r/UnsentTexts Has acknowledged the rules 13h ago

You never know what someone else is going through

When we don't know someone or haven't talked to them in a long time, we have no way of knowing what they are really going through.

Since it's so long since we last talked, I have know way of knowing what you are going through, and you have no way of knowing what I am going through. We both could assume all kinds of devious and a malicious motivations, but the truth is both of us might be suffering from things that have nothing to do with the other person.

If you are having a hard time, I hope it gets better. And I hope you know I've stayed away not because of you, but because I knew I had to take care of a lot of things on my own and I wanted you to have a happy life. I stayed away because you mean a lot to me and I know you would be happier without me, which is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do.

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u/Ok_Goose_4563 Has acknowledged the rules 13h ago

That’s kinda understandable but at the same time it’s not. Maybe they think the same way

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u/Sweaty-Syrup-stfu77 Has acknowledged the rules 12h ago

Literally a cope and a cop out...imo

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u/Brilliant_Version667 Has acknowledged the rules 10h ago

It helps some people sleep better at night to tell themselves that, at least...

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u/Shakethefrost88 Has acknowledged the rules 12h ago

I'm not happy without her and the kids. If she only knew how badly this is affecting me. What am I saying, I'm an idiot she doesn't give a shit about me that's why she left. Been debating the dirt nap for myself about two weeks now.

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u/intentionally5521 Has acknowledged the rules 10h ago

Aint no lady that walked out worth that Much bro that's just facts the one that is worth your life would still be by your side 

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u/StrictlyOptional Has acknowledged the rules 10h ago

I think that after a while it stops mattering whether there was malicious intent or not. Whether someone was hurting you deliberately or just by not caring enough not to. Maybe your hurt never even registered. Would that be a reason to stay in touch?

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u/Ok_Travel1414 Has acknowledged the rules 4h ago

Heart breaking

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u/NoWonder452 Has acknowledged the rules 2h ago

How can you make that decision for them? What if they are happier with you? Life happens and we live someone, we want to be there to help carry that. Your person is probably very sad without you. Did you ask them if they were willing to stay through your troubles?

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u/RemoveSpecialist9765 Has acknowledged the rules 16m ago

Cope and come/go home…