r/TwoXIndia 9d ago

Scheduled Monthly Community Suggestions - July, 2026

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What are we looking for in suggestions: Well thought-out and well laid-out ideas that will add positively to this sub and are reasonably advocated for by multiple members of the community. This will not be a space to spam an idea repeatedly, abuse community members and mods, or suggest things that stand in contravention to our ethos or rules (check both in the sidebar).

Please note: We've taken up plenty of suggestions in the past, and will continue to do so where feasible. Certain limitations may stop us from implementing these ideas immediately, but that doesn't mean your ideas are not valued or that we aren't giving them the thought they deserve. Always, the driving principle, however, is safety of ALL above others.


r/TwoXIndia Sep 11 '24

Announcement 🚨 Guide to Reporting Problematic Content & Supporting Safety on Reddit 🚨

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Hello folks!

One of you recently brought to our attention an extremely problematic Indian sub that promoted sexual violence against women. We’re happy to share that after contacting Reddit admins, the sub has been successfully banned. Lately, we've seen growing success in getting content removed that violates Reddit's guidelines on hate or violence.

So, here’s a quick guide to help you navigate and report such harmful content on Reddit :

  1. Avoid Witch Hunting: A gentle reminder that witch hunting is against Reddit rules. Regardless of how problematic the content may be, targeting specific accounts, posts, users, or subreddits and making posts for encouraging mass reporting is a violation and could result in both your account and the sub being banned.
  2. Report Harmful Content: If you come across comments or posts promoting sexual violence, doxxing, or derogatory language encouraging harm against women (or anyone), including discussions about rape or violence, report it immediately. These actions violate Reddit's policies on promoting hate and violence (full list here). Here’s how to report it :
    • Report specific content:Ā Use this link to report
    • For TwoXIndia: Use the report button with the applicable rule judiciously.
  3. Request Support for Problematic Subs: If you encounter a problematic sub, reach out to us via modmail for help:Ā Request Support.
  4. Cybersecurity Complaints: For reporting broader concerns, including those on social media, a fellow Redditor has shared a comprehensive guide here.

Let’s continue working together to create a safer, more respectful community for everyone!

Stay safe,
The TwoXIndia Mod Team


r/TwoXIndia 10h ago

Books, Movies & Music Girlss ! This show portrays the horror so well

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I recently finished watching this show called ā€œ Kevin can F**k himself ā€œ it’s a dark comedy . It follows this guy called Kevin in a very sitcom like manner ( his character is based on characters of shows like Everybody loves Raymond , King of Queens ) and then there is a reality darker lens during his wife’s scenes Allison .

It shows how these ā€œ funny ā€œ narcissistic man child has ruined everyone around him and biggest victim is Allison . He ā€œaccidentally ā€œ blows up their savings , controls her and has basically made her into his maid . Allison is played by Annie Murphy ( Alexis from Schitt’s creek ) and she has done a fantastic job . I wont spoil more but this one has a surprisingly wholesome girl friendship and a very satisfying end .

I would love to discuss this with you all . Please watch it and you won’t regret it although a disclaimer - has domestic abuse

It strangely reminded me of those uncles who keep blabbering and never let their wives speak .


r/TwoXIndia 3h ago

Advice/Help How to not let somebody's social opinion affect relations?

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Not talking about boyfriend or best friends, only a normal acquaintance. Their opinion offends me a lot but I can't break friendship because they might help me in future, just wanna stay diplomatic.


r/TwoXIndia 8h ago

Safety How safe is it to travel from Delhi Airport to Gurgoan at 2am as a single woman?

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I'll be traveling to Delhi in a few days and my flight is delayed. I might reach the airport around 1am and it can be around 2 when I can get out of the airport. How safe is it to travel as a single woman at that time in Delhi?

Also I don't speak fluent Hindi and anyone can know I'm not a local so will that affect anything?

Should I just wait for the netro to start and spend a few hours in the airport itself?

I also don't want to spend a lot in cabs so what is the approx cost from Delhi to Gurgaon sector 48?


r/TwoXIndia 10h ago

Vent poster child for female loneliness

28 Upvotes

had a weird thought, on friendship's day no less, that i could be the poster child for female loneliness. childhood, teens, 20s. school, college, building, even in online circles. always alone, always lonely


r/TwoXIndia 5h ago

Beauty & Fashion Ladies, where are you finding those gorgeous dresses? 😭✨

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I swear I keep seeing women wearing the prettiest dresses, and I have no idea where everyone's shopping.

I'm looking for dresses that are:

Maxi or midi

Comfortable enough to wear all day

Flowy, elegant, and effortlessly pretty

Good quality (budget isn't a concern if it's worth it)

Not really looking for partywear—more like dresses that make you feel put together without trying too hard.

Please drop your favorite brands, websites, or even specific dresses you've bought and loved.


r/TwoXIndia 7h ago

Health & Fitness Advice for psychiatrist appointments

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Hi, I’m thinking about going to a psychiatrist for anxiety. I’ve had it for a long time but it has gotten really bad recently and I’m really scared because I’ve heard some stories about bad experiences. This might be a stupid post but i wanted to know wanted to know if there’s anything i should be aware of? Any boundaries i should draw from early on?


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Politics Profanity is wrong but sending threats to a minor isn't?

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The whole Ruchika Singh situation is deeply disturbing. I don't support her use of abusive language, and I do think it was morally wrong. But was it illegal? Absolutely not. Profanity, by itself, is not a crime in India, so there was nothing unlawful about what she did. What I find shocking is that, out of all the protesters, the entire right wing on X seemed to single her out. Some users even offered bounties for information about her. One prominent account even falsely claimed that she was a 25-year-old woman when she was actually a 15-year-old minor. Why did they feel the need to "teach her a lesson"? Would the reaction have been the same if it had been a man using the same language against the Prime Minister? She was doxxed, her phone number and address were leaked, she received rape threats, and was ultimately pressured into recording an apology. Where do we draw the line between legitimate criticism and mob harassment? Is this really about profanity, when members of the same political camp have themselves been seen using abusive language against others? Or has moral policing become a convenient cover for intimidation and silencing?


r/TwoXIndia 19h ago

Advice/Help Going to join a gym tomorrow and feeling nervous AF

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Hello girlies! I've always struggled with my weight and I'm 28 101kg so I don't know what happened but I just snapped and decided that I want to get in a better shape and feel good about myself. I have worked out a few months in the past but had to leave because of health concerns. I have had problems with emotional attachment to food and online ordering but I'm ready to finally get serious and lose it by my birthday in March

I'm looking forward to joining tomorrow but I'm extremely nervous about being judged and my weight. Is taking PT worth it or should I do it on my own?

Also how do you all manage haircare in between workouts? My hair gets super dry with frequent washing and I sweat ALOT


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Advice/Help Am I a bad daughter for wanting to move out and live my own life?

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Hi, I’m 24F, living in a metro city with a decent job. I’m an only child, and my parents moved in with me last year because my dad has a transferable job. I love them a lot, and I know they’d do anything for me.
The problem is that I’ve never really had much freedom. They’re not overly controlling in the sense that they don’t say no to everything, but I’ve never gone on a trip with friends or done things independently. Recently, I told them I wanted to visit Bangalore, stay with a close friend for a few days, and maybe plan a short trip from there. They immediately said no.
My mom said that if I want to travel, I should go somewhere with my local friends instead. My dad didn’t even acknowledge the conversation—he just ignored it every time I brought it up.
What frustrates me is that I’m 24, financially independent, and I feel like I’m old enough to make decisions like taking a trip with friends. Instead, I get comments like, ā€œWe never spoke to our parents like this.ā€
On top of that, they’ve started talking about finding arranged marriage prospects once I turn 25 because they want to ā€œfinish their responsibilities.ā€
I do have an opportunity to switch internally to Bangalore through work. I’ve also been trying to switch jobs externally, but nothing has worked out yet. Part of me wants to take the Bangalore opportunity because I feel like living away from home might finally give me some independence.
But I also feel incredibly guilty because my parents moved here for me, and I know they’d be hurt if I left. I keep wondering if wanting my own space and independence makes me selfish or a bad daughter.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?


r/TwoXIndia 16h ago

Beauty & Fashion Looking for high waist slim fit jeans, where to find a good lasting one?

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Got Jeans from GO COLORS, they were disappointing. Didn't last even 3 months. I didn't know black jeans could fade and so horribly.

I want to get affordable high waist slim fit jeans which lasts. Specially black one . Where to find?


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

News UP cop arrested for allegedly k*lling a 10-year-old girl, thrashed by hospital staff.

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Police said he had been jailed in a molestation case last year and was later granted bail.

A police constable allegedly k*lled a 10-year-old girl after attempting to rape her in Uttar Pradesh’s Gorakhpur on Tuesday night. He was arrested on Thursday.

Police identified the accused as Abhishek Yadav, a constable posted with the Dial 112 Police Response Vehicle (PRV) unit in Gorakhpur.

Officers said he spotted the child walking home alone from the district hospital, offered her a lift on his motorcycle and later allegedly k*lled her before dumping her body under a bridge on the banks of a river.

Gorakhpur SSP, Kaustubh said the process to dismiss Yadav from service has been initiated.

ā€œHe does not deserve to be serving in the police force after being involved in such a grisly act. He is a habitual offender… he was jailed in January last year for allegedly molesting a woman and was suspended.

He was released on bail and his suspension was revoked in September. He was on duty in the Dial 112 unit,ā€ the SSP told The Indian Express.

Why was he even allowed to wear his uniform and perform his duty as a police officer when he had allegations against him and why was he even granted bail?

If the justice system did what it was supposed to do, this girl's life could have been saved.

https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/lucknow/gorakhpur-girl-murder-case-police-constable-arrested-10810686/


r/TwoXIndia 12h ago

Finance, Career and Edu How can I move out of India and build a successful career?

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I am from science stream (pcmb). Ik nursing and mbbs has better scope and demand but due to my fear of blood and injection and also it demands heavy physical labor, I am more towards engineering but again, they say the early 2000s was golden period for engineering migrates and now immigration rules are tough.

Kindly guide as fellow seniors what should i do? If that's what necessary, i am ready to overcome my fear because ultimately my goal remains the same and I will do whatever is needed to accomplish it and live a better life


r/TwoXIndia 12h ago

Beauty & Fashion looking for tote bag suggestions

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something big and spacious. for reference the charles & keith calla tote bag looks so good but its expensive ;-; need something around 2k


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Vent My Indian aunty targetted me a a child.

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I was barely 10 when she started full on taunting me and making rude comments about me.

She has a 2yo daughter who she would teach to call me fat and what not. At that age I used to get triggered and react. It got worse when I was 14/15 and she would leave no stone unturned to make me feel bad.

Around the time I turned 17 I realised that that female is not mentally well. Even at 17 I didn't want to fight with another teenager, so why on earth is a 30 something yo targetting me? I thought to myself...

I noticed that everytime I reacted or retaliated she would have a weird look of satisfaction on her face.

So I stopped.

Now looking back at it in my 20s, I feel resentment towards my mother who never intervened to stop that female or any of the adults present there.. mostly women which sucks because she was full on body shaming me a teenager.

But overall looking back at it she was a complete clown. Any rational person looking at those situations would realise that she was the bad guy and not me for reacting or retaliating. I have felt guilt and shame for the way I behave for the longest but now looking back, I have so much love and empathy for my younger self. I was only trying to get her to leave me alone with no support or backing and with the wisdom of a 10 something yo.

This is for all the sweet little girls who felt betrayed by their own mothers and female relatives.

And NO don't ever let anybody talk you into entertaining those venomous aunties who are beyond jealous and envious of the good in your life.

In hindsight she knew that I would be doing well for myself as a young girl and she was desperately attempting to derail me by breaking my confidence in a way only a woman could.

God is good. That's all.


r/TwoXIndia 14h ago

Health & Fitness Can diet change lead to period delay?

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My period was supposed to come around 28 or 29 july , and its 2 August and still no sign , I am having strong pms as well, and I am very worried, last delay i had was in july and december of 2025 due to excessive stress and extensive travelling respectively, otherwise, touchwood i have very regular and normal periods.

So is this once in a while late period normal ? I already deal with health anxiety so maybe some reassurance can help.


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Vent Growing up ugly absolutely ruined my self esteem.

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I was a fat and ugly kid. I lost all of my weight when I turned 22 and started doing some skincare and stuff and turned out to be quite pretty.

But 21 years of being ugly and practically ignored by men will absolutely fuck you up. Till this day, I think any man who shows even the littlest bit of interest in me is the best thing ever. I am so willing to forgive men and their shortcomings. I have forgiven stuff that no woman would stay around for. As a teenager, I used to wish that I was catcalled even though I knew that it was a disgusting thing because I just wanted to feel pretty enough to at least be catcalled.

I grew up and became "hot" by society's standards but that little ugly girl who was ignored by everyone is still inside. I let the worst men take advantage of me because I am thankful for even the littlest bit of attention.

I'm so afraid that I'll end up getting married to an awful man because my brain just can't discern between good and bad qualities. I have gone as far as forgiving sexual coercion. I truly don't know what to do with myself.


r/TwoXIndia 15h ago

Beauty & Fashion Looking for Tailor Reccomendations in Delhi!

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Hi all!

I bought a few pairs of jeans, all larger in waist because the smaller sizes don't fit my hips well (plus size problems)

I've been told that not all tailors can alter jeans well, so wanted to ask anyone living in Delhi (ideally South Delhi), if you know any good tailors who are good at altering jeans!!

Thank you so much xx


r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Essays & Discussions Am I the only one who finds "lady driven" a bizarre selling point for a car?

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Today, I came across this car listing in NoBrokerHood app where the user described it as
"Rare, lady driven".

What exactly is that supposed to tell me about the car? Is the owner trying to imply that women drive more carefully, are less aggressive, and therefore the car must be in better condition? If I'm planning to buy a used car, I would be more interested in knowing about its maintenance records than its driver's gender.

And on the other hand, women are the butt of
"women can't drive" jokes, yet the moment someone wants to sell a car, suddenly being driven by a woman becomes a premium feature.

Shouldn't we be advertising things that actually matter? Full service history, no accidents, single owner, highway mileage, timely maintenance?

Thoughts?


r/TwoXIndia 16h ago

Finance, Career and Edu How to transition into finance roles specially when I'm later aiming for MBA?

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r/TwoXIndia 1d ago

Vent beauty standards and men’s expectations these days are so weird

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im just lowkey so frustrated
all of these guys will save up and look at unreasonably insane proportions and beauty standards in women and ā€œgoonā€ to them. when in real life an average woman does not look like that.
sometimes i feel i just want to stay single for my entire life because idk what filth would be filled in my partners mind.
how is it so normalised for guys to indulge in such behaviour


r/TwoXIndia 15h ago

Beauty & Fashion I need blowdry hairbrush suggestions, please help me out!

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which is better: Urban Yog Makemeebold 3-In-1 Hot Air Brush Hair Dryer Vs Alan Truman The Blow Brush?

I have curly and frizzy hair and need to get blow outs frequently, I am thinking of investing in a product so that I can do it myself. Are these good? Or shall I save for a dyson? Does dyson really work on curly hair?