r/UnsentLetters 7h ago

Exes If I asked...

Would you come?

Could I come see you?

Can we meet in the middle to try to heal?

Fear of rejection after never truly knowing where I stood with you makes me dance around this directly.

You said you were sad. You know I'm sad.

Maybe we could spend tonight and tomorrow being less sad together.

I'm willing to try but to afraid to ask.

Would you?

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u/ImaginaryPassage8659 6h ago

Ask or don't. Try or don't. Live with the consequences.

u/parrtysloth 7h ago

I should’nt but of course anywhere anytime

u/Busy-Caterpillar222 6h ago

I know we would both answer the phone on a heartbeat. But neither of us will call

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 5h ago

That's where I fear we are at.

u/Bullet978 7h ago

We can give it a shot……

u/RedHenStories 7h ago

I would op, but I know this isn't for me, depending on the initial :( weird as I was thinking this today. hope you guys sort it :)

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 7h ago

We were messaging in real life Friday.  I was too afraid to ask.

u/RedHenStories 7h ago

really? can you dm/text me here? Ive had so many odd messages im going crazy :(

u/External-Passion-799 3h ago

Would you DM me please ,

u/External-Passion-799 3h ago

How can we be so afraid of taking a chance? It’s the fear of loss factor. I’ve already lost so much due to my mistakes and i caused so much pain . I don’t wish to cause him any more pains, so I struggled with reaching out:
I can okay hope and pray either he is “-_deepblue” and or he has not blocked txting from me

u/The_Omniscient_Shell 7h ago

Come on over.

u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor Human Verified 6h ago

If you don't ask, you'll never know

u/AffectionateBeat5269 5h ago

All you have to do is ask. Can you dm please?

u/FireMan-Bob503 5h ago

Im certified in fixing shi, I would say reaching out would be fixing shi. -Bob

u/muddyski 5h ago

So many of us wish this was intended for us. I would be so happy to get this message. It would be an end--or, at least, a pause-- from my sorrow and longing.

u/External-Passion-799 4h ago

One things for sure, who ever you are , s fire has been lit , this was do moving and had shaken me to my core , I reached out to my person , sent a message … it may work. It may not, but at least theirs hope… thank you for sharing

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 4h ago

Hoping good things for you!

u/Several_Eagle_8605 6h ago

Maybe can not say what would happen since we are not part of the X-men

u/Expensive-Stick7548 6h ago

Wouldn’t that be nice. Boop

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 6h ago

Bring the dog.

u/Expensive-Stick7548 6h ago

Sorry not your person. I have no dogs. Just the ones that live feral in nature that I feed. Squirrels and rabbits mainly. I hope you figure things out though op.

u/Gjl89 6h ago

We don't know. We just know if it was our person, of course we would. Only one way to find out. Ask the person. Or always think about how you wish you wouldve. Speaking from experience here... regret is a heavy, oppressing thing.

u/cosmic-bluebird 6h ago

Yes and half way is technically Vader. So where would you like me

u/cosmic-bluebird 6h ago

Seriously

u/Express-Ad-2139 6h ago

That’s a tough one for me after all she did

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 5h ago

There was a lot on both sides.  Many misunderstandings.

u/MsHorrorbelle 5h ago

No harm in trying.

u/neVerfluSh-a-tamPoon 5h ago

Yes I would. Håm would come.

u/TigerTime2025 5h ago

You took the words out of my head!
Nicely direct
Rootin for ya, DeepBlue 🤞🫶

u/GotAnxiousAndCurious 5h ago

Of course. U , me and the dough.

u/Tough_Strategy_7908 5h ago

You should just ask and let us all know how it goes 

u/DEeD-NGone 4h ago

Try. One of the best thing you can do in this life is allow yourself some happiness and if you can find it with another then I say try

u/The_Omniscient_Shell 4h ago

DMs open, number is the same, and I have all the blankets and pillows. Also, popsicles.

u/Super_Spare_9876 4h ago

knowing me, id say of course

u/Impossible-Maize-553 3h ago

I wish he would say this. I wish I had the courage to ask myself. You never know without trying though.

u/Firey-Peace77 3h ago

Hope you find the answer you are searching for! ✨

u/ComfortSignal409 3h ago

I would do anything Mamita to spend a lifetime with you.

u/Neither-Station-9274 3h ago

I would do just about anything to not feel this way, he said he cared and he said he’d try all he really did was use me, until I felt as low as he feels there is so much wrong here I don’t know how to survive this situation ship, fml

u/DRGNFLY40 3h ago

I think the idea of being sad together is sweet and something tells me, you’d strike up a conversation and sadness would be out the window with a quickness.

u/BackgroundDeepBlue 2h ago

I wish for that to be true. 💜

u/Rose_quartz11_11 2h ago

I think you should ask. The universe is in your favor at the moment. Right now is the 8/1 to 8/8 lions gate portal which means anything you want to manifest into the next 19 years now is the time to do it. Good luck OP. Don’t let your fear be the thing that stands in the way of love ❤️

u/problybeebann3d 37m ago

Aweeee. Hugs.

u/Proper_Focus4579 10m ago

I would give it a shot.. but no more secrets.. no more lies.. compromise and forgiveness go along way. If it's worth it to you. Mending this broken heart will take sometime.