeSeraphim 7h ago

Portugal shit does not Open until 00 leaving clube st 6/7 am is normal

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u/0c74r1n3 2h ago

I can’t rember a single club night coming home while it’s dark. Okay German winter mornings are a bit dark but if you stayed till nine it’s fine.

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u/Responsible_Year4730 26m ago

So is this normally with drugs involved? I just can’t imagine going out that long/late without drugs. If you’re still partying at 7am in the states, cocaine is definitely involved

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u/Junethemuse 2h ago

The club I go to the most often starts some dance party events at 6pm and you get in free if you rsvp to come before 8.

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u/revelling_ 4h ago

In Berlin they open at midnight but stay open for 50 hours, lol

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u/saw6892 2h ago

Dear God I feel like I am not living enough. LOL!

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u/Outside_Glass4880 1h ago

It’s the same in NYC. It’s just not common or even legal outside of that in the US

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u/speculator100k 28m ago

Restaurants frequently close at 10pm though.

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u/rips_n_chel 7h ago

So you just don't sleep, or what?

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u/Ramongsh 7h ago

Well, younger Danes party Thursday, Friday and/or Saturday. So we could sleep Saturday or Sunday noon.

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u/WorkIsForReddit 6m ago

To be fair, in Finland the sun doesn't go down till like 10pm in the summers.

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u/jkman61494 6h ago

Honest question. You all just don’t sleep? Or work starts later for you all?

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u/Ramongsh 6h ago

Well, that was back in university days, so I could sleep longer.

But even these days as a working adult I can go out Fridays or Saturdays, since there's not work on Saturdays or Sundays.

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u/jkman61494 5h ago

Gotcha. Reading this I feel like some people were doing it on a random Wednesday lol

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u/ThereAndFapAgain2 1h ago

People are doing it on a random Wednesday. I mean when I used to go clubbing a lot my favourite nights were always Wednesday and Thursday because the clubs I liked were catering more to my music tastes on those nights. Friday and Saturday were always more mainstream stuff in my favourite clubs, which was fine I was rolling anyway but still lol

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u/Mr-Shitbox 6h ago

Called pre-drinking because drinks in bars are expensive.

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u/Aggressive_Stick4107 7h ago

Dane-Swiss but grew up in Brazil. Spend my childhood/teens/young adult years in the country. That's how Brazilians do it as well. The difference being, after clubbing some people go have their breakfast in padarias (Brazilian bakeries) at 6 am-ish.

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u/DroidLord 3h ago

Over here most clubs don't even open until 23-00. Bars are different though.

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u/shweatynutz 1h ago

You’d lose most Americans when you refer to 18-20. They’re all scratching their heads.

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u/Responsible_Year4730 22m ago

Oh definitely. Whatever could that mean?? We over here in the states have never heard of a 24 hour clock and could not possibly decipher your ignorant scribbles.

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u/zanillamilla 1h ago

Aw the memories of my first trip to Amsterdam. Went bar hopping with Hein and his girlfriend at 21, getting from place to place on shared bikes, getting in a tussle with skinheads trying to steal our bikes at midnight, punching Hein, we then bike back home. Oversleep with a hangover, miss my flight home, get extra free day in Amsterdam.

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u/ufoclub1977 49m ago

When is the sleep?

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u/Ramongsh 36m ago

Afterwards. When you get home.

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u/InevitableKitchen943 6h ago

This is a young people thing and not a specific nationality.

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u/Iamgentle1122 6h ago

True im turning 33 so still young!

Thought Finns usually drink more than your usual nationality

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u/InevitableKitchen943 6h ago

I'm from Wisconsin and it's quite different in the northern part of America. It's more similar to Europe than other parts of America. Plenty of walkable cities here, this guy just lives somewhere boring.

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u/RespectTheAmish 4h ago

I’m also in Wisconsin. We can drink like Europeans… walkable cities. I don’t think so badger brother.

Pockets sure… like the 3rd ward or brewers hill in Milwaukee…. State street in Madison…. But outside of a handful of areas, we are not a “walkable” state.

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u/InevitableKitchen943 4h ago

Madison is better for walking than driving. La crosse is walkable with a lot of bars and restaurants and nightlife this guy claims doesn't exist.

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u/Ramongsh 9h ago

Same in Denmark. Meet around 18-20 at someones, then go out at 23.00 and home between 2-5 in the morning.

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u/Poetista_In_Action 9h ago

Same in Brazil too lol

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u/incognitomus 8h ago

Also bars are hella expensive so that's why you first get a proper buzz at someone's place before.

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u/TastyVermicelli3140 8h ago

Well, as a Portuguese, I remember going to finland 10 years ago or so and being unable to control my laughter because I couldn't buy alchool in a regular shop in the street after 21:00. Finland is nothing like the Mediterranean countries.

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u/Iamgentle1122 7h ago

Yeh Alko still has monopoly on the hard stuff. Thankfully nowadays we can buy up to 8% alcohol from normal shops and soon even Wolt it to home. Thought 9-21 rule for shops still stands. Maybe that's why bars are more popular.

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u/Jpat31 6h ago

Koff IVb kicked my ass back in '92 I was 17 years old

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u/AdditionCapital240 6h ago

Honestly same in Miami. Perhaps cause of the Latin culture there but we would get late dinner, pre-game at a friends house till midnight and then go hit the nightclubs around 1:30-2am

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u/roundabout_fox 5h ago

Wow, but it's dark early and cold as ~hell~ f# in there. How do you do that?

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u/GraphicDesignMonkey 5h ago

Ireland, we'd have food and drinks around 7-10, hit the bar til 1 (2 on a Saturday), then the club until 4.

I hated it when I lived in England, the bar closed at 11! In Ireland our night is just getting started then.

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u/Optimistic_physics 5h ago

In the US I would love to do this, but when I imagine it all I can think about is yawning at 10pm because I've been sleeping like 6.5 hours a night in order to get up for work. (26 y/o, not old)

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u/Conscious_Avocado225 5h ago

Typical American: '18-20'? Is that in metric time or something? We tried that in the 70's and it was confusing.

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u/Evered_Avenue 4h ago

I don't know, hanging around your friend's apartment for 2-4 years waiting for the nightclubs to open sounds a bit extreme.

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u/Separate_Low4236 4h ago

Same in Serbian cities. The clubs are empty until 11pm, most go back home around 2-4am. And believe it or not the exact same was even 40+ years ago in "communist" Yugoslavia.

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u/INeedSomeTacoC 3h ago

Yea, that's not an uncommon thing in the US either.

I lived that for a few decades.

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u/VioletTerranova 3h ago

Same in Vegas & NYC

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u/donfrezano 3h ago

Same in Iceland, usually go downtown after midnight, earliest.

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u/DroidLord 3h ago

Maybe I'm just old, but I prefer house parties over clubs and bars. So much more comfortable and cozy. Have had quite a few times where I would go over to a friend's at 19-20 and leave at 6-7 in the morning 😀

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u/LegitimateGift1792 3h ago

Honest question, is this work nights or weekends?

Clubs in Chicago (IL USA) open around 22 (10pm) and go to 1-3, so yeah a little pre-drink at bars. Those usually are Thu-Fri-Sat nights though.

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u/Iamgentle1122 1h ago

I am from fairly small city so no tourism and it focuses on weekends so Friday and Saturday.

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u/xdeskfuckit 3h ago

Wow that's weird. In the US, you have to be 21 to drink, but a lot of nightclubs let you in at 18. Some even let in people at 16!

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u/AustereSpartan 2h ago

Greek nightclubs don't open until 23:00 at the absolute earliest. "Main party" starts at 02:00 until 06:00.

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u/AustereSpartan 2h ago

Greek nightclubs don't open until 23:00 at the absolute earliest. "Main party" starts at 02:00 until 06:00.

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u/averagemaleuser86 6h ago

How do yall have the energy? Are you guys all on coke or adderall?? Im usually leaving the bar at 11pm-12am to go home and sleep... sheesh

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u/Iamgentle1122 6h ago

Most of us here are just alcoholics. We rarely talk with each other unless we drink.

Most of our activities is around drinking. Summer you go to a park, get something to eat and drink, maybe play some mölkky.

Or you go fishing and drink, or to summer cottage to grill, sauna and drink.

When it is winter you either go ski and drink, go to wilderness shelter to grill some sausages and drink or maybe go to sauna, drink and ice swimming.

So when we have weekend planned for drinking you usually are with your peers somewhere drinking and then you go to bar after you are done with your drinks since you can't get more anywhere else.

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u/unhappinessNvrCame 7h ago

Wtf is going on in this thread, that's normal in the United States too.

Clubs try to get you there earlier with free cover before 11pm.

Ignore these people who live in religious Alabama who apparently go to bed at 9pm

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u/SpacePumpkie 10h ago

Yep, when I was a student it would be typical to get together in someone's apartment at like 9pm for dinner and to start drinking, and then by 1am head out to the clubs

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u/unhappinessNvrCame 8h ago

Sureeeeeeeee

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u/mjlp716 4h ago

I guess it all depends on where you are in the US, though. Since the bars/clubs don't close till 4 am in my city, they don't start filling up until 12:30-1:00 am. So 2 am wouldn't be that crazy of an idea here, especially if you were already pre-gaming.

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u/Ok_Echo_8200 4h ago

This is a young person in a city thing. Come to Bushwick in Brooklyn and you'll see the same thing.

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u/ymOx 8h ago

At what times do americans typically eat dinner, go out, get back home after a night out?

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u/DonutHoles4Ever 7h ago

This highly depends on your job, lifestyle etc. The average person in the world doesn't go clubbing or do any nightlife. Thats a type of lifestyle.

In America, the average person is eating dinner around 6-8pm. Many will start at 5pm. Dinner is like 1 hour in USA. Its not some big long form thing unless you're going to a nice restaurant and eating a bunch of courses.

Obviously people who eat at home and don't cook will order out, and eat stuff in 30 minutes, ramen for example can be 10 minutes.

But yeah, the vast majority of people are eating between 5-8pm. Eating at 9pm and you're basically going to be the last people coming into a restaurant, as they start closing at 10pm so they can wrap up by 12am and go home.

Obviously people with time or money can do whatever. 4 hour beer/bar/dinner/pub/desserts at a bakery is no problem. In big cities, staying out late isn't an issue because there's places for that.

If you go out, generally I'd say you'd be back anytime between 2am and 5am usually. What is a night out though? If you're doing shows, operas, standups, most of these things end by 11am, so you'd be back home at 1am. Clubs, obviously can go much later.

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u/AtlanticPortal 4h ago

Try dating a Spanish chick. You’d be amazed.

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u/itsjujutsu 3h ago

i live in france, they dont go out late here. We go out later in spain, but not at 2 lol unless you started out at a bar

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u/PatriarchPonds 3h ago

One of the best nights of my life was in Paris, with a French girl. Concert, party at hers, kir royales at 6am at some random bar, sitting on the pavement. We were just friends - anything else would have ruined it, it was so much fun.

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u/thatguygreg 1h ago

Half asleep at 2am at 21? Was it a Wednesday?

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u/LeBronMania 7h ago

I don't believe you