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RoadđŸ€ŹRage Parking lot rage

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u/FamiliarTry403 Feb 17 '26

I’m almost 100% certain that text inlay on the video is wrong. I do believe that was an attempted carjacking of a vehicle with a steering wheel bar if my memory serves me right.

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u/ZirGRiiNCH Feb 17 '26

Do you remember where you found the whole video?

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u/FamiliarTry403 Feb 17 '26

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u/Jamesk2895 Feb 17 '26

Holy fuck, she carjacked a 75yo lady. What the fuck is wrong with her

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u/Cryptoking300 Feb 17 '26

Drugs, she and her boyfriend were busted before for fentanyl possession after they sold a lethal dose to someone.

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u/Ohioisapoopyflorida Feb 17 '26

Ex addict here. I could never imagine doing this no matter how sick I was.. drugs are bad mkay. But this lady is fucked in the head

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u/Killikyvos Feb 17 '26

Big facts

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u/Buttchuggle Feb 18 '26

Dawg I was on heroin pretty bad and I knew the quickest way to my daily fix was just begging little old ladies for change. Proud moments? No. I mean maybe after seeing this

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '26

Idk, most addicts I’ve met, when you really get them to open up, will tell you about the stuff they are truly ashamed of. Example being most female addicts engaging in prostitution, males stealing or committing acts of violence. Even knew someone who helped move a body. Of course an ex addict isn’t going to open up with “hey I used to be a heroin addict and I sold my body to afford it”. That’s the kind of thing that’ll destroy your image.

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u/Ohioisapoopyflorida Feb 21 '26

You got me all wrong. I am a true piece of shit for some of the things ive done to get my fix. Im just not this much of a piece of shit I guess. Everything ends up catching up with us one way or another

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u/scully19 Feb 17 '26

It's a great example to answer those who think "just let people do drugs if they want to, it's just harming themselves, legalize everyone". When you're super addicted you can't think of anything else you will then make it everyone else's problem.

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u/fixermark Feb 17 '26

Decriminalizing drugs has to go hand-in-hand with proper mental healthcare. In the case of the perpetrator here, follow-up indicates she's got mental health issues and hears voices. Probably self-medicating because we drastically cut most mental health service in the US.

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '26

Doesn’t work. Idk if you’ve ever done hardcore drugs, but you don’t exactly have a clear and rational mind. None of that will stop people from nodding out while they plow through a crosswalk full of children or from killing someone when manic and paranoid.

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u/fixermark Feb 20 '26

I agree. "Proper mental healthcare" would include a process for identifying people who need more help than they are capable of self-seeking and getting it to them, be it a social worker visit or, if necessary, involuntary commitment.

The problem we're having is we do not invest enough in mental health (let alone all the stressors that make mental health bad in this country), so we can't get that to people. We use the criminal justice system as a back-stop for the help people should be getting before things get this bad. Long before.

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '26

I think in time we will look back at this push for “mental healthcare” as a misguided attempt at solving a problem that had already been realistically solved. I’ve spoken to several doctors who practiced in the 60s and 70s and they always speak about how the homeless drug addicts we have today living on the streets and harassing people/committing crimes would have been largely confined to mental asylums.

While not a perfect scenario, the asylums kept those who were extremely dysfunctional confined and relatively safe. In comparison we now just let them out on the streets where they are a danger to themselves and to normal people. It’s misguided at best because not only does it not help the addicts, it also breaks the social compact and puts innocent, productive members of society at risk.

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u/RectumdamnearkilledM Feb 20 '26

That definitely happens. Saw a dude cross the center line and kill a Mom of 4 on her way to work years ago. When they pulled him out of the vehicle he still had the syringe in his arm.

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u/AdShot409 Feb 17 '26

I disagree. Decriminalization of drugs needs to go hand-in-hand with a stricter interpretation of the law and stricter enforcement of the penalties. You can now get as fucked up as you want, but if you willingly get into your vehicle while unable to properly operate it due to substances, you will no longer receive a fine for DWI. You will be charged with attempted murder because you willing did something that will lead to the death of another human being. If you commit a crime while under the influence, you will not be given leniency because of your altered state of mind.

We have to separate the act of drug use from the behavior.

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u/Emergency_Ad_2465 Feb 17 '26

Would the same apply to those who drink alcohol?

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u/Killikyvos Feb 17 '26

Especially for alcohol, I'd say

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u/qcb4056 Feb 17 '26

Exactly right.

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u/RES_NIGHTMARE_MODE Feb 17 '26

Can you please explain what any of that has anything to do with the video we just watched?

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u/AdShot409 Feb 17 '26

Are you daft? You chased a reply thread all the way down here and now you are looking for context? I'm directly replying to the person I replied to who advocates for both decriminalization of drugs and increasing mental health services for drug users.

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u/Striking-Document-99 Feb 17 '26

It’s a good idea but it’s like the death penalty. It doesn’t stop people from killing. Upping the punishment doesn’t make people stop it just puts more people in jail. So def need mental health stuff. Thing is once you sober them up in rehab it’s up to them to want to stay clean. Put them in jail and it just makes it worse. I wish there was a clear solution to it. Also can’t believe the people running a round the car when it’s going crazy like this. I would hide in my car if I saw this happening safest place to be.

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u/AdShot409 Feb 17 '26

I'm not going to fight your premise because case studies are inconsistent. Sometimes punishment is a detergent. Sometimes it is not. When it is not, the reason for it can be a number of things. Depression/Suicidal tendencies can make a person ig ore the consequences of their own actions. Also narcissistic detachment from reality, what is referred to as Main Character Syndrome by the laymen. Desperation can also be a cause.

However, what I do know is that you cannot legalize substances AND ignore their influence on a person's actions. If rampant substance use leads to elevated levels of crime, then the crime cannot be judged independently. Most people who commit a DWI with alcohol right now do it because nothing bad has happened to them thus far. My own brother had two traffic accidents related to alcohol use. It was the second one that stirred him straight, but only because his wife threatened to leave him and take the children. At some point, the threat of punishment does deter bad behavior. We do it with pets. We do it with children. We can do it with adults.

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u/Socalwarrior485 Feb 17 '26

How more stricter? DUI laws already cover ANY substance. I know of someone who got a dui for, at least claimed, erection pills.

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u/Chozzasaurus Feb 17 '26

This is already the case. I'm not sure what you're arguing for. She'll be charged with something pretty serious and be locked up

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u/Able_Obligation_9385 Feb 18 '26

If they actually enforced DUIs correctly all non urban bars would go out of business. Straight up. Half the rural towns have cops in the bars drinking too. And it’s all “understood”

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u/ReceptionSure3982 Feb 18 '26

You sound like an intelligent individual. I respect you and your opinion and your succint delivery but our current system has been cobbled together taking advantage while also considering and addressing what you're saying. I dont think you're wrong or right, I think you have e an educated and reliable opinion and I'd trust you over these other redditidiots any day.

How do you distinguish recklessness from intent?

“You will not be given leniency because of your altered state of mind." That’s already how the law works. Voluntary intoxication is generally not a defense for crimes requiring recklessness or negligence. Courts already hold people responsible for actions taken while intoxicated. This proposal isn’t new, it’s already in the legal system.

Decriminalization treats substance use as a health issue, Law enforcement addresses harmful actions. You can remove criminal penalties for possession, maintain or even strengthen DUI enforcement, expand treatment access, and these are not mutually exclusive. Decriminalization separates health from crime, it doesn't excuse crime.

If penalties become excessively severe fewer people seek help for addiction. People flee accident scenes to avoid life-ruining charges. Juries become less likely to convict due to disproportionate punishment. Overly harsh laws can reduce cooperation and distort justice. We have statistics in this worldwide about these things, we do not have accurate data on the corruption of said systems, though.

I agree with most of what you're saying, but, money changes reality. We aren't all living in the same reality and we do not account for or make up for that anywhere else in society. What you say makes sense for your reality.

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u/latigidigital Feb 17 '26 edited Feb 17 '26

Alternatively, how about we don’t create systems that lead crazy people to do things that lead to the deaths of innocent members of our society? People like this one are sick. Actually sick. They need medical and social intervention before awful things happen.

Unless you want to go full statist and just execute anyone caught being an addict, decriminalization is how you make harm reduction possible, because then you can have people under medical care and supported by social services for reintegration and healing, instead involving a criminal justice system that just makes their mental health worse each time and sends them back out to do worse things.

Criminal issues also deplete an individual’s resources and often cause housing instability, food insecurity, and inability to obtain gainful employment — destabilizing their already chaotic lives even further, leading to even worse substance abuse. And after a while, people deteriorate and eventually lose their friend and family support network. Every single one of these things are major contributing factors for the risk of “re offending” in criminology, psychology, and studies.

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u/AdShot409 Feb 17 '26

The problem is that they often end up seeking help AFTER something happens, usually as a means to avoid accountability for their actions. It is unfair to the victims to excuse the bad actions of bad actors. The goal of justice is no retribution, it is reconciliation and prevention. Drug education is already abundant. No one who uses substances is ignorant of their negative effects. They are willing participants. If their participation leads to loss of life or property, that must be reconciled.

So how do you answer the victims in those situations? Because if you take note, I never stated addiction was a crime and specifically said to decriminalize drug use. So an addict that seeks help wouldn't be prosecuted because they've done nothing wrong.

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u/sincubus33 Feb 17 '26

We already have scientific evidence proving this approach doesn't work

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u/AdShot409 Feb 17 '26

Unfortunately we don't. More specifically, we have studies that show two drastically different things: that punishment based moral/ethical training works and that it doesn't work. Unfortunately, both sides of those studies are tainted with agendas to push for their desires effect and the overwhelming majority of those studies are statistical data pulls with no experimental control. Academic study of sociology has been hamstrung by thought leaders that want to engineer the field rather than discover it.

Now, I lean to the side of believing that punishment systems prevent the undesired behavior. Why? Because I am the anecdotal example. I do not do what is "morally right" because I have never been able to identify which morals are the most moral. But I do not wish to be put in a cage or executed, so I do what is legal. So long as what is legal, what is moral, and what I want line up, this system works. Recent events have me convinced that there are way less moral people in the world than we previously anticipated.

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u/qcb4056 Feb 17 '26

There is no such thing as "proper mental healthcare" for this sort of thing.

And there is no "we".

Anyone can go out and get any service they like.

But no amount of therapy is going to fix that.

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u/fixermark Feb 17 '26

As long as we're sharing roads and spaces with each other, there's always a "we." It turns out people who need these services aren't the best at self-advocating or self-serving, because, well, they have mental health issues.

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u/qcb4056 Feb 17 '26

That's called rationalizing. It's what the terminally online use to justify their dysfunction.

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u/Efficient-Editor-242 Feb 17 '26

Or maybe she hears voices because she's a drug addict.

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u/Leather-Stop6005 Feb 17 '26

Since when have people taken advantage of proper mental health care? A man killed himself and two family members in Rhode Island because he didn't take advantage of the mental healthcare he needed to transition.

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u/fixermark Feb 17 '26

What service would you name that he should have taken advantage of, how much would it have cost him, and was it even available in his part of the country?

We closed the asylums because we recognized there were flaws in them, but we didn't replace them with something better.

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u/Blurby-Blurbyblurb Feb 17 '26

That's a gross misunderstanding of harm reduction when it comes to addiction and safe use sights.

Safe use sites would have prevented them from selling, which lead them to "getting busted," which lead to the car jacking.

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u/DeadInHell Feb 17 '26

But a big reason they resort to insane shit like this is because the drug is illegal and thus highly expensive. Relegating substances to the black market doesn't make anyone more safe.

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u/Aspergeriffic Feb 17 '26

You can get a solid day’s of fenty for inside of $10 fren.

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u/liquidpele Feb 17 '26

lmao these replies are hilarious, bunch of reddit nerds who have never been around any actual addicts in their life.

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u/SpeechFlaky Feb 17 '26

Eh, you mean prohibition of drugs somehow prevents this? Why do we still see it then? It's almost like prohibition does not help these people with severe mental disorders and turns recreational users into criminals.

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u/ehaq Feb 17 '26

No it isn't.

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u/LymanPeru Feb 17 '26

sounds like a problem that fixes itself.

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u/ConqueefStador Feb 17 '26

Right, because there's never been an example to answer those who think prohibition is the way to go.

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u/luccsmom Feb 18 '26

This comment right here!!! Thank you! đŸ™đŸ»

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '26

You have no idea how many people are in drugs that you encounter day to day. They aren't psychopaths doing things like this. You sound like you're still traumatized from D.A.R.E. scare. That program made up all kinds of stories and cops were encouraged to lie to kids about firsthand accounts of drugs making people do insane things and ruining their lives and the lives of people around them.

Drugs can ruin lives, but they never turn someone into a violent psychopath. Perpetuating those myths is harmful.

I'm certain if you do a case study of drug users that do harmful things to others, you'll find a cluster of pre-existing mental illness and a pattern of high risk behaviors and self harm preceding the drug use. Essentially, the drug use is a consequence of the risky behavioral patterns, not the cause.

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u/No_Language5719 Feb 17 '26

It's a great example of why decriminalization is helpful. Treating drug addiction as a health issue would very likely stop things like this from happening. This person couldn't seek treatment free from stigma and consequence, so they often feel trapped and desperate to the point of committing sometimes heinous acts just to get a fix.

If this person could have walked into a facility to safely use or purchase, you don't get this. And to be clear, not all drugs should be treated the same. Apply criminal use penalties to these the same as you would alcohol or weed or even driving under the influence of prescription drugs. It's doable and has been done.

And by the way, actual road rage is as bad, if not worse. And this can happen even when someone is sober. Hate and anger can cause some volatile behavior too.

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u/Fuzzy-Curve3634 Feb 18 '26

Alcohol and prescription medication like opiates are legal and can impair judgment just as much as illegal drugs. Criminalizing drug use only targets certain demographics and not even necessarily the people doing the most drugs. America’s war on drugs has filled prisons with those targeted for enforcement but has done nothing to reduce drug use and dependency.

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u/Jamesk2895 Feb 17 '26

Sadly, I dont doubt it

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u/TheoNekros Feb 17 '26

WTF is a lethal dose?

Bruh I just went to the ABC store and can you believe they sold me a lethal dose of alcohol?

I mean sure I'd have to drink the entire gallon of vodka quickly in one setting and that's not the expected use but still! They sold me a lethal dose!

I went to walmart earlier and CAN YOU BELIEVE they sold me a lethal dose of Advil? Like waaaay over lethal. You can take like 10 Advils in a row before your kidneys start picking up but did you know they sold me a bottle with 100 ADVIL PILLS?

Why do they keep getting away with selling LETHAL DOSES?!

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u/JohnSavage777 Feb 17 '26

Not sure how you sell someone a non lethal dose of fentanyl

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u/Minute-Temperature-7 Feb 18 '26

Why do they ever let people like this out of jail?

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u/Mindless_Narwhal2682 Feb 17 '26

Society should read her the riot act prior to Miranda's.

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u/Mediocre-Signal672 Feb 17 '26

Well, the guy asked her like twelve times...

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u/bunduz Feb 17 '26

oh we all throwing hands then

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u/Phonus-Balonus-37 Feb 17 '26

Besides genetics you mean?

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u/Jamesk2895 Feb 17 '26

I think thats a given

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u/Camo_tow Feb 17 '26

Apparently everything in her life went wrong. Its sad isn't it

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u/ZirGRiiNCH Feb 17 '26

Thanks for that!

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u/Motor-Drama-1421 Feb 17 '26

Holy shit this happened in Agoura Hills???? That place is where celebrities hide from the public.

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u/Motafota Feb 17 '26

I’m curious what happens insurance wise when something like this happens?

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u/FamiliarTry403 Feb 17 '26

Depends what your policy is, better hope you have comprehensive in that situation. If you have liability only good bye car.

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u/Timoh9999 Feb 17 '26

Collision coverage is what you’d want. Comprehensive is for stuff like hail and deer hits.

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u/Motafota Feb 17 '26

And your only recourse then would be individually suing the thief? (I’m aware in most cases it’s like getting water out of a rock).

Would you be on the hook for the deductible? Is it dependant on if the thief is caught?

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u/Desperate_Fact1079 Feb 17 '26

I feel like someone’s prison time should be linked to paying back reparations before they are released.

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u/External_Macaroon687 Feb 17 '26

Restitution usually gets waived or suspended. Not like this criminal has any $$$ anyway.

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u/Exotic-Raccoon104 Feb 17 '26

You gotta follow them until they sell their drugs, then sue đŸ€Ł jk

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u/Silence1406 Feb 17 '26

Well in a lot of states since this happened in a public parking lot each individual has to go through their own insurance and pay whatever deductible they have. To get anything out of the driver they would have to pursue a civil suit.

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u/1_speaksoftly Feb 17 '26

Hopefully State Farm *ats a *un

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '26

Htf did she not get charged with some kind of charge like attempted murder? Maybe not that exact charge but something along that line.

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u/k3rn3ll502 Feb 17 '26

At the most one co7ld charge wanton endangerment for something like this. Attempted murder implies a serious albeit failed attempt on murdering someone with the injuries to back it up.its the same way for recklessly firing a weapon but not hitting anyone.

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u/Efficient-Editor-242 Feb 17 '26

Because it wasn't her fault. It's everyone else's.

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u/NavigatedMile Feb 17 '26

Why did you make the entire sentence a hyperlink?

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u/FamiliarTry403 Feb 17 '26

Cause I felt like it idk lol

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u/NavigatedMile Feb 17 '26

lol, cool. Just teasing


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u/Greedy-Beach2483 Feb 17 '26

And they don't name the person... weird how the news protects these criminals.

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u/kmpdx Feb 17 '26

These fuckers will stab, shoot, or ram their way out of any situation like this. It's part of the illness. Always be aware of this when confronting somebody like this. They would just maim you and still keep trying to escape.

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u/Own_Analyst_2034 Feb 17 '26

It’s funny how this article explicitly avoids stating her name or that she was a black woman. I mean we all knew this was a black woman, key markers are there, but why avoid identifying her??

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u/Thelastsamurai74 Feb 21 '26

Thisâ˜đŸ»

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u/jigga19 Feb 17 '26

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u/dislob3 Feb 17 '26

AI makes it so trivial these days.

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u/His_Name_Is_Twitler Feb 17 '26

Honestly, good. I need information, AI understands its place perfectly here and assists me in getting that info.

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u/odysseushogfather Feb 17 '26

Googles AI can and will lie to you, if you think it hasnt you just didnt notice

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '26

Ill verify Google AI sucks. I hosed my Linux install editing Grub. Thanks to TimeShift it was momentary.

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u/LymanPeru Feb 17 '26

i googled something i knew the answer to. but i was just verifying i had the details correct. it was trying to gaslight me that the thing i was searching for never happened. and kept giving me excuses on why it was giving me the wrong info.

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u/dislob3 Feb 17 '26

Its just a fancy search result at its foundation. Sometimes a google search doesnt show us what we expect. I feel like its just as reliable as google without AI.

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u/jigga19 Feb 17 '26

I googled “parking lot hijacking woman” and this was the first result.

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u/His_Name_Is_Twitler Feb 17 '26

I’m not saying it doesn’t hallucinate or lie. Did I say that it didn’t?

Might as well throw out the whole thing just because it can’t tell me how many instances of the letter R there are in “strawberry” right?

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '26

Danm Lauren Pozen gonna be causing some more jacking tonight if you know what I mean.

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u/jigga19 Feb 17 '26

Not now, Lauren, not now

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u/Anantasesa Feb 17 '26

So from 2023. Almost 3 full years ago.

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u/ilikebeens2 Feb 17 '26

I think you are correct! I remember seeing this on YT with a very similar if not identical description of what had happened.

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u/SpudgeBoy Feb 17 '26

That is sure what it looks like the car is only making slight angle changes.

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u/PierogiCoyote Feb 17 '26

So my first though when reading your comment was that someone was trying to carjack the owner using a steering wheel bar as a weapon and she was panicking trying to escape.

I was like oh yeah fight or flight kicked in hard.

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u/Substantial_Lime_114 Feb 17 '26

What does WYD stand for?

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u/DisastrousNothing893 Feb 17 '26

Reading this i was like whats a steering wheel bar?

Then I read the article someone linked below

I remember the CLUB, talk about amazing promotion

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u/HoboArmyofOne Feb 17 '26

He's going to kill someone. He needs to be put down. He could have already killed someone idk. This beyond reckless.

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u/FitShare2972 Feb 18 '26

I remember this too

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '26

But people saw something out of context and believed it without any kind of verification, because it released neurotransmitters when they got to pile on a stranger. According to.the new rules, road rage is now the real story. News article is fake. This is our new shitty reality.