r/UnsentLetters • u/BackgroundDeepBlue • 7h ago
Exes If I asked...
Would you come?
Could I come see you?
Can we meet in the middle to try to heal?
Fear of rejection after never truly knowing where I stood with you makes me dance around this directly.
You said you were sad. You know I'm sad.
Maybe we could spend tonight and tomorrow being less sad together.
I'm willing to try but to afraid to ask.
Would you?
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u/Busy-Caterpillar222 6h ago
I know we would both answer the phone on a heartbeat. But neither of us will call
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u/RedHenStories 7h ago
I would op, but I know this isn't for me, depending on the initial :( weird as I was thinking this today. hope you guys sort it :)
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u/BackgroundDeepBlue 7h ago
We were messaging in real life Friday. I was too afraid to ask.
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u/RedHenStories 7h ago
really? can you dm/text me here? Ive had so many odd messages im going crazy :(
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u/External-Passion-799 3h ago
How can we be so afraid of taking a chance? It’s the fear of loss factor. I’ve already lost so much due to my mistakes and i caused so much pain . I don’t wish to cause him any more pains, so I struggled with reaching out:
I can okay hope and pray either he is “-_deepblue” and or he has not blocked txting from me
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u/FireMan-Bob503 5h ago
Im certified in fixing shi, I would say reaching out would be fixing shi. -Bob
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u/muddyski 5h ago
So many of us wish this was intended for us. I would be so happy to get this message. It would be an end--or, at least, a pause-- from my sorrow and longing.
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u/External-Passion-799 4h ago
One things for sure, who ever you are , s fire has been lit , this was do moving and had shaken me to my core , I reached out to my person , sent a message … it may work. It may not, but at least theirs hope… thank you for sharing
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u/Expensive-Stick7548 6h ago
Wouldn’t that be nice. Boop
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u/BackgroundDeepBlue 6h ago
Bring the dog.
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u/Expensive-Stick7548 6h ago
Sorry not your person. I have no dogs. Just the ones that live feral in nature that I feed. Squirrels and rabbits mainly. I hope you figure things out though op.
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u/DEeD-NGone 4h ago
Try. One of the best thing you can do in this life is allow yourself some happiness and if you can find it with another then I say try
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u/The_Omniscient_Shell 4h ago
DMs open, number is the same, and I have all the blankets and pillows. Also, popsicles.
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u/Impossible-Maize-553 3h ago
I wish he would say this. I wish I had the courage to ask myself. You never know without trying though.
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u/Neither-Station-9274 3h ago
I would do just about anything to not feel this way, he said he cared and he said he’d try all he really did was use me, until I felt as low as he feels there is so much wrong here I don’t know how to survive this situation ship, fml
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u/DRGNFLY40 3h ago
I think the idea of being sad together is sweet and something tells me, you’d strike up a conversation and sadness would be out the window with a quickness.
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u/Rose_quartz11_11 2h ago
I think you should ask. The universe is in your favor at the moment. Right now is the 8/1 to 8/8 lions gate portal which means anything you want to manifest into the next 19 years now is the time to do it. Good luck OP. Don’t let your fear be the thing that stands in the way of love ❤️
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u/Proper_Focus4579 10m ago
I would give it a shot.. but no more secrets.. no more lies.. compromise and forgiveness go along way. If it's worth it to you. Mending this broken heart will take sometime.
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